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ilovecherry86 · 04-02-2009, 10:39 AM

I am crying really hard now, all i need is Cherry, i am going through hard times in my life now and Cherry was always there to comfort me, but now she is not here..i wish she could be here, she was my best friends...
I feel so lonely without her, it's been a month but it seems like yesterday when it happened, she never leaves my head, i think about her all the time...
I seems so unfair that this happened to me...there are so many ppl with their healthy dogs, having fun with them, and i just don't think it is fair that she is gone from me so soon...
all the ppl around me don't understand me, they think that i am just exaggerating this, but they don't know what it is like to lose a best friend, we were so close, only God would understand....she just made my life complete but now i am missing that part again...i wish she would just come back, it seems so unfair...
sorry if there are so many typing errors, it is hard to type when you are crying so much..i don't want to cry anymore......

sheilannwfl · 04-02-2009, 11:07 AM

When I lost Bijou, I grieved sooooo. My dad made the comment that I lost babies and did not grieve like I did losing a "dog". Some people can not understand that though they walk on 4 legs they are much much more than just a "dog". Give yourself time to heal. Don't EVER feel guilty about grieving for your little Cherry. In mho those who can not understand the grief of losing them does not truly understand the depth of our love for them either. I kind of pity them. I pray your heartache will ease.

Lexi Rae · 04-02-2009, 12:00 PM

oh sweetie, im so sorry your in this much pain, as i would be too. just know that we are all here for you anytime ok??? im praying that god help you heal your broken heart.... i wish i could be there to give you a hug.. you take care
ok...

Patti · 04-02-2009, 01:35 PM

My heart goes out to you. It seems unbearable some days. Maybe one day you can bear to bring another on in to help fill the void a little.

bfforever · 04-02-2009, 03:57 PM

Im sorry. And, I totally know where your heart and mind are. I am still doggyless. I miss mine every day. People tell me to get another or even two more. But, I know new ones could never replace mine. That's why I am still without any.

Sweet Apple · 04-02-2009, 05:08 PM

On July 31st, 2007, I lost my best friend, Pebbles...She was an English Mastiff...ironic, right? I absolutely ached in my body, I missed her so much...It took me a year and a half to get another best friend...I love my little Apple so much, but I will never forget my dear Pebbles...Time heals the pain, but the memories always stay...I'm so sorry for your loss, and so sorry that you hurt so much...My eyes are welling, thinking about your broken heart, and I don't even know you...I do know what you are going through, and "this too will pass"...Just grieve, while you need to, and then, when the time is right, start letting it go, and look beyond your pain...You'll know when the time comes...Like the post before mine, we do understand, and it's not important that other people don't...There is probably more depth to our souls than those who don't love like we do...Be happy you are capable of loving like that...I will be praying that God eases your pain...Take Care.....
Love, Maggie
xoxoxo

sheilannwfl · 04-02-2009, 05:43 PM

My dh came in & saw me with tears rolling down my face. When he asked what was wrong I just pointed at the screen. He read all of your replies & said, "we know just how they feel don't we!" The day that Sis died, the day after my 49th bday. He came into the bedroom as he was leaving for work to tell me that Sis seemed not to doing good....he said he was going to the office, getting the guys off & coming home to be with us when the time came. Before I could put my pj bottoms on, he came back into our bedroom & said she was gone. Bijou who was my first yorkie who was killed unexpectantly as was Anna my dobie. Our min schnauzer Sis, whom we knew was going to die, still devasted us. As I said in my tribute to the 10th Anv. of Bijou death, it took almost a decade before I could own another yorkie. We have had many rescues, including one called Nugan, who was a mixed breed w/a lot of springer spaniel in him, he was hit by a Farfenuugen (?) by VW. We saw the car hit him pulled over and took him to our vet in SRB FL. No one claimed him & we paid the bill (in pymt), a yellow lab that had been tied to a post to the point the collar embedded in his neck; we called him Boomer due to the sound of his tail on the floor. He was killed by a fisherman shooting at an alligator, it just happened that he hit Boomer. Losing a pet, a "family" member where we are concerned is never easy. My heart goes out to each of you who have felt the pain that rips a heart into. Please do not cut yourself off from the wonderful world of our 4 legged babies, as there are soooooo many who needs us. The pain never gets "easy" as we lose the ones we love, whether they have 2 legs or 4; we must continue to love even though we know that pain will happen again. Not to open yourself up to another, locks you away from the love that can be. You will never "replace" nor should you even contemplate such. You merely open yourself up to love another.....giving them & yourself another chance.

YorkieShadow · 04-02-2009, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by ilovecherry86

I am crying really hard now, all i need is Cherry, i am going through hard times in my life now and Cherry was always there to comfort me, but now she is not here..i wish she could be here, she was my best friends...
I feel so lonely without her, it's been a month but it seems like yesterday when it happened, she never leaves my head, i think about her all the time...
I seems so unfair that this happened to me...there are so many ppl with their healthy dogs, having fun with them, and i just don't think it is fair that she is gone from me so soon...
all the ppl around me don't understand me, they think that i am just exaggerating this, but they don't know what it is like to lose a best friend, we were so close, only God would understand....she just made my life complete but now i am missing that part again...i wish she would just come back, it seems so unfair...
sorry if there are so many typing errors, it is hard to type when you are crying so much..i don't want to cry anymore......

Im so sorry hun, I know exactly how you feel. I lost my little Minnie Jan 9th she was only 4. I think about her every day. I do have other pets and I love them too, But Minnie was so special to me and well life will never be the same for me again.it does get a little easier, but it never goes away. and Im so sorry you have to go through this. prayers to you.

AbbysMom08 · 04-02-2009, 08:38 PM

I'm so very sorry.
I do know all too well what you are going through.
I wish with all my heart there was something I could do or say that would take the pain away. In time it will get better. I still miss my precious little Kayla who I lost last July. She was the light of my life.
I will continue to keep you in my prayers and ask God to comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Please keep in touch, as there are so many of us here that care and will continue to keep you in our prayers.

kidmuzicdotcom · 04-02-2009, 08:46 PM

I am so sorry....I know your heart hurts literally...My heart breaks for you...I am keeping you in my prayers

Chance · 04-02-2009, 08:53 PM

Hi, I don't know when you lost your baby, I'm not on here much. But I do understand what you are going through. I lost my cat, she was 21 years old, I got her when I was 17 years old, I fed her on a bottle, her eyes were not even open yet. I lost her because of pet food recall in 2006, it was useless. She was in great health, acted like a kitten most of the time. I felt I poisoned her, because I feed it to her. I did not want to live, she was my whole world, my husband and I don't have children, she was it. I cried all the time. Finally I realize my baby would not want me to be so upset, she always hated it when I cried, she would lick my face and meow at me until I stopped. We decided to get a Yorkie, if not I was going to go crazy. I have to have something to take care of. I bought Chance, she was named Chance because, I was taking a " chance " she would make me feel a little better, and she did. I am not saying I don't still cry for my cat, because I do from time to time. If you are like me it might help if you got another baby, it helps for you to taking care of something, it keeps your mind working. I lost my baby Dec 17th 2006, by Jan 8th I got Chance, not because I didn't love my cat, because I loved her with all my heart and soul. But I knew she would not want me to be so sad and hurting. It is something for you to think about . So sorry for your loss, and sorry this is so long, I just wanted to help if I could. Sandy

kidmuzicdotcom · 04-02-2009, 08:57 PM

Sandy,
I'm with you we got Kaylee about 2 months after we lost rhenny...and she would never replace our rhen but she has brought us such joy..I was just telling her that yesterday....I still think of rhenny every day and everything reminds me of her but Kaylee has really helped our whole family to smile again..

PANAMA69 · 04-03-2009, 09:11 PM

Hon, give yourself some time, I remember when I loss CookieDough my cat she was such a wonderful cat, it was so hard

I think is why I got Phoebe, if is anything I can do to help, please let me know, abrazos (hugs) for you

ilovecherry86 · 04-04-2009, 08:06 AM

Thank you all of you for the very nice encouraging words...I really mean alot to me, thats why i always come here and pour out my heart here understand me very well, i wish i had other ppl around me that understood as much, but ohh well, i have yorkietalk to talk my feeling with, you guys really are so nice here, i am so glad i found this forum

i agree with you guys on getting a new yorkie, this is what my parents and friends say to me and encourage me to do...and i am getting a new yorkie, she is coming this monday and i am really exited about her!i am not getting her to replace Cherry at all!!! But like some of you said, i need something to take care of, something to keep me busy, get my mind of this negative thinking all the time...and i think it will help me...if not, i think i might go crazy without my Cherry

ltret0294 · 04-04-2009, 01:56 PM

Such a sweet little girl yorkie. I had Harley D and DJ for little more than a year when they died a week apart Jan 08. The sorrow is still there as I look at their little resting places. I have fond memories and pictures of those two little guys and they will always have a place in my heart as my first yorkies. Zack and Zeke were adopted shortly after they died and are two different guys that are adding to my yorkie memories.

04-02-2009, 10:39 AM	#1
ilovecherry86 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: savannah,ga Posts: 87	it is one of those horrible days again:( I am crying really hard now, all i need is Cherry, i am going through hard times in my life now and Cherry was always there to comfort me, but now she is not here..i wish she could be here, she was my best friends... I feel so lonely without her, it's been a month but it seems like yesterday when it happened, she never leaves my head, i think about her all the time... I seems so unfair that this happened to me...there are so many ppl with their healthy dogs, having fun with them, and i just don't think it is fair that she is gone from me so soon... all the ppl around me don't understand me, they think that i am just exaggerating this, but they don't know what it is like to lose a best friend, we were so close, only God would understand....she just made my life complete but now i am missing that part again...i wish she would just come back, it seems so unfair... sorry if there are so many typing errors, it is hard to type when you are crying so much..i don't want to cry anymore......

04-02-2009, 11:07 AM	#2
sheilannwfl Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Mary Esther, FL, Okaloosa Posts: 71	When I lost Bijou, I grieved sooooo. My dad made the comment that I lost babies and did not grieve like I did losing a "dog". Some people can not understand that though they walk on 4 legs they are much much more than just a "dog". Give yourself time to heal. Don't EVER feel guilty about grieving for your little Cherry. In mho those who can not understand the grief of losing them does not truly understand the depth of our love for them either. I kind of pity them. I pray your heartache will ease. __________________ Sheila, Parker Price Sasha& 3 Babies Bijou, BB, Sis, Anna, Boomer Happy Easter

04-02-2009, 12:00 PM	#3
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	oh sweetie, im so sorry your in this much pain, as i would be too. just know that we are all here for you anytime ok??? im praying that god help you heal your broken heart.... i wish i could be there to give you a hug.. you take care ok... __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

04-02-2009, 01:35 PM	#4
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	My heart goes out to you. It seems unbearable some days. Maybe one day you can bear to bring another on in to help fill the void a little. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

04-02-2009, 03:57 PM	#5
bfforever Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 171	Im sorry. And, I totally know where your heart and mind are. I am still doggyless. I miss mine every day. People tell me to get another or even two more. But, I know new ones could never replace mine. That's why I am still without any. __________________ I still miss my doggies, but now I have Frankie

04-02-2009, 05:08 PM	#6
Sweet Apple Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Houston, Texas USA Posts: 2,473	On July 31st, 2007, I lost my best friend, Pebbles...She was an English Mastiff...ironic, right? I absolutely ached in my body, I missed her so much...It took me a year and a half to get another best friend...I love my little Apple so much, but I will never forget my dear Pebbles...Time heals the pain, but the memories always stay...I'm so sorry for your loss, and so sorry that you hurt so much...My eyes are welling, thinking about your broken heart, and I don't even know you...I do know what you are going through, and "this too will pass"...Just grieve, while you need to, and then, when the time is right, start letting it go, and look beyond your pain...You'll know when the time comes...Like the post before mine, we do understand, and it's not important that other people don't...There is probably more depth to our souls than those who don't love like we do...Be happy you are capable of loving like that...I will be praying that God eases your pain...Take Care..... Love, Maggie xoxoxo

04-02-2009, 05:43 PM	#7
sheilannwfl Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Mary Esther, FL, Okaloosa Posts: 71	My dh came in & saw me with tears rolling down my face. When he asked what was wrong I just pointed at the screen. He read all of your replies & said, "we know just how they feel don't we!" The day that Sis died, the day after my 49th bday. He came into the bedroom as he was leaving for work to tell me that Sis seemed not to doing good....he said he was going to the office, getting the guys off & coming home to be with us when the time came. Before I could put my pj bottoms on, he came back into our bedroom & said she was gone. Bijou who was my first yorkie who was killed unexpectantly as was Anna my dobie. Our min schnauzer Sis, whom we knew was going to die, still devasted us. As I said in my tribute to the 10th Anv. of Bijou death, it took almost a decade before I could own another yorkie. We have had many rescues, including one called Nugan, who was a mixed breed w/a lot of springer spaniel in him, he was hit by a Farfenuugen (?) by VW. We saw the car hit him pulled over and took him to our vet in SRB FL. No one claimed him & we paid the bill (in pymt), a yellow lab that had been tied to a post to the point the collar embedded in his neck; we called him Boomer due to the sound of his tail on the floor. He was killed by a fisherman shooting at an alligator, it just happened that he hit Boomer. Losing a pet, a "family" member where we are concerned is never easy. My heart goes out to each of you who have felt the pain that rips a heart into. Please do not cut yourself off from the wonderful world of our 4 legged babies, as there are soooooo many who needs us. The pain never gets "easy" as we lose the ones we love, whether they have 2 legs or 4; we must continue to love even though we know that pain will happen again. Not to open yourself up to another, locks you away from the love that can be. You will never "replace" nor should you even contemplate such. You merely open yourself up to love another.....giving them & yourself another chance. __________________ Sheila, Parker Price Sasha& 3 Babies Bijou, BB, Sis, Anna, Boomer Happy Easter

04-02-2009, 08:38 PM	#9
AbbysMom08 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Illinois Posts: 2,268	I'm so very sorry. I do know all too well what you are going through. I wish with all my heart there was something I could do or say that would take the pain away. In time it will get better. I still miss my precious little Kayla who I lost last July. She was the light of my life. I will continue to keep you in my prayers and ask God to comfort you in your time of sorrow. Please keep in touch, as there are so many of us here that care and will continue to keep you in our prayers.

04-02-2009, 08:46 PM	#10
kidmuzicdotcom Shelby Rae's Mom Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cypress Posts: 815	I am so sorry....I know your heart hurts literally...My heart breaks for you...I am keeping you in my prayers __________________ Shelby Rae's Mom and Kaylee's Nana[SIZE=2][COLOR=Red]

04-02-2009, 08:53 PM	#11
Chance Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Clarkrange Posts: 130	Hi, I don't know when you lost your baby, I'm not on here much. But I do understand what you are going through. I lost my cat, she was 21 years old, I got her when I was 17 years old, I fed her on a bottle, her eyes were not even open yet. I lost her because of pet food recall in 2006, it was useless. She was in great health, acted like a kitten most of the time. I felt I poisoned her, because I feed it to her. I did not want to live, she was my whole world, my husband and I don't have children, she was it. I cried all the time. Finally I realize my baby would not want me to be so upset, she always hated it when I cried, she would lick my face and meow at me until I stopped. We decided to get a Yorkie, if not I was going to go crazy. I have to have something to take care of. I bought Chance, she was named Chance because, I was taking a " chance " she would make me feel a little better, and she did. I am not saying I don't still cry for my cat, because I do from time to time. If you are like me it might help if you got another baby, it helps for you to taking care of something, it keeps your mind working. I lost my baby Dec 17th 2006, by Jan 8th I got Chance, not because I didn't love my cat, because I loved her with all my heart and soul. But I knew she would not want me to be so sad and hurting. It is something for you to think about . So sorry for your loss, and sorry this is so long, I just wanted to help if I could. Sandy

04-02-2009, 08:57 PM	#12
kidmuzicdotcom Shelby Rae's Mom Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cypress Posts: 815	Sandy, I'm with you we got Kaylee about 2 months after we lost rhenny...and she would never replace our rhen but she has brought us such joy..I was just telling her that yesterday....I still think of rhenny every day and everything reminds me of her but Kaylee has really helped our whole family to smile again.. __________________ Shelby Rae's Mom and Kaylee's Nana[SIZE=2][COLOR=Red]

04-03-2009, 09:11 PM	#13
PANAMA69 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: ~~YorkieWorld~~ Posts: 8,428	Hon, give yourself some time, I remember when I loss CookieDough my cat she was such a wonderful cat, it was so hard I think is why I got Phoebe, if is anything I can do to help, please let me know, abrazos (hugs) for you __________________

04-04-2009, 08:06 AM	#14
ilovecherry86 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: savannah,ga Posts: 87	Thank you all of you for the very nice encouraging words...I really mean alot to me, thats why i always come here and pour out my heart here understand me very well, i wish i had other ppl around me that understood as much, but ohh well, i have yorkietalk to talk my feeling with, you guys really are so nice here, i am so glad i found this forum i agree with you guys on getting a new yorkie, this is what my parents and friends say to me and encourage me to do...and i am getting a new yorkie, she is coming this monday and i am really exited about her!i am not getting her to replace Cherry at all!!! But like some of you said, i need something to take care of, something to keep me busy, get my mind of this negative thinking all the time...and i think it will help me...if not, i think i might go crazy without my Cherry

04-04-2009, 01:56 PM	#15
ltret0294 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Satellite Beach, FL Posts: 838	Such a sweet little girl yorkie. I had Harley D and DJ for little more than a year when they died a week apart Jan 08. The sorrow is still there as I look at their little resting places. I have fond memories and pictures of those two little guys and they will always have a place in my heart as my first yorkies. Zack and Zeke were adopted shortly after they died and are two different guys that are adding to my yorkie memories. __________________ Zack, Zeke, Zoey, Zipp RIP 6/28/12 Last edited by ltret0294; 04-04-2009 at 01:59 PM.