Please don't ever feel like we would get tired of hearing about your Minnie. I wish I had some words to help ease your pain. Everyone here can understand how devastated you are. You are among the people who truly understand your love for her.

I am crying as I read your post. I understand how you feel. It has been a year since I lost my baby, and the pain is just as real right now as it was one year ago. Find comfront in that dream, it was a few more minutes with Minnie.

But Thats what I dont understand, My dream seemed so real. Minnie felt so alive an real in my dream. If God did do that to help me feel better. then he had to know by taking her Id be so lost. She really was my world. I dont think Ill ever get over it. its been a few weeks and im not any better. all my thoughts 24/7 are of her. I had always thought I had it all with Mickey & Minnie and My Husband, kids and grandbabys. I might not of had material things, but I had this perfect family. and now its broken.My kids call me every day. they cant stand to come over and see me like I am.I havent watched the Grandbabys. there hasnt been one day that we all havent cried. My mom dosent understand. My sister does she lost her baby girl a spitz . so we have been there for each other.

My son got me a locket to It also reads For ever in my Heart and has Minnies picture in it, I wore it for a few days but I had broke out in hives from my nerves, I had to take it off. I have it hanging off the nobb of my cabnet. I also had a scupture made of Minnie from a member here, It looks just like her, she did a wonderful job, and Ill be sending after that soon.

I agree, I'm so sorry this happened to your Minnie. Sometimes it's just too hard. Why? why? why? You have to believe she came to you and maybe will continue to come to you again in your dreams. So you really didn't lose her in your heart at all. She knows this. Bless you

I'm so sorry about Minnie. Your dream has me with tears. It's so sad to lose a pet. They are more than a pet, they are family. I know what it feels like to lose one of your best friends in the whole world. A best friend that can't even talk, but it doesn't matter cause just their kisses and companionship speaks volumes. I lost my best friend when i was 9, but it still hurts the same today. And you dream about them and just wish you can see them one last time. I was young so i wrote letters to him and threw them out the window thinking he would get them...That dream was your goodbye for now but you will see her again. I know i will see mine again one day. I'm so sorry, you are in my thoughts. :love:

I will never be tired to hear you . You can talk about Minnie as much as you want , I'll be there .

To Min Min's Mum
 

Hello,
I am so sad for you and am still crying as I write to you, as it also brings back memories for me about my dear Nik who crossed the Bridge on 11/24/08. Like you I felt so empty and wanted her back so much. Nothing seemed worth doing any more and I felt I would never recover. But it is now over 2 months and I must say I am a lot better and can do things again. There is hope!:) However, it doesn't take much to set me off crying again and for that moment feel as if she had just left me.
Yesterday I plucked up enough courage to mount some of her things (photos/harness/pawprint-hair tress etc) in a frame as a memento. Perhaps you might be able to do the same later as it does seem to give some closure and have memories of her collected in one place.
I can well understand your dream being so real as I had a very vivid dream myself soon after Nik died. I too could not believe it was not true when I woke up and wanted to tell everyone. You at least were able to hold your little one again and that must show that she was with you again to comfort you. Now you are sad but I am sure when she was there you were happy in your dream world.
You will feel better before too long even though it feels now that you never will come to terms with her loss. We have to go through the grieving process and this takes time. It is true that others who are not pet lovers and have not experienced the loss DO NOT GET IT!!! But those who do understand are so comforting.
So I do know how you feel and am so sorry for your loss, but it will feel better in time. Min Min is happy and at peace now, and only we feel sad. You loved her when she was here and the lovely memories will in time replace the sadness.
(My dream for those who may wish to read it : I walked into my living room and there was my cleaning lady standing by a tall 'Scrooge' desk, and my boyfriend sitting on a dining chair at the other end of the room - holding my dear 'Nik'.(Or her clone!) My BF said he had paid the lady $1100 for the dog - by credit card. I carried 'Nik' outside and put her down for a pee on the grass as I usually did when she was alive. She immediately ran away fast and I was so mad with myself and told myself 'how could I do that as it was not my Nik but some image of her'. She then took off and flew away as a large white bird with a black head. I was so sad, but a man came by and said 'put your hand out with a treat in it and she will come back'. She did come back and changed back into 'Nik'. I then went back into the room and I gave the dog back to the lady and said I did not want the dog as it was not my Nik. I asked for a credit on the card also. And so the dream ended. What that meant I do not know, but the dream was so vivid and detailed I could not forget it. It seems I knew it was not my dog, so at least my subconscious must have accepted that she was gone. End of dream!)
Bye for now and keep coming to the site to let us know how you are doing.

Please know we are always here to share in your pain, and try our best to ease your pain.

i was reading your drem and it made me so sad i have tears in my eyes so sorry for your loss

ROOM IN YOUR HEART

Sorrow fills a barren space;
you close your eyes and see my face
and think of times I made you laugh,
the love we shared, the bond we had,
the special way I needed you -
the friendship shared by just we two.

The day's too quiet, the world seems older,
the wind blows now a little colder.
You gaze into the empty air
and look for me, but I'm not there -
I'm in heaven and I watch you,
and I see the world around you too.

I see little souls wearing fur,
souls who bark and souls who purr
born unwanted and unloved -
I see all this and more above -
I watch them suffer, I see them cry,
I see them lost, I watch them die.
I see unwanted thousands born -
and when they die, nobody mourns.

These little souls wearing fur
(Some who bark and some who purr)
are castaways who - unlike me -
will never know love or security.
A few short months they starve and roam,
Or caged in shelters - nobody takes home.
They're special too (furballs of pleasure),
filled with love and each one, a treasure.

My pain and suffering came to an end,
so don't cry for me, my person, my friend.
But think of the living -
those souls with fur
(some who bark and some who purr) -
And though our bond can't be broken apart,
make room for another in your home and
your heart.


--- Caro Schubert-James

Thank you thats Beautiful.

How happy we are when we dream of them. i only had one dream about my spike...i dream more about my border collie, bertie, who passed away last year... i want so badly to dream about my little yorkie man spike but it just only happened that once. i do get visited by people who have passed in my dreams all the time and i hang around with them and even one time i was so nervous to tell my friend Carol she was going to die...i didn't know how to tell her as we were laughing and having fun...she passed suddenly 3 years ago from an aneursym....she was my best friend and i dream of her often but i do think that when our pets and/or people we love die come into our dreams, they are telling us they are still alive somewhere, just not here, and they are just not of the physical world anymore....one day we will all be reunited with them..i can't wait to see spike again! jg -

I think your precious Min Min was really with you. Maybe in another realm that we can't see when we're awake.

I know your heart aches for her and you miss her so much. :hug:

Please know how terribly sorry I am for your loss :(