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countrygirl_247 · 09-24-2007, 05:33 PM

I really don't think my furbabies love me very much!!! I know they love me but not like everyone else. They run to everyone else all happy wigglin & tails waggin, kisses but not for me. Rowdy is 13 wks wed. Bella is 8 wks. I've had Rowdy a month & Bella 2 wks. I'm the only one that takes care of them feed,baths, mostly to go out potty clippin the bum hair nails everything. I play talk sleep with them. The grown kids HD grandkids do play with them. So what am I doin wrong???????? Or is it just me?

marcerella02 · 09-24-2007, 05:36 PM

it is EVERY fur mom on here..... we do all the work.. up all night.... clean their bums when they are dirty... worry about them until we are sick with worry.. and it is everyone else that gets the love... we all know what you are talking about.. but you know what... when they are scared, or sick... or upset... it's mommy that they want... no one else.... it's all part and parcel of being "the mom" it's not you....

For My Coby · 09-24-2007, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

it is EVERY fur mom on here..... we do all the work.. up all night.... clean their bums when they are dirty... worry about them until we are sick with worry.. and it is everyone else that gets the love... we all know what you are talking about.. but you know what... when they are scared, or sick... or upset... it's mommy that they want... no one else.... it's all part and parcel of being "the mom" it's not you....

Good explanation. It's often that way with skin kids too.

paulapoo · 09-24-2007, 05:42 PM

i know what you mean. I practically have to stand on my head to get a tail wag out of Otis, but the minute someone else walks in the door, that nubbin is goin 90 to nothin!!!

Chelsea15 · 09-24-2007, 05:46 PM

Abby does this too

but like marcerella said when she is scared she runs straight to me. I think they may not show how much they love you but they do depend on you when they need it most. I get a small kiss in the morning. maybe a small tail wag. of course anyone else walks in and she goes nuts.

SANDYSAND · 09-24-2007, 05:50 PM

They know they have us no matter what so they take advantage of the softness situation...SMART ONES

countrygirl_247 · 09-24-2007, 05:52 PM

Thanks everyone it 's nice to know i'm not alone. It's the same for me when scared or hurt they run to me. I also get occasional tail wag & kiss

marcerella02 · 09-24-2007, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by countrygirl_247

Thanks everyone it 's nice to know i'm not alone. It's the same for me when scared or hurt they run to me. I also get occasional tail wag & kiss

lol... as the mom you learn to CHERISE those kisses and tail wags! i also find if i'm gone all day (which i have been lately with school... she had gotten used to seing me all day every day over the summer) she snuggles up with me when i see her at the end of the day... best part of my day

Chelsea15 · 09-24-2007, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

lol... as the mom you learn to CHERISE those kisses and tail wags! i also find if i'm gone all day (which i have been lately with school... she had gotten used to seing me all day every day over the summer) she snuggles up with me when i see her at the end of the day... best part of my day

same here

they've(kisses) been getting bigger everyday

LoveMyJake · 09-24-2007, 06:39 PM

awwww they're still young, give them time.

I'm lucky, Jake is a big-time mama's boy, so he ALWAYS wants me around him! He follows me everywhere and I love it! He plays with my husband alot, and he loves him too, but it's always mama he wants.

Miz Mary · 09-24-2007, 08:40 PM

Benji is the same.....favors the other dog, who favors my DH , so they are always with him it seems, and Benji is NOT a snuggler !!!! I bought this dog for ME......but I guess I shoulda got fish ?!?!? Hee Hee !!!

love_me_cody · 09-24-2007, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by countrygirl_247

I really don't think my furbabies love me very much!!! I know they love me but not like everyone else. They run to everyone else all happy wigglin & tails waggin, kisses but not for me. Rowdy is 13 wks wed. Bella is 8 wks. I've had Rowdy a month & Bella 2 wks. I'm the only one that takes care of them feed,baths, mostly to go out potty clippin the bum hair nails everything. I play talk sleep with them. The grown kids HD grandkids do play with them. So what am I doin wrong???????? Or is it just me?

When did you get Bella? When she was 6wks?

sweetheartsok · 09-25-2007, 03:52 AM

I guess I must be blessed with a little love bug because my girl goes crazy for me and I am her first choice. Yeah!!!!!! I thought this was normal yorkie behaviour. I will never take it for granted. Thanks for the eye opener.

Yorkiekids · 09-25-2007, 04:50 AM

I have to say mine are lubby dubby with me, except for Sebastian who is independent. Yet as stated if anything is going on he runs for momma.

Izzy Princess · 09-25-2007, 04:55 AM

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Originally Posted by sweetheartsok

I guess I must be blessed with a little love bug because my girl goes crazy for me and I am her first choice. Yeah!!!!!! I thought this was normal yorkie behaviour. I will never take it for granted. Thanks for the eye opener.

Me, too, I've been lucky with Izzy - she is definitely mom's girl but she also loves her daddy and everyone else that she comes into contact with but she follows me everywhere when I'm home and free with all kisses and tail wags. I was also blessed with my two boys back in the day - they were my little shadows as well. I thought that's just how Yorkies are but I see that's not always the case.

I'm sure they still love you and as others have mentioned - they know who to go to when they really need that special attention and assurement.

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09-24-2007, 05:33 PM	#1
countrygirl_247 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 139	This makes me sad!! I don't think they love me I really don't think my furbabies love me very much!!! I know they love me but not like everyone else. They run to everyone else all happy wigglin & tails waggin, kisses but not for me. Rowdy is 13 wks wed. Bella is 8 wks. I've had Rowdy a month & Bella 2 wks. I'm the only one that takes care of them feed,baths, mostly to go out potty clippin the bum hair nails everything. I play talk sleep with them. The grown kids HD grandkids do play with them. So what am I doin wrong???????? Or is it just me?

09-24-2007, 05:36 PM	#2
marcerella02 Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada Posts: 11,257	it is EVERY fur mom on here..... we do all the work.. up all night.... clean their bums when they are dirty... worry about them until we are sick with worry.. and it is everyone else that gets the love... we all know what you are talking about.. but you know what... when they are scared, or sick... or upset... it's mommy that they want... no one else.... it's all part and parcel of being "the mom" it's not you.... __________________ http://misscanam.blogspot.com/ Layla 's Simon

09-24-2007, 05:42 PM	#4
paulapoo Blessed by Otis & Ollie Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Plainfield, Indiana Posts: 2,884	i know what you mean. I practically have to stand on my head to get a tail wag out of Otis, but the minute someone else walks in the door, that nubbin is goin 90 to nothin!!! __________________ ~Paula~ proud mommy of ~Otis (yorkie) & Oliver (shih-poo)

09-24-2007, 05:46 PM	#5
Chelsea15 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ky Posts: 510	Abby does this too but like marcerella said when she is scared she runs straight to me. I think they may not show how much they love you but they do depend on you when they need it most. I get a small kiss in the morning. maybe a small tail wag. of course anyone else walks in and she goes nuts. __________________ Abby's Mommy

09-24-2007, 05:50 PM	#6
SANDYSAND Mommy Loves Koda & Kacy! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Home of the NY Yankees Posts: 6,500	They know they have us no matter what so they take advantage of the softness situation...SMART ONES __________________ http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=3a2e8eedc3dc6290fbd72e&skin_id=1603&utm_s ource=otm&utm_medium=text_url Mommy Loves:Koda & Kacy. Smile Life is a GIFT First Lady of the SRC~ Koda Benji

09-24-2007, 05:52 PM	#7
countrygirl_247 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Indiana Posts: 139	Thanks everyone it 's nice to know i'm not alone. It's the same for me when scared or hurt they run to me. I also get occasional tail wag & kiss

09-24-2007, 06:39 PM	#10
LoveMyJake I love Jackson too! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 2,905	awwww they're still young, give them time. I'm lucky, Jake is a big-time mama's boy, so he ALWAYS wants me around him! He follows me everywhere and I love it! He plays with my husband alot, and he loves him too, but it's always mama he wants. __________________ Selina, mommy to Jake and Jackson. RIP baby Lily Coming soon: Gracie

09-24-2007, 08:40 PM	#11
Miz Mary Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Oregon Posts: 92	Benji is the same.....favors the other dog, who favors my DH , so they are always with him it seems, and Benji is NOT a snuggler !!!! I bought this dog for ME......but I guess I shoulda got fish ?!?!? Hee Hee !!!

09-25-2007, 03:52 AM	#13
sweetheartsok YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Ontario,Canada Posts: 626	I guess I must be blessed with a little love bug because my girl goes crazy for me and I am her first choice. Yeah!!!!!! I thought this was normal yorkie behaviour. I will never take it for granted. Thanks for the eye opener. __________________ ~Mary~ Mommy to Mindy 1 Years Old and Bear I Years Old "Proud Member of the Little Gentlemen's Club "

09-25-2007, 04:50 AM	#14
Yorkiekids Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida Posts: 14,495	I have to say mine are lubby dubby with me, except for Sebastian who is independent. Yet as stated if anything is going on he runs for momma. __________________ Susan, Piper ,Harley & Suiki