I'm so lost...

[BabyGenes-Mom]

hey sis hope u are doing better as the night has gone on i hate so much to see u so sad and upset as i know this must hurt so bad, u know u did what had to be done, time will heal, we dont want chase scared and all, u did what had to be done, looking out for chase is what had to be done as he depends on mom, dad, and yep even me (nana) to look out for him, glad u were there when she did this, i know she will be loved as u know as well, i will talk to u real soon okay hugs and kiss to u and my dear lil chase
love ya
mom~nana

Originally Posted by Tillys_mom

Hubby made me sell J.J. this evening. She has been biting at my son and he felt it was best for everyone if she just went back to her breeder. My son was just playing on the floor and she came up and snapped at him. My husband said No Way. So I called the breeder and she said she may have done that because of another home she was in there was a small boy and she thinks he was mean to her. I wish I would of known then I never would of taken her here and put her through this. It was obviously stressing her out. I couldn't do that to her. She was close to us but I think she missed the breeder. When she came to get her she got all excited and ran to them and gave tons of kisses. I know she is going to a good home. I still hurts me though. I haven't cried that hard in a long time. I feel so bad but I know deep down that's really what J.J. wanted. Okay....I can stop being a baby now.

[Tillys_mom]

Originally Posted by BabyGenes-Mom

hey sis hope u are doing better as the night has gone on i hate so much to see u so sad and upset as i know this must hurt so bad, u know u did what had to be done, time will heal, we dont want chase scared and all, u did what had to be done, looking out for chase is what had to be done as he depends on mom, dad, and yep even me (nana) to look out for him, glad u were there when she did this, i know she will be loved as u know as well, i will talk to u real soon okay hugs and kiss to u and my dear lil chase
love ya
mom~nana

Thanks mom!!! I'm feeling a little better today. Tilly is also adjusting okay. She sometimes looks for her, but after she realizes she isn't here, then she is okay. I've just been givng Tilly extra kisses. I talked to the breeder and she said that JJ was showing agression to other doggies there. I don't know why she is starting to do this. She is such a sweetheart. I still love and miss her.

[ellie81]

oh i'm sorry, I know you must be so sad, but you did what's best for J.J. and your son. Maybe in the near future you can get a young puppy that can grow along with your son and get used to him from an early age.

[shyne626]

Originally Posted by Tillys_mom

Well I asked her if taking her to training classes and getting her spayed would help and she said an aggressive dog will always be aggressive at heart. I was willing to put as much money as it would of taken to keep her here. I think deep down inside she just wanted her back. I felt trapped. She did refund my money, but money is just money. It can NEVER fix the hole I now have. I've been crying all night.

awww sorry for ur lost... in time u will feel better.... especially KNOWING she is HAPPY...

create a scrap book... etc... think of good times...

Hope you feel better

[Tillys_mom]

Originally Posted by ellie81

oh i'm sorry, I know you must be so sad, but you did what's best for J.J. and your son. Maybe in the near future you can get a young puppy that can grow along with your son and get used to him from an early age.

Yeah we may go to our shelter to see if any animals need adopted. I told hubby I might volunteer to just keep busy for like one day a week. We still have Tilly. She doesn't mind Chase. Thank goodness!

[Tillys_mom]

Originally Posted by shyne626

awww sorry for ur lost... in time u will feel better.... especially KNOWING she is HAPPY...

create a scrap book... etc... think of good times...

Hope you feel better

We didn't really have her very long. We got her at the end of June. I didn't take many pictures but of the ones I have I will put in Tilly's big scrapbook. I'll do up a whole page of them. I know she is in a better place now. She just wont get all dressed up and stuff now....but I think she would rather have it that way. LOL

[celstu1]

Oh Im soooo sorry you had to do that! I know some of these guys are sooo good with children and some are not. One of my boys is good with children and the other is not... he has not snapped at one yet, but I wouldnt put it past him. I don't blame him though bc hes never really around children so he has no idea what to do with them! Sounds like you had the ideal situation with JJ though! I know it hurts but its a bit more reassuring when the breeder that he loves can provide him a loving home! You did your best girl... don't beat yourself up! (((HUGS)))

[LunasMomma]

Awww, I'm sorry The breeder should not have even sold JJ to you, knowing what they knew about the previous home

Big hugs!!!!

[kezza]

I'm so sorry for you..but you did the right thing for your family and JJ...I know it can work in some circumstances but i do think getting a toy breed with very young children is not an ideal situation but that is just my opinion, which i feel very strongly about having seen what can happen for myself. It can be extremely hard work to supervise both the child & pup at ALL times. This was obviously how JJ learnt to 'defend' herself in her previous home, by snapping at the small child and it may take a while for her to gain confidence around children.