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I didnt want to have to tell that he broke my neck. But I guess it was an important deciding factor. |
I don't think it's a completely different story than what she lst said. I just think she didn't want to go into the details about how her husband treated her and that she is trying to tell us she had no other choice. I hope you can get your sweet Yorkies back, it sounds like you need them as much as they need you. :) Life sure isn't fair in so many situations.:( |
I am sorry that hapened to you. If he did that how did you know he wouldnt hurt the yorkies too? |
Please lets not be so jugdemental here. We can't sit her and say we would do this or that, we can't possibly know unless we walked in her shoes. She did what was best at the time and she said he is a great fur Dad. |
Have you ASKED him if you could have them or if you could buy them from him or something like that? |
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Oh, I am so sorry you and your child have to go through this. If you could raise enough money to ask in a non-threatening way, so that his girlfriend knows you are willing to pay to get them back, she might help pressure him to let them go to you. I have a loved one going thru a terrible divorce and it is horrible, so I feel for you having a child and fur babies involved, not to mention your own safety. Let us know what happens -- your YT will be there for you, I'm sure. |
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I am so sorry you are going though all this and I hope it all works out for you and you pups. If you need to vent some steam feel free to PM me I am a great listener:) (((((HUGS))))), Lori |
Ive seen this happen before... this loving, supportive environment turn the wrath on when they dont like what they hear. Noone EVER needs to EXPLAIN their personal decisions to anyone else on the INTERNET! If you feel you need to know more about someone before you can support them, then DON'T post at all. That way noones feelings get hurt even more. YorkieMom2 - did you ever make a deal with your ex that youd get the dogs back when you were ready for them? Was the solution of them staying with him assumed to be forever? Maybe you can talk to your ex husband into going in on a new pup for you and letting him keep your other babies. I know its going to hurt you so much to let them go and possibly not see them very often if at all... but it may be better for you emotionally to deal with the loss of them than with the emotions of dealing with your abusive ex husband in a 'custody battle'. I wish you all the luck in the world, this is a tough situation! Id hate to be in your shoes and my heart goes out to you! I think 2 tiny Yorkies mixed in with 6 kids is a bit dangerous! Tell your ex that! :) |
Ask him I would ask him for the pups back, considering his new situation it may be easier for him to give them up to you now. Or if you are on speaking terms to the new gf talk to her. She may want you to have the dogs. I know some men will fight with you just to be spiteful and show that they still have control over you. If that is the case, it might be less stressful for you to give them up. I would not want to see you put in a situation that would cause you any furthur harm.Good luck.:aimeeyork There are a lot of pups that need a good mommyto take care of them |
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Would you like to have them on weekends or something like that? Talk to him. |
If he is a good dad to the yorkies, maybe you can now get your own little baby yorkie to keep and arrange for visitations with the older two? |
For the record, I was only kidding about stealing the dogs.......... |
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