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Katys mom · 03-24-2007, 12:01 PM

Go for, Maybe after while Candy will just keep trying to get over to your house, she will be ready to sell her!

Catrina · 03-24-2007, 12:01 PM

aww! i hope you will be able to keep her!!! gosh i really hate careless owners........ god

MsCheryle478 · 03-24-2007, 12:12 PM

I guess I will go against the majority here and say this lady sounds like she is from the old school. I used to have a neighbor that kept his dog outside, never let in. That just killed me. All my zoo live in the house - even the big 100 lb. dog. Sure he loves to spend time outside but he is an inside dog. My kittens have started venturing into the backyard also. But they are inside cats. My vet bills would make the average person roll over and die. Add to that grooming bills, and all the special treats, beds, and babysitting when we vacation. But my point is that this guy honestly didn't see anything wrong with keeping his dog out 24/7. He was raised that you never have pets in the house. Dogs don't need to see a vet, especially for regular maintenance stuff like shots, check-ups, teeth cleaning, etc. I always felt so bad for the dog. But this guy felt his dog was just fine and loved him dearly. Always had food and water, a good warm dog house for winter and rain storms.

Convincing this lady that she is a neglectful owner will probably be next to impossible. Not everyone loves and cherishes their pets and treat them as one of the family. Not everyone believes that animals need to be bathed and combed as animals wouldn't do this for themselves out in the wild. Nor would they clip their nails. Yet, as we know, animals in the wild wear their nails down so Mother Nature does take care of them.

So, in this lady's defense, she was probably raised that dogs are just pets. Not members of the family.

Catrina · 03-24-2007, 12:15 PM

i agree she thinks she thinks the yorkie is just a "pet", but werent yorkies bred to be indoor dogs? esp cuz they only have 1 layer of coat?

Yorkiedaze · 03-24-2007, 12:15 PM

I would have ask right then if I could have her so I could get her medical attention she needs. I wouldn't offer money at first. I'd just tell the lady that you would be willing to spend the $200.00 plus on getting the teeth taken care of and anything else it needs if she would give her to you. Since the lady never took it to a Vet. but once, then it's my guess that little dog isn't even spayed. This is animal cruelty.

TLC · 03-24-2007, 05:00 PM

I hope that you can somehow get Candy away from the neglect. Keep us posted

sweetr72 · 03-24-2007, 05:34 PM

I hope for the dogs sake you can find a way to adopt her!! Please keep us posted!!

Dawn

Rudys Mom · 03-24-2007, 06:11 PM

I think it sounds like you were ment to live next door to those people. That poor Yorkie needs your help, cause it's not getting the care it deserves from it's owners. Keep trying to help the poor thing, it needs you.

" Good Luck "

Doodlebug · 03-24-2007, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by soneal

have you thought of just asking her "If you ever want to get rid of your yorkie I would be glad to buy her, I have always wanted another and she is exactly what I am looking for."

I woud try this. I said that to an older gentleman once when I met him walking his dog and he told me that his wife actually wants to get rid of the dog and they gave it to me. They were unable to properly care for the dog because of illness.

ldenise · 03-24-2007, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by MsCheryle478

I guess I will go against the majority here and say this lady sounds like she is from the old school. I used to have a neighbor that kept his dog outside, never let in. That just killed me. All my zoo live in the house - even the big 100 lb. dog. Sure he loves to spend time outside but he is an inside dog. My kittens have started venturing into the backyard also. But they are inside cats. My vet bills would make the average person roll over and die. Add to that grooming bills, and all the special treats, beds, and babysitting when we vacation. But my point is that this guy honestly didn't see anything wrong with keeping his dog out 24/7. He was raised that you never have pets in the house. Dogs don't need to see a vet, especially for regular maintenance stuff like shots, check-ups, teeth cleaning, etc. I always felt so bad for the dog. But this guy felt his dog was just fine and loved him dearly. Always had food and water, a good warm dog house for winter and rain storms.

Convincing this lady that she is a neglectful owner will probably be next to impossible. Not everyone loves and cherishes their pets and treat them as one of the family. Not everyone believes that animals need to be bathed and combed as animals wouldn't do this for themselves out in the wild. Nor would they clip their nails. Yet, as we know, animals in the wild wear their nails down so Mother Nature does take care of them.

So, in this lady's defense, she was probably raised that dogs are just pets. Not members of the family.

You said they love their pet. Maybe you could help by educating her on better care for her yorkie. check into less expensive ways to help her attain the health issures, (shots and etc).
You bathed her yorkie without asking and she didn't get mad? does she work?

ash0248 · 03-24-2007, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by soneal

Sounds like a blessing that she lives beside you, I think you are meant to help this little baby out. I know everyone says get in good with the lady slowly, but have you thought of just asking her "If you ever want to get rid of your yorkie I would be glad to buy her, I have always wanted another and she is exactly what I am looking for." I just worry that she needs medical attention now with her breathing problem, who knows how long this poor baby has been going on like this. Maybe the lady would sell her to you now, it doesn't sound like she cares about at all her and probably would take money if she is in financial need. I think I am the only one thinking this way, so maybe my way isn't the best, but just my opinion and something more for you to think about. I can't wait to see pictures of her. Good luck whatever you do.

I dont think you need to waste time. If she dont care enough to give her a bath then she dont care at all. I would ask her if she would get rid of her and she might give her to you. If she says no then offer her a good price and she may see $$$$ and not the puppy. You may try talking to the little boy too. Sounds like he likes you pretty well. He may want you to have her if you tell him how sick she is and that you would get her the help she needs. Keep a real close eye on her until you have her safe in your house.

Lilacss · 03-24-2007, 06:30 PM

Candy is lucky you've moved next door.At least now she will have a chance to be cared for properly.It won't take long before she realizes she has a new
2nd home. Animals know when their loved.Best of luck!

FlDebra · 03-25-2007, 04:53 AM

Just as an aside here -- I would not take it upon yourself to bathe, groom, and trim the nails of other people's dogs without permission as a rule. I love mine and take good care of them but there probably are times when someone could come upon them needing a bath or a bit of nail trimming (true, not to the extent you write about but still....) and if someone else took that liberty with them I would be fuming! If you felt the dog needed that attention due to sanitary and health reasons, then you should still ASK the adult owner first. JMO.

As to the lack of medication for the dog .... was it an optional thing? What medicine? What is the condition? Is it neglect or actually going to harm the dog further without the medicine. If money is the real stumbling block for the woman, maybe offer to pay for the meds if you are really concerned only for the welfare of the dog. But I would not try to usurp ownership unless she grants it freely. However, if actual neglect or health endangerment is really an issue, I would first let her know what you think, and if she did not take action, then report to the authorities.

FlDebra · 03-25-2007, 05:06 AM

Wanted to add about them feeding Alpo. We adore our dogs and have always treated them like family. But my 14 year old dachshund was raised on Alpo. She is the healthiest dog I know for being an old gal. Her coat is still shiny and sleek, she has good teeth, good eyes and hearing. When I got the Yorkies, I became more aware of the availability of human grade dog foods, and did switch to premium foods. I now feed all 4 of mine Canidae -- but I cared no less for them when I fed Alpo. I still do not know that it was bad for them as Katie seemed to thrive on the stuff. But they are worth the best, so I will stick with premium now. I just did not always know what a difference there was. Maybe it is the same for your neighbor.

Timmy · 03-26-2007, 07:18 AM

Update....

Mimi & Timmy's party was yesterday and everyone had a blast. I will have pics of all later. Miss Candy is starting to open up...she actually followed me everywhere I went and then started to play with the rest of the crew. She's kinda snippy but was doing great yesterday. She doesn't like when other doggies get in her face.....all the bigger babies didn't go near her...lol

I'm not being pushy with the lady at all. All I know is that they are not educated and I believe they love their dog. I went and bought food for her yesterday and gave it to the little boy....this little boy is the best!!! He is so thankful for everything. When I gave him the food he said..you are so nice. For now I'm going to be there for them and educate them. If that doesn't work then I'm going to ask but I have to have more conversation with the mom first and get to know her a little.

The reason why I groomed her was because I couldn't stand to see her nails curling into her paw pads. If some think I'm wrong then you are entitled to your own opinion...I would not only do it for her I'll do it for any other animal. The lady was so grateful and wasn't mad. Don't get me wrong when I was grooming her I did think that there was a possibilty that she would be upset but she wasn't. I did it and its done and I feel proud.

I'll post some pics later!!!

03-24-2007, 12:12 PM	#18
MsCheryle478 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Nebraska Posts: 422	I guess I will go against the majority here and say this lady sounds like she is from the old school. I used to have a neighbor that kept his dog outside, never let in. That just killed me. All my zoo live in the house - even the big 100 lb. dog. Sure he loves to spend time outside but he is an inside dog. My kittens have started venturing into the backyard also. But they are inside cats. My vet bills would make the average person roll over and die. Add to that grooming bills, and all the special treats, beds, and babysitting when we vacation. But my point is that this guy honestly didn't see anything wrong with keeping his dog out 24/7. He was raised that you never have pets in the house. Dogs don't need to see a vet, especially for regular maintenance stuff like shots, check-ups, teeth cleaning, etc. I always felt so bad for the dog. But this guy felt his dog was just fine and loved him dearly. Always had food and water, a good warm dog house for winter and rain storms. Convincing this lady that she is a neglectful owner will probably be next to impossible. Not everyone loves and cherishes their pets and treat them as one of the family. Not everyone believes that animals need to be bathed and combed as animals wouldn't do this for themselves out in the wild. Nor would they clip their nails. Yet, as we know, animals in the wild wear their nails down so Mother Nature does take care of them. So, in this lady's defense, she was probably raised that dogs are just pets. Not members of the family. __________________ Cheryle

03-24-2007, 05:00 PM	#21
TLC Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island Posts: 7,247	I hope that you can somehow get Candy away from the neglect. Keep us posted __________________ Adopt Donate Foster www.yorkie911rescue.com

03-24-2007, 06:11 PM	#23
Rudys Mom Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Lancaster, PA Posts: 4,327	I think it sounds like you were ment to live next door to those people. That poor Yorkie needs your help, cause it's not getting the care it deserves from it's owners. Keep trying to help the poor thing, it needs you. " Good Luck " __________________ Rudy, Zoey & Buster's mom (Dawn) Rest In Peace my precious Gracie girl & Lucky buddie Dogster:http://www.dogster.com/dogs/382659 & http://www.dogster.com/dogs/497315

03-25-2007, 04:53 AM	#28
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	Just as an aside here -- I would not take it upon yourself to bathe, groom, and trim the nails of other people's dogs without permission as a rule. I love mine and take good care of them but there probably are times when someone could come upon them needing a bath or a bit of nail trimming (true, not to the extent you write about but still....) and if someone else took that liberty with them I would be fuming! If you felt the dog needed that attention due to sanitary and health reasons, then you should still ASK the adult owner first. JMO. As to the lack of medication for the dog .... was it an optional thing? What medicine? What is the condition? Is it neglect or actually going to harm the dog further without the medicine. If money is the real stumbling block for the woman, maybe offer to pay for the meds if you are really concerned only for the welfare of the dog. But I would not try to usurp ownership unless she grants it freely. However, if actual neglect or health endangerment is really an issue, I would first let her know what you think, and if she did not take action, then report to the authorities. __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

03-25-2007, 05:06 AM	#29
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	Wanted to add about them feeding Alpo. We adore our dogs and have always treated them like family. But my 14 year old dachshund was raised on Alpo. She is the healthiest dog I know for being an old gal. Her coat is still shiny and sleek, she has good teeth, good eyes and hearing. When I got the Yorkies, I became more aware of the availability of human grade dog foods, and did switch to premium foods. I now feed all 4 of mine Canidae -- but I cared no less for them when I fed Alpo. I still do not know that it was bad for them as Katie seemed to thrive on the stuff. But they are worth the best, so I will stick with premium now. I just did not always know what a difference there was. Maybe it is the same for your neighbor. __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

03-24-2007, 12:01 PM	#16
Katys mom I love yorkie kisses Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 1,751	Go for, Maybe after while Candy will just keep trying to get over to your house, she will be ready to sell her!

03-24-2007, 12:01 PM	#17
Catrina I love my lil wolf! ;) Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Washington Posts: 2,434	aww! i hope you will be able to keep her!!! gosh i really hate careless owners........ god

03-24-2007, 12:15 PM	#19
Catrina I love my lil wolf! ;) Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Washington Posts: 2,434	i agree she thinks she thinks the yorkie is just a "pet", but werent yorkies bred to be indoor dogs? esp cuz they only have 1 layer of coat?

03-24-2007, 12:15 PM	#20
Yorkiedaze My hairy-legged girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: lompoc, ca. Posts: 12,228	I would have ask right then if I could have her so I could get her medical attention she needs. I wouldn't offer money at first. I'd just tell the lady that you would be willing to spend the $200.00 plus on getting the teeth taken care of and anything else it needs if she would give her to you. Since the lady never took it to a Vet. but once, then it's my guess that little dog isn't even spayed. This is animal cruelty.

03-24-2007, 05:34 PM	#22
sweetr72 No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 6,111	I hope for the dogs sake you can find a way to adopt her!! Please keep us posted!! Dawn

03-24-2007, 06:30 PM	#27
Lilacss Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: B.C, Canada Posts: 787	Candy is lucky you've moved next door.At least now she will have a chance to be cared for properly.It won't take long before she realizes she has a new 2nd home. Animals know when their loved.Best of luck!

03-26-2007, 07:18 AM	#30
Timmy Mimi & Gabby too! Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Vineland, NJ Posts: 3,208	Update.... Mimi & Timmy's party was yesterday and everyone had a blast. I will have pics of all later. Miss Candy is starting to open up...she actually followed me everywhere I went and then started to play with the rest of the crew. She's kinda snippy but was doing great yesterday. She doesn't like when other doggies get in her face.....all the bigger babies didn't go near her...lol I'm not being pushy with the lady at all. All I know is that they are not educated and I believe they love their dog. I went and bought food for her yesterday and gave it to the little boy....this little boy is the best!!! He is so thankful for everything. When I gave him the food he said..you are so nice. For now I'm going to be there for them and educate them. If that doesn't work then I'm going to ask but I have to have more conversation with the mom first and get to know her a little. The reason why I groomed her was because I couldn't stand to see her nails curling into her paw pads. If some think I'm wrong then you are entitled to your own opinion...I would not only do it for her I'll do it for any other animal. The lady was so grateful and wasn't mad. Don't get me wrong when I was grooming her I did think that there was a possibilty that she would be upset but she wasn't. I did it and its done and I feel proud. I'll post some pics later!!!