This question may sound CRAZY, but I must ask
 

How many of you would use SEX, yes Sex just to get a new puppy? Not just any puppy, a yorkie?::aimeeyork While in petsmart this girl held a cute white poodle while another lady talked about yorkies. Of course I was all ears as I played like I was :confused: while looking at puppy clothes. The lady with the poodle ooohed and aawwed as the yorkie owner gave her all the WRONG information. I was going to intervene when I hear the poodle owner make this statement: She goes, I want a yorkie so bad, I'm going to have to sex my guy up for an entire week to get one. I was like :eek: at "a week of sex" just for a puppy. My mind wondered as to how many weeks of sex she would put out for a dayum car.:D
How many of you had to SCHMOOZE up to your significant other to get your 1st or 2nd yorkie, or any pet for that matter? I need to know, because I must be doing something wrong.:( I paid for both of mines w/no help. I just got a steady boyfriend, I've been dating for a while till now. Maybe a week of sex would've paid for my new puppy. :D Thank goodness I don't use sex as a tool. LOL

I dont know about any of your but Im the one who is always asking for sex lol...Id probably have to promise not to bug him for sex in order to get a new yorkie lol...

Dawn

:thumbs_up, I hear ya sweetr72, and I wouldn't be asking for it just for a puppy. I got my own needs! LOL!

Hehe...

That's just sad, sorry but I bought both of mine on my own. I've always been very independent and do what I want when I want to do it. If I want something, I go out and get it. I've moved past the 6 year old little girl having to ask "Daddy" before she can go get something...let alone having to butter some guy up to buy me something, I'm a grown woman now and I can pay for my own things :) If my boyfriend wanted to buy me something as a gift to say " I know you wanted this and I got it because I love you" fine, but a gift because "I got you this because you were sleeping with me" to me, that is just about as good as being a prostitute. I think anyone who sleeps with someone to get their way on something obviously does not have enough intelligence to get it with her brain and therefore must resort to using her body. So, my answer for this question would be no, I would never use sex as a means to something, it's stupid and petty to play with someones physical emotions that way you either always have it or you don't. Not, hm, maybe this week cause I'd like a diamond ring...oh and hun, I'm good this week I don't need anything....but next week I want that new suit at Saks and 5th so I'll be back then! Give me a break! :rolleyes:

I bought my yorkie on my own but it took me a little bit to convince my fiance that I needed her. However I did not use sex as the weapon.. I used the way I get my way every time..I just didn't drop the subject.Eventually he gave in and said Fine. and he loves her!

:grin2: I second that!!:D

I don't think the woman at the store is necessarily talking about prostituting herself, nor do I think that she is not independent and can't pay her own way (though, that may be true too, there's just no way to tell from that statement alone). In any healthy romantic relationship there's a dose of play and flirtation when it comes to many things, which also includes buying items for each other. It could all be a part of their private romantic game. Or, it could be that he is her sugar daddy - who knows? There's a great book about this topic, the name of it is "Games people play" by Eric Berne. He talks about both "good" and "bad" games in relationships. An excellent read.

Would I personally do it? Maybe :D Depends if my personal need have been satisfied, like one of the posters above mentioned :p

Well I'm gleefully single now. But I was married for eight years - I didn't sleep with my husband especially to get my yorks - he helped me out with some $$ cos he wanted too - not because I put out.

However, I knew that if I wanted him to do some household chore there was only one time to ask - - the morning after! :D :thumbup: :D :thumbup:

But now - I'm all about satisfying the woman within ! Hooray for being single!:thumbup: :thumbup:

Interesting discussion. Maybe you could post it to the poll section and see how many reply.

I've never used sex as a bargaining chip. Maybe it was more of a joking comment -- like "I will really have to butter him up for him to say yes" more than actually trading sex for puppy money.

I'm old now, I would probably do better promising to polish his golf clubs ...... than something else.....

I'm sure she meant it as a good thing. I've been married almost 16 years(together since we were 17) and I'm all in favor of trading some nookie for something I want :). It's just fun..yes, I'm sure he'd just give me what I want if I asked but this way is just plain easier sometimes!

Sometimes it just makes light of a situation when you're tired. Hubby will look a little frisky and I'll say "well...maybe...as long as you fix the front door today". I could totally see me saying "Honey, I'll make sure you get lucky every day this week if I can get a new puppy!". LOL It'd be a win win for both parties if you ask me.

I would in a heartbeat if it would work

yeah, this is pretty much me....well..I didn't buy her on my own...we are married now and share our money...but i did have to beg him and convince him. we had 2 dogs already and he just didn't want another dog. but now that we have her, he loves her more than anything. it is so sweet. but no, I did not use sex to get her and would never use sex as a tool for anything. he just realized how much it meant to me and decided to get her for me for christmas.

I use sex sometimes to get what I want...my husband doesn't realize that is what is happening...but it magically changes his mind...and I get what I want without an argument..whatever works:D

FlDebra and MakeMePretty!!! Love your responses. You definitely started my day off with a laugh!!!! Thanks!

I just told my boyfriend that I wanted another yorkie a year after he bought Max for my birthday. I told him that Max needs a playmate since we work all day. I told him that he didn't have to give another as a birthday gift, though. A few weeks later we jointly purchased Abbie--no sex required :p

Sissy was a genuine gift from my hubby. He new I wanted a Yorkie puppy and he told me he would pay for one for my Valentine's gift last year. Well, I ended up getting her in November, so a very early Valentine's gift, but he did pay for her. With Angel, I paid for her. I should be putting all my earnings toward my VISA bill, but that obviously isn't going anywhere!!

Guilty LOL, I had to promise all kind of things lol, was so worth it ;)

:D Here here! LOL it's all in fun, I'm sure. We do sex bargaining here. If I have to have sex I'm going to make it worth while haha. I'm only kidding but yes in fun we have both used sex to get what we want. We'd get what we want without the sex but the sex makes it a little more fun.

your right brandy, its a fun game.. only out of fun.

Hey, I'm all for it! My friends always joke that if you want the DH to get something for you, the best time to ask for it is right after sex. Hell, after you've been with them for 10 years, you realize that everybody is happier this way!:wink:
That being said.......**scratching my head**, why did I use my own money to buy Cali??!! I must be slipping.

I'm old now, I would probably do better promising to polish his golf clubs ...... than something else.....[/QUOTE]

lmao that is too funny! I think every one butters up a little to the other when they want something!

It was probably a joke the woman said, but to a Sales PERSON??? Thats a bit personal don't ya think?? haha

Anyways, Im with you blondiegirl... very independant, bought my own yorkies and never ask for either permission or money! Makes it easier on myself! (maybe not financially but in other ways) :p

My hubby is the most generous person I know. :hearts33: I don't even have to ask for things ... all I have to do is say I like something and he buys it for me. I didn't have to beg for all 3 of my puppies. I said I wanted them and he said let's go buy them. But sometimes we do play around and he'll say stuff like, "Well if you want to buy Tia that new dress ... it's gonna cost you" or I'll say, "If you vacuum for me, I'll give you a little surprise <wink> <wink>" but it's TOTALLY joking and in good humor. I'm very blessed ... my hubby is so generous and giving. He's a wonderful guy and I just love him to pieces. :iheartu: :luv:

We don't look at our money like MY money and HIS money. It's OUR money and we are both equal when it comes it spending/buying.

YEP! Same here. That is exactly what I was thinking the entire time I was reading this thread. I find it really amazing that so many married couples keep their money separate where the husband has "HIS" money and the wife has "HER" money...that is really crazy to me! :eek: We have a joint account, and every red cent that is in that account is "OURS" - regardless of whether it came from my paycheck, or his.

I have never understood, nor will I ever understand exactly WHY married couples keep their money separate??? :confused: I just think that is so WEIRD! It makes no sense to me.

Also - I just have to add in that my hubby sounds alot like yours ;) He is an EXTREMELY caring and giving husband - and is always surprising me with gifts. He will go out and buy me something if he hears me say I like it, or that I would like to have it. He is the best husband in the world! :hug:

awwww you both are soooo lucky......i had that once, oh well

My husband and I have an account together that is for the household bills only. But I have my own fun money account, and so does he. We did try one account back when we first got together in 1997, but that didn't work. The reason being is that Mister has a terrible habit of using his ATM for EVERY SINGLE THING HE BUYS. You ever try balancing a checkbook when there are charges for $1.89 and $2.25, and there are no receipts in sight, and he can't remember using the card, and he doesn't understand why the money doesn't come out right away, and so on? No fun. So.........in order to stay happily married, this is how it has got to be. And I got that advice from Mom and Dad who were married for 46 years so there's gotta be something alright about it.

Good for you folks who can do it the other way, but it was either this way or kill the man. Love him to pieces, but love him with my own account.

sex for a puppy....i love sex and i love puppies. sounds like fun to me

Does your husband have brother or cousin who would marry me????
I'm looking for a nice man!!!!
Well, aside that.
I only gave a sad puppy eyes to my father to get my last 2 yorkies. (RIP to both of them)
Momiji (current one) is all my money!!!
I worked 2 jobs to save money to buy her and it worth the hard work!!!