Originally Posted by matese (Post 4592114)

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Originally Posted by capt_noonie (Post 4592120)

She did say though she has had the yorkie for 1 year and been with the bf for 2 years. So the bf was in the picture first, but the yorkie doesn't realize that, with him coming into her house.

I wonder though, did she not discuss her getting a dog with the bf? Why not?

Originally Posted by Angram1983 (Post 4592137)

Hello, I have a 2 year old baby girl that I got from a coworker in March. Lexi is super smart and will potty outside and lets us know when she needs to go as long as we are home. But when we leave for work or she is alone she pees in the same spot EVERY single time. I don't know what to do. Please help!

Originally Posted by matese (Post 4592134)

1-In the one year she had the pup, the BF had to have gone to home, saw, smelled, KNEW the dog was not potty trained, KNEW the pup used the entire home as it's toilet, but still moves in then says get rid of the dog.
2-This is JUST a BF, why would she have to "discuss" her getting a dog, it's her home, she is I assume self supporting,he is not paying her rent, he is NOT a husband where you would discuss getting anything.
Bottom line.....He KNEW how the dog was,he KNEW she didn't train this dog, he KNEW what he was moving into, he did this on his own free will, then has the b!!ls to tell her to get rid of the dog. BS, he is a control freak, today get rid of the dog, tomorrow I want you to quit your job I don't like the ppl you work with. If this man really cared for her he would offer to work with her in training this dog that he knows she loves, not tell her to get rid of it.....I'd be dammed if I HAD to ask or even discuss with a BF me getting a dog, I didn't HAVE to do that with my husband (when I was married) I wanted a dog, I got a dog, but I ALONE cared for that dog. In all honesty, the OP put up this thread and has not been seen since, to me it's a troll just trying to stir up YT members. There have been many members giving advise, suggestions, solutions and no OP.....TROLL

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1 (Post 4592133)

She is in her and Emma's own living space....man is moving into WOMAN AND PUP'S living space......he can adjust to the situation as it is, help her either train the pup or PAY for a professional to help train the pup, or go back to his OWN cave..........
She has had BF for 2 years, but he JUST crashed into HER and HER PUP'S HOME 5 months ago....

"I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he moved in with me five months ago. I have had my yorkie Emma for one year and she is not very well trained.".........

Emma WINS!!! Hit the road BF!!!

Originally Posted by Angram1983 (Post 4592137)

Hello, I have a 2 year old baby girl that I got from a coworker in March. Lexi is super smart and will potty outside and lets us know when she needs to go as long as we are home. But when we leave for work or she is alone she pees in the same spot EVERY single time. I don't know what to do. Please help!

Originally Posted by gemy (Post 4592297)

I think it is reasonable to ask and also to be Part of the solution of training this puppy. That is reasonable for the man to ask this to be done. Not reasonable if the first goto was actually to get rid of the dog!


The OP made the decision to purchase this puppy and is ultimately and predominately responsible for correcting the problems her lack of training of this dog created.


I would not rush to presume or assume that the facts are as stated - what has been omitted? this is only one persons side of the storyline. But for sure she is doing this dog no favours in the way she has raised it. Behavioural issues are one of the prime reasons dogs are surrendered and quite frankly new homes can be hard to find for these dogs.

Originally Posted by gemy (Post 4592335)

Thanks Linda for explaining you were talking about health issues. And for sure they can be daunting in the Yorike breed. But for general maintenance for sure dentals. Most large breeds (but not all) have no need for yearly dentals if you as the owner care for their teeth.


For my large breed - and it can be quite devastating - hip and elbow dysplasia - CCL Tears - thyroid dysfunction - PRA and Cataracts. and heart disease. Also allergies - ear infections and cancer to the toenail and nose....

Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 4592324)

I beg to differ on the main reason for surrender being training. It is because people believe pups are second class beings and disposable.

If I had a nickel for every woman who gave up her yorkie for a man or a child, I would have a nice little stash of money. They love, love, love their yorkies until something else comes along to love. NOT saying this is the case with the OP. I have no idea what this person or her boyfriend are about..I can only go by what she said and her boyfriend is sadly not unique. I STILL say that I would dump any person who asked me to get rid of my pups. Again, they are living beings and anyone who makes a suggestion like that probably should never own a pup. There are MANY people who should not own pups. Her boyfriend would not have moved into my home ... I would have known how he felt about my pup and my guess is she knew. Poor pup....I hate these stories so very much. I don't have any feelings for the OP or her boyfriend....it is the pup who ends up with the short end of the stick and it is disgusting that this happens. I will never sadly live to see animals have rights, but I believe one day it may be a reality.

The other main issue for surrenders is medical issues that people cannot afford. I have spoken with many, many rescuers and the bottom line is that yorkies honestly are one of if not THE most high maintenance pups out there. And, I am not referring to general maintenance and grooming. It's funny, I was just talking with an all breed rescuer yesterday and she said exactly that. The list of problems with yorkies these days is so long....it gets worse and worse. Why? Popularity...people like Paris Hilton (gag) ... and everyone wants a pocket pup. And, crap breeders are more than willing to fill that demand and sell to anyone with a few bucks in hand. :{ All that indisciminate breeding is ruining the breed ....and putting poor innocent living beings in horrible places. I wish a celebrity would step out with a stuffed animal from Build A Bear and start a new fad.

Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 4592359)

I thought I had explained it in the original post.

Bottom line is that yorkies are becoming one of the worst breeds in terms of having medical issues and people simply are not prepared to deal with the financial repercussions. One bout of pancreatitis can be extremely expensive...if treated properly. If not, they often die. :( It is a very common issue with yorkies.

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1 (Post 4592366)

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This is secondary to people that look at a Yorkie, see nothing but dollar signs, turn around and breed that yorkie they know NOTHING about what conditions/diseases/etc are in THAT dog's lines, nor in the lines behind the dog they use to breed with, and gleefully have a litter of God only knows what kind of genetic disasters, turn around and dump them on unsuspecting, uninformed buyers, who gleefully see the same $$$$ and start breeding for vacations and paying for all the goodies in their lives.... and the entire thing is nothing more than a heart break and a train wreck waiting to happen.....and dump them QUICKLY, before they are responsible for shots or before those little time bombs start to get sick and die off.... And then there are the people that indiscriminately throw anything MIXED with a Yorkie, together, to cover Christmas or a great summer vacation, or new carpet for the house.....they know absolutely NOTHING about the genetic diseases and malformations their dog has lurking in its pedigree, and they know nothing about the dog they are using to breed with.....this aint like baking a cake, throwing crap together and crossing your fingers hoping it all turns out OK....then even more tragically, peddling these little time bombs onto a non suspecting buyer....but that is what I see happening every single day......so very tragic, the destruction of such a noble breed, by nothing more than ignorance and greed.

Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 4592324)

I beg to differ on the main reason for surrender being training. It is because people believe pups are second class beings and disposable.

If I had a nickel for every woman who gave up her yorkie for a man or a child, I would have a nice little stash of money. They love, love, love their yorkies until something else comes along to love. NOT saying this is the case with the OP. I have no idea what this person or her boyfriend are about..I can only go by what she said and her boyfriend is sadly not unique. I STILL say that I would dump any person who asked me to get rid of my pups. Again, they are living beings and anyone who makes a suggestion like that probably should never own a pup. There are MANY people who should not own pups. Her boyfriend would not have moved into my home ... I would have known how he felt about my pup and my guess is she knew. Poor pup....I hate these stories so very much. I dUnIon't have any feelings for the OP or her boyfriend....it is the pup who ends up with the short end of the stick and it is disgusting that this happens. I will never sadly live to see animals have rights, but I believe one day it may be a reality.

The other main issue for surrenders is medical issues that people cannot afford. I have spoken with many, many rescuers and the bottom line is that yorkies honestly are one of if not THE most high maintenance pups out there. And, I am not referring to general maintenance and grooming. It's funny, I was just talking with an all breed rescuer yesterday and she said exactly that. The list of problems with yorkies these days is so long....it gets worse and worse. Why? Popularity...people like Paris Hilton (gag) ... and everyone wants a pocket pup. And, crap breeders are more than willing to fill that demand and sell to anyone with a few bucks in hand. :{ All that indisciminate breeding is ruining the breed ....and putting poor innocent living beings in horrible places. I wish a celebrity would step out with a stuffed animal from Build A Bear and start a new fad.

Originally Posted by audit21 (Post 4592465)

How long before this creep objects to your bowel movements and other habits? It WILL happen!

fiat lux:eek:

Originally Posted by audit21 (Post 4592465)

How long before this creep objects to your bowel movements and other habits? It WILL happen!

fiat lux:eek:

Originally Posted by capt_noonie (Post 4592537)

What does fiat lux mean?

Originally Posted by matese (Post 4592547)

I googled it was curious myself lol

fiat lux