| Lilah Charm | 12-21-2014 08:18 PM | Hey there, I have been actively following these two threads about mistibleu yorkies. My initial interest was piqued by the fact that the Op had inconsistent statements early on and that the dog had broken it's leg in her care but that the blame was going to the breeder- this was very interesting to me, particularly how the yt community was responding.
I saw linked threads (I read everything that was linked) that had very good reveiws and one bad one and I heard people saying, "didnt you see those other bad review threads they linked?!" And it confused me- because I actually read them and that isn't what I got from them. I also was surprised that no one seemed to notice the inconsistent reports of the op- I don't think it was intentional. She seems to care very much about her dog and my guess if I had one would be that she didn't understand the fragile nature of a twelve week old Yorkie puppy and didn't understand that fecofaeggea (did I spell that right? Eating ones own feces) is a common issue tht many dog owners have to deal with and so on and so forth and developed some (perhaps unsubstantiated) concepts/perceptions about the experience she had getting her puppy, especially d there was a misunderstanding of contract. Again, I'm just some third party lady reading a story on the internet- what do I know either way?
But then looking at her website too, she upheld every criteria I would expect to find on a website- and yes, it's just a website, a glimmer of an image of a concept on some vast world called the internet displayed neatly for the judgment of millions on a telephone screen display. But there she was explaining the Yorkshire terrier standard and striving to uphold it, actively competing in shows and participating in health screenings and I didn't understand where some of the statements were coming from about her expressed breeding practices. So again , I was perplexed.
Susan, I am the one who used the term socially acceptable in regard to spay/neuter practices and I should've put quotations around it to make sure it was clear that I was implying a general perception of society as I beleive it to be. I mentioned in tha statement that I err to the side of later spay/neuter myself and I noticed that you mentioned you are a proponent of early spay/neuter. I think there are many valuable benefits and notable concerns on each side of the issue and that what might be appropriate in one situation is totally not in another. I do not hold an engraved subscription to one school of thought on this subject and value healthy conversation in regard to it. By using the term socially acceptable, I meant to imply what is (I beleive) socially commonplace and would have described my intended communication more accurately if I had employed the use of quotations.
Because I didn't understand where the 'bad breeder' allegations were coming from- beside the op and the one time LCP poster and because I aknowledge that misunderstandings and dissapointing outcomes can come from even the best planned breedings, I asked Taylor to help me see what I was missing and I do appreciate that she very kindly shared with me what she was searching and where she was getting the information she was sharing. I know that her challenges with the issues her lady Callie had/has from poor breeding practices have really created a sensitive place in her heart for the subject of poor breeding practices and I fully acknowledge that this issue is very touchy for all the people involved. I also see Gail here, a dedicated hard working show breeder who for the record does work with more than one breed and is actively involved in many issues within the dog world. I can only imagine how heartbroken she would be If a pup she sent home broke it's leg the first day and then was told it was her fault or if she were determined to be a 'bad breeder' for having some involvement in more than one breed, ouch right? Her care and effort is evidenced in every training video posted, in her tireless advocacy and involvement in appropriate breed management legislation etc discussed openly here on this forum and I would not be in the least surprised if many people signed up for a website to defend her integrity if someone spoke poorly of her.
Anyhow, this post is getting rather long so I will wrap it up. It is very important to me to keep interactions within the community positive because I don't feel that healthy thoughtful communication can occur without that. I do appreciate all perspectives here, Karyn's, Kim's, Taylor's, Gails, Susan's and all others who have chosento weigh in to this conversation because I think it is appropriate to do the best we can to make competent decisions to support or not support practices that influence the breed that we cooperatively care about. I appreciate every effort to share information and to communicate especially in the face of tense conversation. I generally don't think that small breed pups should be rehomed before twelve weeks and I don't disrespect a breeder for being involved in the care and managment of another breed- especially one that they are actively involved in showing as that requires extreme dedication and investment. But I think that's about the end of my two cents. As I said on the other thread- I Hope it all works out well for everybody. |