Insulted by rude person

[wisteria]

She sounds insecure....on top of being rude!

[deedeebear]

Originally Posted by docmartin

Sophie is a lovely Yorkie. I think the RV lady's comments reveal an inferiority complex that imparts subsidiarity as a defence/release syndrome. Probably a highly insecure woman, who sensed the closeness you two had and needed to deflect her subconscious insularity and envy, by denigrating your Sophie.

My mother who was a wonderfully, elegant and attractively eccentric lady, aged 92, in a deep moment of reflection, once told a friend;

'Oooh my Albert's been gone 27 years now, and I do miss the car!

Pyscologically she was trying to cover her keen loss of my father, by attempting to conceal it's latter day relevance, without realizing how comical it sounded. It's a related similarity of condition.

She truly loved him every day they were parted, as I do both of them.

I totally understand what you are saying.

[deedeebear]

Originally Posted by crazydoglade

I once had a"lady" tell me she didn't like my little (4 pound) foster yorkie.He was too big and his nosr was big. I just said "so is yours bitch " and moved on. Not my finest hour and insulting to dogs but nobody insults our babies. Your baby is beautiful.

LOL! Thanks your Yorkie is beautiful too! I felt like telling the women that her dogs needed to have baths and be brushed but I kept my mouth shut. I might have felt better if I had told her.

[Wylie's Mom]

Your kiddo is simply ADORABLE! Look at that little thang, so cute! She just has that "look" about her that pulls your heart right on in.

Some people need to put down others in order to feel better about themselves. Comments from people like that have absolutely zero to do with you, but rather with their own insecurities and need to compete. It's flabbergasting, I know...and can be hurtful...but don't take in what she's dishing out bc her opinion has no worth based upon where it's coming from.

[Wylie's Mom]

Originally Posted by deedeebear

LOL! Thanks your Yorkie is beautiful too! I felt like telling the women that her dogs needed to have baths and be brushed but I kept my mouth shut. I might have felt better if I had told her.

Nah, it's better you stayed on the high road. If you said something, you might've felt better in the moment, but later it would've felt yucky bc you stooped down to a yucky level, her level! You did it right .

[yorkiefan_]

Originally Posted by deedeebear

I recently took a trip and stayed at a RV Camp. I met a women who has 6 adult Yorkie's and 4- 2 week old puppies in her very small RV. She showed me all of them and had 6 cages one for each of them and the puppies stayed with the mother. They were all cute but when I showed her my Sophie she told me my dog was not show quality like hers and the judges would not allow her to be shown because the color on her head is too light. First thing I have no intentions on showing Sophie she is my baby and all I want to do with her is love her. Second I did not even ask her opinion on Sophie. I do not think it was necessary for her to make that comment. Some people! Attached is a picture of her a little over 8 months. I think she is beautiful!

Sophie is an absolute cutie! I have to admit that coiled chew toy looked like it was going to be something else in the thumbnail though, lol.

[deedeebear]

Originally Posted by yorkiefan_

Sophie is an absolute cutie! I have to admit that coiled chew toy looked like it was going to be something else in the thumbnail though, lol.

Lol! I had to go back and look at the picture again and never even noticed it before. Glad it was her chew toy and that she is a good girl and does that on the pad or outside and not the carpet.

[deedeebear]

Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom

Your kiddo is simply ADORABLE! Look at that little thang, so cute! She just has that "look" about her that pulls your heart right on in.

Some people need to put down others in order to feel better about themselves. Comments from people like that have absolutely zero to do with you, but rather with their own insecurities and need to compete. It's flabbergasting, I know...and can be hurtful...but don't take in what she's dishing out bc her opinion has no worth based upon where it's coming from.

Sophie has taken my heart. You are right it is better I handled it the way I did. Glad the lady left the park that day.

[Silver Lace]

Originally Posted by BabyGirl Rosie

She is adorable! Some people need to learn when to keep their mouths shut. Rude people are usually ignorant people. Ignore her. Your baby is precious!

That is right,every word you said.
Now to change the subject for a moment how do you get those smilies on your posts? I was going to put on the thumbs up ones I see others do and I can't ever get anything to come on the post.
Sorry that you were treated that way. No excuse for her rudeness.

[deedeebear]

Originally Posted by Silver Lace

That is right,every word you said.
Now to change the subject for a moment how do you get those smilies on your posts? I was going to put on the thumbs up ones I see others do and I can't ever get anything to come on the post.
Sorry that you were treated that way. No excuse for her rudeness.

When I reply to a post I have a list of Emotions or Icons I am able to use to the right of my post. . You should have these too I think.

I am not sure what to do if you don't but maybe someone else can please help us figure this out. Sorry I could not be of more help.

[Silver Lace]

Deedeebear,
Hope I spelled that right. Thank you so much for answering my question. My problem is that I have those emoticons to the right and no matter how much I click on them nothing will appear. I tried to put them in my signature but again,nothing would materialize. I just don't know what the problem is. Thanks for offering to help me out.

[Marhcarter]

Originally Posted by Vereen

I think your Sophie is just adorable. Cute, cute little face! I love the 'teen' look at this age - still a puppy look but on those long pretty legs!

Those beautiful long legs are what first caught my attention, since my Huey has incredibly short stubby legs. I call him my dachshund in a yorkie suit! Sophie is beautiful. I feel sorry for all those dogs crammed into cages in an RV! It sounds like a mini puppy mill!

[deedeebear]

Originally Posted by Silver Lace

Deedeebear,
Hope I spelled that right. Thank you so much for answering my question. My problem is that I have those emoticons to the right and no matter how much I click on them nothing will appear. I tried to put them in my signature but again,nothing would materialize. I just don't know what the problem is. Thanks for offering to help me out.

No Problem! When you are replying to a text look below at misc options and make sure you don't have the Disable smilies in text checked off.

[crystalsmom]

Originally Posted by Maximo

Sophie is absolutely adorable! I have to question the woman's knowledge of show Yorkies. Your Sophie is only 8 months old and has puppy colors. Max was silver on top of his head at that age. His coat went through many changes before settling on his 'Yorkie standard' adult colors. Teddy's topknot hair was WHITE, lol, before turning gold.

You have a beautiful Yorkie, and she looks like she is very sweet too.

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[chestermama]

she is very beautiful