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mustangbee · 12-30-2005, 10:14 AM

So glad you're OK. I just read this post and was going to call!
Wasn't on last night. My son was downloading to his ipod.
At least we know you're OK. Have a great day all!

GucciMyGirl · 12-30-2005, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by vainchick5

Heather I'm glad you're ok. But when I see something like this...
"My boyfriend is being VERY difficult...someone please help me..."
I don't assume that everything is alright or that he just gets a little crazy. Is everything REALLY ok?

I agree with vainchick, you shouldn't write that if the situation is not desperate, I do hope all is well....

rrosenberry · 12-30-2005, 10:23 AM

Glad everything is Ok.. BUT for future reference,, please dont use ALARM words,... Like HELP, and then just disappear,, You must know, we are like family here,and people get worried. I sure you didn't mean to worry us,,and you just didn't think of the wording you used. But as you can see,,how things escalate to worry.

artierae · 12-30-2005, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by rrosenberry

Glad everything is Ok.. BUT for future reference,, please dont use ALARM words,... Like HELP, and then just disappear,, You must know, we are like family here,and people get worried. I sure you didn't mean to worry us,,and you just didn't think of the wording you used. But as you can see,,how things escalate to worry.

I agree Rhonda! That really scares me when something like that happens. It was obvious it scared a lot of people here.

Julz · 12-30-2005, 03:42 PM

I have read and felt a lot of concern in this thread. Either one of two things has happened. 1) you had everyone in a panic for no reason or 2) there really is a cause for concern and you have "forgiven". I feel that a little more of an explanation would be the sincere thing to do as every response you got was very sincere. This is a great bunch of people who deserve honesty

I would like to add that regardless of whether it is "1" or "2", it is not a game and should not be taken lightly.

BamaFan121s · 12-30-2005, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Julz

I have read and felt a lot of concern in this thread. Either one of two things has happened. 1) you had everyone in a panic for no reason or 2) there really is a cause for concern and you have "forgiven". I feel that a little more of an explanation would be the sincere thing to do as every response you got was very sincere. This is a great bunch of people who deserve honesty

I would like to add that regardless of whether it is "1" or "2", it is not a game and should not be taken lightly.

red98vett · 12-30-2005, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by rrosenberry

Glad everything is Ok.. BUT for future reference,, please dont use ALARM words,... Like HELP, and then just disappear,, You must know, we are like family here,and people get worried. I sure you didn't mean to worry us,,and you just didn't think of the wording you used. But as you can see,,how things escalate to worry.

I SO Agree with this ..those are alarm words and all sorts of things go thru peoples minds - we had someone talk about suicide once on a site and people came very close to calling the cops on that one - just imagine how she would have felt if they showed up - I still don't think she understands the panic some people felt -

so you really have to watch the way you word things - and I'm really glad you're ok too !

YorkieRini · 12-30-2005, 03:58 PM

Glad you're OK Heather, but I personally felt your life was in danger reading your post!

rnnw62 · 12-30-2005, 04:33 PM

I am glad I am not the only one feeling this way. I happen to
be one of the people that was in here when that thread was
posted. I am glad you are alright and I am really glad that you
feel loved too, but after getting about an hour and a half of
sleep because I couldn't stop worrying about you and if I had
done enough. A simple "I am OK" would have been very, very
appreciated.

Kate · 12-31-2005, 01:43 AM

Heather,

I just found your post tonight, and thank God I read each and every post and found that you are OK.

Really, I am glad I did not see this when you first posted it as I would have freaked out. Very frightening to say the least.

I am glad you are OK, and if you are not being treated
in a respectful way, you need to get out of this relationship.
If it is abuse, believe me, it will only get worse.

Truly, it sounded like you were being abused, and I hope I am wrong.

Take good care of yourself. We all care about you.

Kate

Quote:

Originally Posted by luvmymonkies

Can someone please call my cell number...310-709-4746 My phone is here in my house...

My boyfriend is being VERY difficult...someone please help me...

Yorkie24U · 01-02-2006, 10:06 PM

I agree with Kate, did something happen to put your little baby in danger too with her pups ? Now wondering .........I hope the boyfriend didn't hurt her to cause this devistation you're now going thru. God forbid. Please be honest with us, we are all concerned here.

12-30-2005, 10:14 AM	#46
mustangbee Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina :) Posts: 10,616	So glad you're OK. I just read this post and was going to call! Wasn't on last night. My son was downloading to his ipod. At least we know you're OK. Have a great day all! __________________ Friends are God's way of apologizing for our relatives. "Love & Support Our YT Members" Gina & Princess Member of the SSLS

12-30-2005, 10:23 AM	#48
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	Glad everything is Ok.. BUT for future reference,, please dont use ALARM words,... Like HELP, and then just disappear,, You must know, we are like family here,and people get worried. I sure you didn't mean to worry us,,and you just didn't think of the wording you used. But as you can see,,how things escalate to worry. __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

12-30-2005, 03:42 PM	#50
Julz Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 4,347	I have read and felt a lot of concern in this thread. Either one of two things has happened. 1) you had everyone in a panic for no reason or 2) there really is a cause for concern and you have "forgiven". I feel that a little more of an explanation would be the sincere thing to do as every response you got was very sincere. This is a great bunch of people who deserve honesty I would like to add that regardless of whether it is "1" or "2", it is not a game and should not be taken lightly. Last edited by Julz; 12-30-2005 at 03:45 PM.

12-30-2005, 04:33 PM	#54
rnnw62 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Gilbert, Arizona Posts: 1,610	I am glad I am not the only one feeling this way. I happen to be one of the people that was in here when that thread was posted. I am glad you are alright and I am really glad that you feel loved too, but after getting about an hour and a half of sleep because I couldn't stop worrying about you and if I had done enough. A simple "I am OK" would have been very, very appreciated. __________________ Shelly, Teddy, Toby,Hanne & Indigo

12-30-2005, 03:58 PM	#53
YorkieRini Livin' La Yorkie Local Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: NE Ohio Posts: 1,607	Glad you're OK Heather, but I personally felt your life was in danger reading your post!

01-02-2006, 10:06 PM	#56
Yorkie24U YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: USA Posts: 659	I agree with Kate, did something happen to put your little baby in danger too with her pups ? Now wondering .........I hope the boyfriend didn't hurt her to cause this devistation you're now going thru. God forbid. Please be honest with us, we are all concerned here.