Looking to add a family member...

[GuinnessStout]

I am just not sure if I should look to adopt one close to same age as mine OR get a new baby...
Hubby demands whatever we get must have papers but I am worried about getting a tiny pup with my 12lb spoiled "only child" bull in a china shop lol

Should I be worried or would they fine together?
The breeder I got mine from has offered me another female at a discount but I am still a tad peeved of being a sucker and falling for her you picked the runt of the litter so since mom is 6lbs and dad is 5lbs he will still small so I had to pay $100 extra... And then when she called to check in at his first birthday told me it was my fault he was so large because of the type of food I fed him and that I should have kept him on puppy chow.

[Maximo]

A comment like that from a breeder would make me look for another breeder. The food you feed does not determine adult size.

Breeders and pet parents here have Yorkies of all sizes in their homes that get along great. I had the same question you did when I was looking for my second. Ultimately I decided against a little one and went with one that is closer in size. I also chose not to get a puppy -- Teddy was almost 8 months when we brought him home, and he was still very puppy like.

There is no magic formula for size or age differences. It really comes down to the individual pups. Some matches are fantastic, and some are more of a challenge.

Best wishes in adding your second.

[gracielove]

I would sure stay away from that breeder. The size of your dog is determined by it's genes and not what you feed it. The parents may or may not have been a small size but if they had larger dogs in their background then they carry genes that could produce pups that will also be larger.

If you don't feel your dog is properly trained I wouldn't get another one. If your dog is still having accidents in the house you will have an even harder time training a new puppy. The scent of past or present accidents will just encourage a puppy to potty in the same areas. Puppies will easily pick up any bad habits the older dog has.

[Verbena]

I agree with the above. Size is genetics not food. I would stay far away from that breeder. Glad you are not feeding him puppy chow. Bad food

[GuinnessStout]

Yea as soon as those words came out of her mouth I was peeved.. I could care less if he is the size as a Great Dane as long as I know he is healthy and eating food that is good for him.

With the potty training I KNOW he is trained but he does things just to be a brat... for instance he does not pee in the house unless you are standing in the shower and he gets in and pee's on your ankle and foot while in the shower. Which is why I am hoping with a buddy he would stop being a brat.

[yavenay]

Good luck my little one would not be happy

[My lil friend]

Years ago we had a 70lb only furbaby. I brought home not 1,not 2,but 3 poodle puppies all male. I was worried that he would step on them. He was so gentle with the tiny puppys. I would never of gotten the little boys potty trained if it hadnt been for him. When my little yorkie girl came in the house it was the poodles turn to teach.

[Maximo]

Originally Posted by GuinnessStout

Yea as soon as those words came out of her mouth I was peeved.. I could care less if he is the size as a Great Dane as long as I know he is healthy and eating food that is good for him.

With the potty training I KNOW he is trained but he does things just to be a brat... for instance he does not pee in the house unless you are standing in the shower and he gets in and pee's on your ankle and foot while in the shower. Which is why I am hoping with a buddy he would stop being a brat.

Having a buddy probably won't change behavior the way you want it to. Could make things worse. My Max's weakness is barking. Adding a second dog made it worse. When Max started getting quieter, Teddy started filling in the gap...then Max had to prove he is louder. They egg each other on. I love having 2 and I think they are great for each other, but having 2 presents a different set of challenges.

[GuinnessStout]

That is why I am so mixed emotions on the whole thing... he loves playing with other dog's but he is also VERY hyper and does sneaky bratty things.

This morning was one of those mornings that breaks my heart though, he knew I was leaving for work so he ran got one of his tshirts and stood at the door with it in his mouth which with him means "Hello dress me I am going with you!!" then when my husband went to leave for work once again he blocked the door. So I know he gets lonely.

[CouversMom]

Poor boy... That t-shirt story makes me sad for him. I definitely wouldn't get him a playmate to stop him from being a brat If anything, it increases bad behaviors because they have someone to egg them on!

I know my male really enjoys having a buddy to hang out with while I'm at work. I feel less guilty leaving him at home because I know he has his little sister to play with.

I would definitely stay away from that breeder though... Extra money because the pup was supposed to stay small? No way. Find a reputable breeder and you will be much happier.

[Maximo]

Originally Posted by GuinnessStout

That is why I am so mixed emotions on the whole thing... he loves playing with other dog's but he is also VERY hyper and does sneaky bratty things.

This morning was one of those mornings that breaks my heart though, he knew I was leaving for work so he ran got one of his tshirts and stood at the door with it in his mouth which with him means "Hello dress me I am going with you!!" then when my husband went to leave for work once again he blocked the door. So I know he gets lonely.

That is heartbreaking (and adorable at the same time)! Sounds like he does need company. Just be prepared knowing that 2 does not make an angel out of the first.

[GuinnessStout]

I have to be honest and say I really would not want him to stop being a brat all together, heck I will be the first to say I am still my daddy's spoiled brat lol
BUT I would like him to stop licking the paint off my kitchen walls or eating holes in the wall.. Sorry but painting my kitchen is not something I care to do weekly haha

[gracielove]

Licking and biting indicate a dog with some problems. Paint can be toxic to a dog and wood splinters certainly could cause some health problems as well. You say he is a hyper dog so I assume when he is left alone he is bored and starts chewing things. If he had another puppy it might help with the boredom but he could also teach the other dog to get into as much trouble as he does. Does he have activity toys to help occupy his mind while you are gone? An active dog left alone needs things to occupy the time. Some people have had good success with Kong toys stuffed with treats. They give the dog something to do for a while anyway.

[GuinnessStout]

Originally Posted by gracielove

Licking and biting indicate a dog with some problems. Paint can be toxic to a dog and wood splinters certainly could cause some health problems as well. You say he is a hyper dog so I assume when he is left alone he is bored and starts chewing things. If he had another puppy it might help with the boredom but he could also teach the other dog to get into as much trouble as he does. Does he have activity toys to help occupy his mind while you are gone? An active dog left alone needs things to occupy the time. Some people have had good success with Kong toys stuffed with treats. They give the dog something to do for a while anyway.

The only times we have the issue with paint licking is after my husband goes out of town for work.. if he watches him carry suitcases out the door he knows he is gone for a while so he will stay laying at that door for a couple days to the point where I have to move his water and food and he will just lick the wall next to his head.
This dog has a FULL toy box in the living room and another FULL one in our bedroom. he has Kongs BUT will not even eat the fillings or treats that will fit in there!! He only will snack on baby carrots, apples and snacks from the local puppy bakery.

This is last time his "daddy" went out of town for a week...