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gidget529 · 12-20-2011, 02:32 PM

I'm not sure how old Jimmy is. He looks young on your avatar. Has he had all of his vaccinations yet? If not, I would not take him around that many ppl and risk him catching something yet.

Also, we had a member here (another great yorkie-loving guy!) who had his little boy's leg broken by accident by a family member. They are just so fragile, especially when little.

It is good to hear from another male yorkie-lover. My husband fell in love w these little ones years ago when he met me (before that, poor guy thought he was a lab guy!). He also takes very good care of these little ones. When he takes one of our little ones around friends/relatives, they stay in his arms the whole time. Even though they are full grown, he is afraid to put them down. If she has her heart set on taking him, I would also suggest a playpen to keep him safe. You sound like a smart guy. I'm sure you'll figure out a tactful way to handle it w GF. My husband can be pretty smooth when trying to get me to change my mind w things.

beecee · 12-20-2011, 02:37 PM

Yup, he has all his shots and all that. I am worried about someone stepping on him the most.

Thanks for the kudos, although I'm pretty tough, I'm just a girl. Sorry, I know it's confusing whey I put GF, I should just use friend (even though she is my girlfriend)

It's going to be super tough to convince her so I think I'll just take the initiative and just grab a play pen and lock it up so the kids don't open it.

Last time we were at her sisters house poor little Jimmy fell in the pool...I almost had a heart attack!

gidget529 · 12-20-2011, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by beecee

Yup, he has all his shots and all that. I am worried about someone stepping on him the most.

Thanks for the kudos, although I'm pretty tough, I'm just a girl. Sorry, I know it's confusing whey I put GF, I should just use friend (even though she is my girlfriend)

It's going to be super tough to convince her so I think I'll just take the initiative and just grab a play pen and lock it up so the kids don't open it.

Last time we were at her sisters house poor little Jimmy fell in the pool...I almost had a heart attack!

No apologies from you necessary. I made the bad assumption. (I have been taught what happens when you assume, yet I continue to do it.

)

It would explain your intelligence, insight and sensitivity, you're one of us!

(Sorry guys for my female chauvinism.)

On the topic, though, I think you're right about the playpen thing. These dogs are so tiny and easily stepped on.

Deuce · 12-20-2011, 04:06 PM

You could always say he isn't potty trained yet as an excuse to keep him close by under your supervision. If he absolutely must come with keep him leashed to your side when he is out being introduced, then when he is tuckered out put hum in his crate and behind closed doors. Let the kids know that he doesn't like to be picked up, and tell the adults if they or their kids pick him up and he wriggles out of their arms and hurts himself they are footing the bills, emphasize that a broken let can cost $1k easy. More if they need surgery to fix the way the bone set. That should be enough to keep him safe from being picked up, but keeping him at your side willbe safest, he'll b less likely to be picked up or stepped on.
Good luck l, hope you have a happy Christmas!

tinalove · 12-20-2011, 04:12 PM

If you must go I would agree take a crate. However, I know that a lot of people will want to hold him which may not be a good idea. The children will want to hold him too. Some folks will be offended and make comments when you suggest that they not hold him so much. You are in a difficult situation. I wish you the best. Too bad you didn't take him to visit her mom earlier. Some people aren't understanding that pets have feelings and shouldn't be handled 24/7. He is small and cute, so expect a lot of handling.

gracielove · 12-20-2011, 04:14 PM

I would now want to take him either. Especially with a young one there that wants to pick him up. If the child picked him up wrong when no one was watching it could be an injury.

Your girl friend wants to show off her dog which is understandable but a large gathering might not be the best place to display a little puppy for the first time. If she won't listen to you I would suggest that you be there to watch over the little guy 24/7. Don't let him wander unattended. It may be dangerous and it may interrupt his potty training as well.

B_and_Bs_Mom · 12-20-2011, 04:50 PM

What about putting him in a sling, or stroller, so you could carry him around? That way he is not running around on the floor but people can see him. I also use the stroller when I take my two where there are a lot of people. They are harnessed in and off the floor and if it gets to be too much, I will zip them up and say they need to rest for a while

Joyce Adams · 12-20-2011, 06:51 PM

I would set some rules from the get go,,,they are to precious to take a chance on someone hurting them..I know you will watch out for your baby but it could be a stressful day. You have heard some good advice here and I agree with them..Good luck and Merry Christmas

My lil friend · 12-20-2011, 08:39 PM

An expen can be purchased at Petsmart or Petco if it is in the budget. A babys "pac n Play" works well too Walmart and Target about $40.
We had a house full of 20 last Sunday and I was a nervous wreck. My kids (all six) were kind enough to hold my baby up off the floor most of the time if I was busy. They were so sweet to do this so I wouldnt have to worry as much. I did put my baby in her crate in another room while we were eating.
Good luck!

lillymae · 12-20-2011, 10:31 PM

I would deff let your GF know how you feel & your fears as you are rite to feel the way that you do. I would also recommend that if you take the pup that you keep it in a crate & if ANYONE else holds your pup that they be sitting down. There is another YT member who took their pup to visit relatives & an adult was holding the pup, the pup jumped out of the guys hands & broke it's leg. If she insists on taking the pup then it is deff time for you to purchase that crate. FYI- Walmart has crates for reasonable prices.

chachi · 12-21-2011, 12:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gidget529

No apologies from you necessary. I made the bad assumption. (I have been taught what happens when you assume, yet I continue to do it.

)

It would explain your intelligence, insight and sensitivity, you're one of us!

(Sorry guys for my female chauvinism.)

On the topic, though, I think you're right about the playpen thing. These dogs are so tiny and easily stepped on.

Im sorry I assumed too and I definitely didnt mean to be insensitive. I still think you are a wonderful yorkie parent. It is rare on here I hear someone taking such caution with their yorkie pup. Your Girlfriend is very lucky to have you as a partner

Harrysmum · 12-21-2011, 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

Can you take a play pen and put him in it?

Exactly what I was going to suggest!

They do come in handy, on more occasions than just this one!

And I think you'd make a wonderful 'Manny' !!!

Sally + Harry x

Harrysmum · 12-21-2011, 01:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Harrysmum

Exactly what I was going to suggest!

They do come in handy, on more occasions than just this one!

And I think you'd make a wonderful 'Manny' !!!

Sally + Harry x

Oh my goodness - I'd made assumptions, too!! I'm so sorry, I hadn't read 'page 2' yet aaargh!!

So instead please read - and I think you'd make a wonderful 'Nanny' !!! x

My Sophia · 12-21-2011, 02:06 AM

I was also going to suggest a playpen. It's portable, easy to set up, and a five year old shouldn't be tall enough to reach in and grab. Also if baby's not in the pen, keep him on a leash at all times. That might make it easier to keep him from getting stepped on. And if anyone questions the leash, just tell them he's not all the way potty trained, as someone else suggested. You don't want to risk any accidents ruining the rugs in Mom's house.

Smokey2011 · 12-21-2011, 03:33 AM

IMHO, it's not about anybody winning the argument, it's about what's best for the puppy. I see a number of possible compromises here:

1. Visit Mom on Xmas Eve when things are quieter.

2. Go earlier on Xmas Day and leave before the crowds arrive.

3. Take two cars and you go home early with the pup. (where I live, 45 minutes is 'around the corner')

4. You stay home with the little one.

We certainly dont want to turn Xmas into a power play or a battle ground, and partners need to come to a mutually acceptable agreement regarding what's good for the pup. My partner and I agree on EVERYTHING regarding Smokey's welfare and happiness. If not, then we do it MY WAY. :>)~

12-20-2011, 02:32 PM	#16
gidget529 Gidget & Sidney's Mom Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: PA Posts: 3,462	I'm not sure how old Jimmy is. He looks young on your avatar. Has he had all of his vaccinations yet? If not, I would not take him around that many ppl and risk him catching something yet. Also, we had a member here (another great yorkie-loving guy!) who had his little boy's leg broken by accident by a family member. They are just so fragile, especially when little. It is good to hear from another male yorkie-lover. My husband fell in love w these little ones years ago when he met me (before that, poor guy thought he was a lab guy!). He also takes very good care of these little ones. When he takes one of our little ones around friends/relatives, they stay in his arms the whole time. Even though they are full grown, he is afraid to put them down. If she has her heart set on taking him, I would also suggest a playpen to keep him safe. You sound like a smart guy. I'm sure you'll figure out a tactful way to handle it w GF. My husband can be pretty smooth when trying to get me to change my mind w things. __________________ Mommy to Gidget, Sidney & Cricket(RIP)

12-20-2011, 02:37 PM	#17
beecee Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Phoenix Posts: 626	Yup, he has all his shots and all that. I am worried about someone stepping on him the most. Thanks for the kudos, although I'm pretty tough, I'm just a girl. Sorry, I know it's confusing whey I put GF, I should just use friend (even though she is my girlfriend) It's going to be super tough to convince her so I think I'll just take the initiative and just grab a play pen and lock it up so the kids don't open it. Last time we were at her sisters house poor little Jimmy fell in the pool...I almost had a heart attack! __________________ Nikita - - ChiChi - Jimmy - - My Yelp Profile Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace. -Buddha

12-20-2011, 10:31 PM	#25
lillymae YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Idaho Posts: 4,544	I would deff let your GF know how you feel & your fears as you are rite to feel the way that you do. I would also recommend that if you take the pup that you keep it in a crate & if ANYONE else holds your pup that they be sitting down. There is another YT member who took their pup to visit relatives & an adult was holding the pup, the pup jumped out of the guys hands & broke it's leg. If she insists on taking the pup then it is deff time for you to purchase that crate. FYI- Walmart has crates for reasonable prices. Last edited by lillymae; 12-20-2011 at 10:32 PM.

12-21-2011, 03:33 AM	#30
Smokey2011 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Vermont Posts: 90	IMHO, it's not about anybody winning the argument, it's about what's best for the puppy. I see a number of possible compromises here: 1. Visit Mom on Xmas Eve when things are quieter. 2. Go earlier on Xmas Day and leave before the crowds arrive. 3. Take two cars and you go home early with the pup. (where I live, 45 minutes is 'around the corner') 4. You stay home with the little one. We certainly dont want to turn Xmas into a power play or a battle ground, and partners need to come to a mutually acceptable agreement regarding what's good for the pup. My partner and I agree on EVERYTHING regarding Smokey's welfare and happiness. If not, then we do it MY WAY. :>)~ __________________ Smokey's personal assistant, Jeff

12-20-2011, 04:06 PM	#19
Deuce No Longer a Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,717 Blog Entries: 1	You could always say he isn't potty trained yet as an excuse to keep him close by under your supervision. If he absolutely must come with keep him leashed to your side when he is out being introduced, then when he is tuckered out put hum in his crate and behind closed doors. Let the kids know that he doesn't like to be picked up, and tell the adults if they or their kids pick him up and he wriggles out of their arms and hurts himself they are footing the bills, emphasize that a broken let can cost $1k easy. More if they need surgery to fix the way the bone set. That should be enough to keep him safe from being picked up, but keeping him at your side willbe safest, he'll b less likely to be picked up or stepped on. Good luck l, hope you have a happy Christmas!

12-20-2011, 04:12 PM	#20
tinalove YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Orangeburg SC Posts: 567	If you must go I would agree take a crate. However, I know that a lot of people will want to hold him which may not be a good idea. The children will want to hold him too. Some folks will be offended and make comments when you suggest that they not hold him so much. You are in a difficult situation. I wish you the best. Too bad you didn't take him to visit her mom earlier. Some people aren't understanding that pets have feelings and shouldn't be handled 24/7. He is small and cute, so expect a lot of handling.

12-20-2011, 04:14 PM	#21
gracielove YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NY Posts: 6,582	I would now want to take him either. Especially with a young one there that wants to pick him up. If the child picked him up wrong when no one was watching it could be an injury. Your girl friend wants to show off her dog which is understandable but a large gathering might not be the best place to display a little puppy for the first time. If she won't listen to you I would suggest that you be there to watch over the little guy 24/7. Don't let him wander unattended. It may be dangerous and it may interrupt his potty training as well.

12-20-2011, 04:50 PM	#22
B_and_Bs_Mom Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Murrieta, CA, USA Posts: 27	What about putting him in a sling, or stroller, so you could carry him around? That way he is not running around on the floor but people can see him. I also use the stroller when I take my two where there are a lot of people. They are harnessed in and off the floor and if it gets to be too much, I will zip them up and say they need to rest for a while

12-20-2011, 06:51 PM	#23
Joyce Adams Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Kentucky Posts: 2,995	I would set some rules from the get go,,,they are to precious to take a chance on someone hurting them..I know you will watch out for your baby but it could be a stressful day. You have heard some good advice here and I agree with them..Good luck and Merry Christmas

12-20-2011, 08:39 PM	#24
My lil friend Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: FtWorth,TX,USA Posts: 3,269	An expen can be purchased at Petsmart or Petco if it is in the budget. A babys "pac n Play" works well too Walmart and Target about $40. We had a house full of 20 last Sunday and I was a nervous wreck. My kids (all six) were kind enough to hold my baby up off the floor most of the time if I was busy. They were so sweet to do this so I wouldnt have to worry as much. I did put my baby in her crate in another room while we were eating. Good luck!

12-21-2011, 02:06 AM	#29
My Sophia YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas, NV, USA Posts: 467	I was also going to suggest a playpen. It's portable, easy to set up, and a five year old shouldn't be tall enough to reach in and grab. Also if baby's not in the pen, keep him on a leash at all times. That might make it easier to keep him from getting stepped on. And if anyone questions the leash, just tell them he's not all the way potty trained, as someone else suggested. You don't want to risk any accidents ruining the rugs in Mom's house.