![]() |
Here is my two cents worth.. I totally agree with your husband... Eva is YOUR dog not hers and once the dog left her care it is NO LONGER her decission to make what happens to the puppies... If the lady that I bought Nicky from called me tomorrow and said that I had to breed Nicky I would just hang up on her, but if she kept at it, I would say... ( you can use this if you wanna ) I am sorry ( fill in name here ) the pup that you ( sold/ gave to me) is now in my care he/she is loved and that is all that matters in a dogs life, I am sorry that you don't agree but I wanted the dog for the enjoyment, not to see how much money I could make off her, and as far as her breed dieing out that will never happen, there are millions of yorkies out there that do not have homes and need love, till they are all adopted out and have a loving home, then we can worry about the breed dying out. If she wants the dog back, just tell her that you are very sorry but you can't do that, that you are in love with the dog and ask her to leave... Your friend doesn't really sound like a friend she sounds more like an enemy someone demanding that you do something with your dog needs to have something done to them, UGH... but when it comes to my fur babies I have become VERY outspoken I can't stand it when someone talks down to me about my children my children with fur that is lol I hope that your "friend" minds her own business!! |
Quote:
|
I have not noticed how greedy she is until she told me I had to breed Eva. Bella (her female, Eva's mom) is less than 3.5 lb when she was pregnant. I asked her then if it was intentional and she told me it wasn't. Now I don't think she was telling me the truth. She told me that she is going to use Bella again to make some money to recover what she lost from this first litter. She did NOT lose anything because I was the one who took the pups to the vet the first day after they were born. I was the one who paid for their deworming and their shots.one who paid to have their tails docked and dew claws removed. I was the I was the one who paid for dog food. I was the one who cleaned Bella and her poop 5+ times a day. I was never reimbursed like I was promised. I just don't understand her. I thought I did but now I'm not so sure. I really do think that she used me. My husband told me I didn't need a friend like her. Part of me wants to give up this friendship but I was friends with her since elementary and her daughter is my goddaughter. Is there any way that I can report her to SPCA anonymously? I really hate confrontations and I don't want her showing up at my house accusing me. I just have the dogs and the puppies best interest at heart and I hate to see them living in such conditions and being caged more than 23 hours a day. |
I've never heard of the SPCA saying who this source is. To me that would be very dumb, but who knows. It could be the first question you ask if you call them... I agree with yuor husband. And I've had friends for a long time as well, and it wasn't until I was an adult that I saw their true colors. Hugs to you, hope things go better. |
Quote:
|
Quote:
And speaking of legalities...do you have a purchase agreement or contract for ownership of Eva? If not and I were you.... I would make sure to have plenty of vet visits/receipts in my name, that Eva was licensed to you through your local county dog licensing agency and was microchipped and registered to you. |
Quote:
|
Quote:
To the OP you can be godmother to her daughter and still keep you and yours at a distance. Gifts to her child is always a good thing and you promised to be in this childs life. This does not make you responsible for her bills where her dog is conserned. She is responsible,she will pay either financially or her child will see how heartless she is. You can choose to cut off most of your time with her or you can continue to tell her that she is wrong and she may cut you out of her life. There is no good answer to this type of situation. I am sorry that you are finding that a life long friend has little consern for life. I will keep you in my prays and hope that your friends heart will be touched. |
Quote:
Quote:
|
Quote:
|
Quote:
|
Quote:
|
Quote:
|
Just tell her NO and tell her that you don't want to have this conversation again because it's NOT going to happen. When you call to report her , you do Need to tell whoever you talk to that you absolutely do not want this person to know who you are. Not all animal control officers use the brains God gave them & will spill the beans such as the one in the small town that I live in. Good luck & Stand your ground, for your babies sake . |
1. Take you pup to the nearest vet if you don't already have one. Schedule a full exam and do fecal! if you haven't already. GET YOUR PUP MICROCHIPPED!!! 2. Take your camera take pics of your pup with your vet. Even if this is a second vet visist it's worth the cost because you need to get your pup microchipped to you immediately! 3. Schedule the time for the pre spay blood work visit etc now even if it's not until your dog is 6 months old the vet will still schedule that far out... |
All times are GMT -8. The time now is 05:02 AM. |
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Copyright ©2003 - 2018 YorkieTalk.com
Privacy Policy - Terms of Use