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FlDebra · 06-18-2011, 06:59 PM

How rude can one person be? Your baby is cute as can be and I like leaving the hair on their legs when they get a short cut too! I don't see why she wouldn't like it, but even if she didn't why say it like that, or at all for that matter? Surely that couldn't give her any pleasure to be rude to you? What would be her reasoning. Probably none! Maybe she is going through emotional, psychological, hormonal, aging, medicinal, or just plain personality problems????? I do try to ask myself if people might be having some of those issues when their behavior is so bizarre like this lady. But I usually don't think that way until I cool off.

Glad you did not have to have a smack-down right there in Petsmart. You are right -- ALL YORKIES ARE PRECIOUS!

KazzyK810 · 06-18-2011, 07:18 PM

OMG! You showed amazing restraint!!! Zhoie is an absolutely gorgeous yorkie. I'm sure the woman was green with envy....hence the vileness.

capt_noonie · 06-18-2011, 07:23 PM

OMG what a moronic lady! Zhoie is so beautiful! I can't believe what some people say, thinking they aren't being rude. It's happened to me a few times, someone says something rude out of the blue, and I say something rude[er]

back at them, and they say I am rude. Just goes to show some people don't think they are being rude at all.

I have a comeback, but I don't think it's appropriate for YT LOL

btw what does "goaded" mean? I've never heard that before. I assume like got insulted?

Princess10 · 06-18-2011, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by capt_noonie

OMG what a moronic lady! Zhoie is so beautiful! I can't believe what some people say, thinking they aren't being rude. It's happened to me a few times, someone says something rude out of the blue, and I say something rude[er]

back at them, and they say I am rude. Just goes to show some people don't think they are being rude at all.

I have a comeback, but I don't think it's appropriate for YT LOL

btw what does "goaded" mean? I've never heard that before. I assume like got insulted?

It means like pulled you in, or pushed your buttons; instigated. That's how I'd attempt to explain it.

capt_noonie · 06-18-2011, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Princess10

It means like pulled you in, or pushed your buttons; instigated. That's how I'd attempt to explain it.

thanks!

Perrella · 06-19-2011, 03:57 AM

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Originally Posted by capt_noonie

OMG what a moronic lady! Zhoie is so beautiful! I can't believe what some people say, thinking they aren't being rude. It's happened to me a few times, someone says something rude out of the blue, and I say something rude[er]

back at them, and they say I am rude. Just goes to show some people don't think they are being rude at all.

I have a comeback, but I don't think it's appropriate for YT LOL

btw what does "goaded" mean? I've never heard that before. I assume like got insulted?

Umm....it's like urged, spurred me into saying something back to her. I retaliated. LOL, must be my WV way...

Sorry, I didn't answer until now...I went to bed...hahaha

lisaly · 06-19-2011, 04:54 AM

Everyone has a right to their opinion; sharing it makes no sense in this instance. She must be very ignorant, heartless, and/or rude. Of course, Zhoie is gorgeous, and she always looks very beautiful and adorable. I hope you are feeling much better and that you can laugh about this now.

JERSEY BOY · 06-19-2011, 05:15 AM

I am in shock Tena. How in the world did she think she had the right to comment like that. Obviously she doesn't know what an adorable yorkie looks like! So sad for her, you handled it perfectly

loveyorkiegirls · 06-19-2011, 05:22 AM

How rude

You handled it very well. Zhoie is gorgeous and I love her haircut...it's adorable!

Wylie's Mom · 06-19-2011, 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by jadabug

...I am glad it didn't come to blows

I can see the headlines now...two yorkie moms arrested at the local Petsmart

LOL!

That lady was rude...and was trying to get under your skin, for some odd reason. On the bright side, at least she's not a relative

!

Lil Sis · 06-19-2011, 07:57 AM

Wow... and I thought all Southerns were sweet, polite and kind

My Mother always told me to behave because what I did reflects on her- I told my girls the same. She sure made her momma proud!
I think the whole thing shows her "class" or lack of... I don't know of any situation or culture that unasked for negative comments are appreciated or proper etiquette I am really in shock.

What would I have done? About the same as you... maybe I would have asked her "do you think I care what you think?" or "I can see your momma raised you well!" and then I would have thought of a 100 great comments after it was over. *sigh*

BTW...Tena you KNOW I think your baby is sooooo beautiful

LuvTaycieGirl · 06-19-2011, 11:12 AM

I am so sorry this happened to you!!! Good for you for saying something!

I copied your haircut and Taycie and I both LOVE it!!! I think its absolutely adorable! I don't understand why people think they need to say something? It make me nervous to think how she was raised as a child! Some parenting skills...

My lil friend · 06-19-2011, 01:34 PM

[QUOTE=Lil Sis;3571453]Wow... and I thought all Southerns were sweet, polite and kind

Unfortunatly,not ALL Southerns have manners. My mother used to tell me that perhaps someone forgot to polish their little apple before they sent it into the world.

I would of told the lady that I didnt recall asking her personal openion and sense I didn't particularly like her dogs groom or lack of, we were even and could move on. Then I would of removed myself to the cash register before I balled my lil fist up and poped her one. In the most lady like way of course.

enchilila · 06-19-2011, 01:50 PM

She was just jealous! I feel sorry for her poor dog. Don't you let her make you feel bad or put doubts in your mind. I LOVE Zhoie's cut. If Betty Boop could carry it off, I would cut hers like it. Zohie girl is beautiful!

BabyGirl Rosie · 06-19-2011, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by enchilila

She was just jealous! I feel sorry for her poor dog. Don't you let her make you feel bad or put doubts in your mind. I LOVE Zhoie's cut. If Betty Boop could carry it off, I would cut hers like it. Zohie girl is beautiful!

You are on vacation and can't stay away!!

I love it!! Betty Boop would look adorable in any cut!!

06-18-2011, 06:59 PM	#31
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	How rude can one person be? Your baby is cute as can be and I like leaving the hair on their legs when they get a short cut too! I don't see why she wouldn't like it, but even if she didn't why say it like that, or at all for that matter? Surely that couldn't give her any pleasure to be rude to you? What would be her reasoning. Probably none! Maybe she is going through emotional, psychological, hormonal, aging, medicinal, or just plain personality problems????? I do try to ask myself if people might be having some of those issues when their behavior is so bizarre like this lady. But I usually don't think that way until I cool off. Glad you did not have to have a smack-down right there in Petsmart. You are right -- ALL YORKIES ARE PRECIOUS! __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

06-18-2011, 07:18 PM	#32
KazzyK810 Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Michigan USA & Sheffield UK Posts: 4,120	OMG! You showed amazing restraint!!! Zhoie is an absolutely gorgeous yorkie. I'm sure the woman was green with envy....hence the vileness. __________________ Karan with Sophie & Willow (ZoE )(Chelsea )

06-18-2011, 07:23 PM	#33
capt_noonie www.yorkierescue.com Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Las Vegas & Orange County Posts: 17,408	OMG what a moronic lady! Zhoie is so beautiful! I can't believe what some people say, thinking they aren't being rude. It's happened to me a few times, someone says something rude out of the blue, and I say something rude[er] back at them, and they say I am rude. Just goes to show some people don't think they are being rude at all. I have a comeback, but I don't think it's appropriate for YT LOL btw what does "goaded" mean? I've never heard that before. I assume like got insulted? __________________ The T.U.B. Pack! Toto, Uni, & Bindi RIP Lord Scrappington Montgomery McLimpybottom aka El Lenguo the Handicapped Ninja 10-12-12

06-19-2011, 05:15 AM	#38
JERSEY BOY Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: sparta nj usa Posts: 3,800 Blog Entries: 1	I am in shock Tena. How in the world did she think she had the right to comment like that. Obviously she doesn't know what an adorable yorkie looks like! So sad for her, you handled it perfectly __________________ Laurie, Jersey Boy and Miss Brielle

06-19-2011, 07:57 AM	#41
Lil Sis Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,008	Wow... and I thought all Southerns were sweet, polite and kind My Mother always told me to behave because what I did reflects on her- I told my girls the same. She sure made her momma proud! I think the whole thing shows her "class" or lack of... I don't know of any situation or culture that unasked for negative comments are appreciated or proper etiquette I am really in shock. What would I have done? About the same as you... maybe I would have asked her "do you think I care what you think?" or "I can see your momma raised you well!" and then I would have thought of a 100 great comments after it was over. sigh BTW...Tena you KNOW I think your baby is sooooo beautiful __________________ Shinja mom to Remy lil Sis to Bailey and Sammy

06-19-2011, 04:54 AM	#37
lisaly Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Long Island, New York Posts: 5,892	Everyone has a right to their opinion; sharing it makes no sense in this instance. She must be very ignorant, heartless, and/or rude. Of course, Zhoie is gorgeous, and she always looks very beautiful and adorable. I hope you are feeling much better and that you can laugh about this now.

06-19-2011, 05:22 AM	#39
loveyorkiegirls YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Yorkielicious Town Posts: 4,237	How rude You handled it very well. Zhoie is gorgeous and I love her haircut...it's adorable!

06-19-2011, 11:12 AM	#42
LuvTaycieGirl Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Salt Lake City UT,USA Posts: 2,726 Blog Entries: 1	I am so sorry this happened to you!!! Good for you for saying something! I copied your haircut and Taycie and I both LOVE it!!! I think its absolutely adorable! I don't understand why people think they need to say something? It make me nervous to think how she was raised as a child! Some parenting skills... __________________ Emily and Taycie Love you little girl

06-19-2011, 01:34 PM	#43
My lil friend Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: FtWorth,TX,USA Posts: 3,269	[QUOTE=Lil Sis;3571453]Wow... and I thought all Southerns were sweet, polite and kind Unfortunatly,not ALL Southerns have manners. My mother used to tell me that perhaps someone forgot to polish their little apple before they sent it into the world. I would of told the lady that I didnt recall asking her personal openion and sense I didn't particularly like her dogs groom or lack of, we were even and could move on. Then I would of removed myself to the cash register before I balled my lil fist up and poped her one. In the most lady like way of course.

06-19-2011, 01:50 PM	#44
enchilila Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 9,689	She was just jealous! I feel sorry for her poor dog. Don't you let her make you feel bad or put doubts in your mind. I LOVE Zhoie's cut. If Betty Boop could carry it off, I would cut hers like it. Zohie girl is beautiful! __________________ "Betty Boop" The light of my life & the joy of my living!