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06-04-2011, 05:54 AM | #16 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Georgia
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| I would make sure Oliver is safe and that she can't get to him while you aren't at home. If she is this delusional you don't know what she might do. Not sure I would trust the husband either. If you have a confidential site where you can report her I would. We also have this at the school I work at. They need to know this woman is unstable and may have a problem with alcohol. She could be drinking at work.
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06-04-2011, 06:05 AM | #17 | |
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06-04-2011, 06:19 AM | #18 |
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| I would immediately file a police report and report her to the hospital. It's a dangerous situation and not one you should just let go. The police can then continue to watch for similar reports about the same person. That is trespassing, disorderly conduct, and an attempt to steal your dog! For your safety, the safety of your dog, the safety of your neighbors, and the safety of hospital staff and patients, report her and consider a restraining order also.
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06-04-2011, 06:37 AM | #19 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: New York
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| You and Oliver must have been so scared. I would steer clear of her as much as possible. Maybe a police report is a good thing just to have all of this documented. As far as her working at the hospital, you should talk to someone about her behavior. She could be a danger to patients and also to fellow employees. |
06-04-2011, 07:09 AM | #20 | |
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You should absolutely file a police report ASAP. Having worked for years in psych (years back), you definitely need to take action - bc there is no way to know for sure what your neighbor is experiencing -or- how far they could decompensate.
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06-04-2011, 10:18 AM | #21 |
I ♥ my girls! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: With My Yorkies
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| Oh my! How scary for you! I would make sure she never has access to my furbaby. And like the others have said, yes report her. I wouldn't want her taking care of me or any of my family.
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06-04-2011, 10:32 AM | #22 |
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| Don't open the door to that woman again. Drunk or not she is a danger. It is hard to press charges against someone you have let in the door. If she comes to your door again and starts raising a fuss call the police. You need to have a police report or two to be able to make your case at work. I worked in a medical facility for years and it is unfortunate but they usually will not take one person's word over another. If you have an understanding manager that you can trust you may want to go and speak to that person informally or you may be able to go to a personnel manger or employee advocate if you have one. Right now you need to do what you can to protect yourself and your property. |
06-05-2011, 08:00 PM | #23 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Murrells Inlet, SC
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| Thank you everyone for all of your support and concern over this. To be honest Oliver and I both haven't been the same since. Its just my lil guy and myself living in my home so I have to be very careful. Like I said earlier... this isn't the first time ive been concerned about her mental status bc of major paranoia.... this time she just went to an extreme with MY baby. I have done some research and have decided to report her at work tomorrow. It is all confidential and the hospital will do what is right for the employee but also the safety of patients. Again... I never want to interfere with peoples jobs but I would NEVER be able to forgive myself if something else happened. I found out from another neighbor that she came over and accused them of ruining her marriage etc. So yes... no more answering the door to her and for my own peace of mind I'm taking Oliver to my parents during the day when I am gone. I will keep you posted!
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06-05-2011, 08:23 PM | #24 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii
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| Good for you, I'm glad to hear you are reporting it. Hopefully she will get some help before anything worse happens.
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06-05-2011, 08:36 PM | #25 |
Yorkie Yakker | This has happened to me, except it was when I was 10. A lady in the camp site we were in yelled at me and my sister saying our beagle/chihuahuas were her dogs and that we broke into her camper to steal them.... my dad talked to her husband and he didn't care a bit, he was like 20 years younger than her though.... but he said he was her husband wierd people out there!!!
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06-06-2011, 03:03 AM | #26 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Georgia
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| Glad to hear you are reporting her, she may need professional help, and that Oliver will be safe when you are at work.
__________________ SUSAN : TESSIE : HOBBES :CALVIN :SASSY There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face! ~ Ben Williams |
06-06-2011, 05:40 AM | #27 |
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| Neighbors like that can really make you uncomfortable. I'm glad you're reporting her, even if something does happen, don't feel responsible. She's too unstable to be in a care taking position and could be doing more harm then good. Hope Oliver is okay! Lots of hus and kisses from Gizmo.
__________________ Taryn Momma to Gizmo AKA Monkeyman My husband, daughter, son, and dog make me who I am "My goal in life is to be as good of a person my dog already thinks I am." |
06-06-2011, 03:16 PM | #28 |
Therapy Yorkies Work Donating Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Central, Florida
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| I am sure you were frightened. It sounds like she has something going on. (I once had a neighbor that did really weird things. He even took my clothes off the line and yelled that I was a harlot, while waving a bra at me. Turned out he had a brain tumor.) Keep yourself and your baby safe, do not let her in your house. She may be ill, having a reaction to medication, have a drug and /or alcohol addiction, even be mentally ill. I would report her,and pray for her. She needs help. |
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