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mustangbee · 11-11-2005, 07:16 AM

I feel sorry for Lilly. I hope the older couple with a fenced yard and no children,
understand Lilly's issues. She is going to need a lot of one on one time, and tons of TLC. For this person to tell you she was afraid she'd do that..the only time she's been in a house, she was traumatized! What the ------ was she thinking!

She should have offered you Daisy first.Poor Lilly was traumatized again, and your family as well. We can only hpoe Lilly will be OK, and keep her in our Thoughts & Prayers.
It sounds like Daisy will be a much better match for you and your family. I wish you many happy years, and lots of Yorkie Kisses with her.

Good Luck!

(oh yea, I don't do hate mail)

Yorkieluv · 11-11-2005, 07:17 AM

That must have been such a difficult decision for you to make...I'm sorry you were put in that position. Good luck with Daisy

She sounds like a sweetie!

Gazou · 11-11-2005, 08:13 AM

There are two sides in situation . I will not blame neither one .

sneri13 · 11-11-2005, 08:23 AM

I have just caught up with 2 days worth of posts. This was a very sad story. I hope Lily gets the love and affection she deserves from the other couple and that things work out with Daisy. Hope to see pic's of her soon.

teri88 · 11-11-2005, 09:17 AM

How could anyone hate you for wanting what was best for everyone? The woman was not honest with you and you probably wouldn't have taken her in the first place if she was. I'm so glad you ended up getting another one. I'm sure she will adjust to your family and be very happy. How come this woman is getting rid of all of her dogs? I'm sure Lilly will be happier in a home with no children, that would have just added to her stress. Everything worked out ok for all....that's the important thing.

Gazou · 11-11-2005, 01:49 PM

Its so easy to blame just one side . Honesty go both way . Very glad that Lilly found someone else .

wendybee · 11-11-2005, 03:02 PM

i dont hate you and would never send anyone hate mail.
you did what you thought was right just hope lilly finds peace in her new home, and that daisy is the one for you.

pics please

YorkieShadow · 11-11-2005, 03:14 PM

I hope Lilly finds a good home.

ldenise · 11-11-2005, 07:33 PM

Is there any way (down the road) that you could get an update on Lilly? I am really interested if she settled down to the new owners.
If the connection was not there ....it was not there. you can not force a connection. good gully, I am not in any position to pass judgment on you for giving her up. ... I went thru several husbands before i found one who would treat me 1/2 way decent!

kindness_001 · 11-11-2005, 07:56 PM

I got a female yorkie that didnt know anything but a cage, no run nothing. She is still scared of me when i first try to get her out of the cage. after that she isa alright it took alot of time for this to happen. no one is here but my hubby and 10 yr old grandson. she loves it now.

txshopper73 · 11-11-2005, 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gazou

There are two sides in situation . I will not blame neither one .

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gazou

Its so easy to blame just one side . Honesty go both way . Very glad that Lilly found someone else .

Marie · 11-11-2005, 09:58 PM

You did what is best for you and for Lily. The breeder wasn't up front with you. I just hope the breeder finds the best home for Lily. Also I hope that things work out for Daisy and your family. I like that name by the way. Good luck.

babi1542 · 11-11-2005, 10:26 PM

You should not blame yourself. I hope Lilly will be happy with her new adopted family and for Daisy I would love to see pics of her, Congratulations!

11-11-2005, 07:16 AM	#16
mustangbee Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina :) Posts: 10,616	I feel sorry for Lilly. I hope the older couple with a fenced yard and no children, understand Lilly's issues. She is going to need a lot of one on one time, and tons of TLC. For this person to tell you she was afraid she'd do that..the only time she's been in a house, she was traumatized! What the ------ was she thinking! She should have offered you Daisy first.Poor Lilly was traumatized again, and your family as well. We can only hpoe Lilly will be OK, and keep her in our Thoughts & Prayers. It sounds like Daisy will be a much better match for you and your family. I wish you many happy years, and lots of Yorkie Kisses with her. Good Luck! (oh yea, I don't do hate mail) __________________ Friends are God's way of apologizing for our relatives. "Love & Support Our YT Members" Gina & Princess Member of the SSLS

11-11-2005, 08:23 AM	#19
sneri13 Luv My Spoiled Babies Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,065	I have just caught up with 2 days worth of posts. This was a very sad story. I hope Lily gets the love and affection she deserves from the other couple and that things work out with Daisy. Hope to see pic's of her soon. __________________ Susan Mac Mellie & Manny Until we meet again at Rainbow Bridge

11-11-2005, 09:17 AM	#20
teri88 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: NJ Posts: 4,021	How could anyone hate you for wanting what was best for everyone? The woman was not honest with you and you probably wouldn't have taken her in the first place if she was. I'm so glad you ended up getting another one. I'm sure she will adjust to your family and be very happy. How come this woman is getting rid of all of her dogs? I'm sure Lilly will be happier in a home with no children, that would have just added to her stress. Everything worked out ok for all....that's the important thing. __________________ Teri Owned by and completely devoted to Tucker... Maddie, we will always love you *Bandit, you are always in my heart* Proud Member SSLS

11-11-2005, 07:33 PM	#24
ldenise YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Rancho Viejo, Tx Posts: 2,698	Is there any way (down the road) that you could get an update on Lilly? I am really interested if she settled down to the new owners. If the connection was not there ....it was not there. you can not force a connection. good gully, I am not in any position to pass judgment on you for giving her up. ... I went thru several husbands before i found one who would treat me 1/2 way decent! __________________ Buckeye, Ahia, Tressie, Archie & LDenise Dogs are really people with short legs in fur coats

11-11-2005, 07:56 PM	#25
kindness_001 Yorkies LUV never grows old Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Owensville,In.47665 Posts: 889	I got a female yorkie that didnt know anything but a cage, no run nothing. She is still scared of me when i first try to get her out of the cage. after that she isa alright it took alot of time for this to happen. no one is here but my hubby and 10 yr old grandson. she loves it now. __________________ Megan, Killer, Cocoa Latte, and Ebony Lousie

11-11-2005, 07:17 AM	#17
Yorkieluv Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: USA Posts: 7,178	That must have been such a difficult decision for you to make...I'm sorry you were put in that position. Good luck with Daisy She sounds like a sweetie!

11-11-2005, 08:13 AM	#18
Gazou YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 2,180	There are two sides in situation . I will not blame neither one .

11-11-2005, 01:49 PM	#21
Gazou YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 2,180	Its so easy to blame just one side . Honesty go both way . Very glad that Lilly found someone else .

11-11-2005, 03:02 PM	#22
wendybee BANNED! Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 966	i dont hate you and would never send anyone hate mail. you did what you thought was right just hope lilly finds peace in her new home, and that daisy is the one for you. pics please

11-11-2005, 03:14 PM	#23
YorkieShadow BANNED! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: USA Posts: 9,999	I hope Lilly finds a good home.

11-11-2005, 09:58 PM	#27
Marie Mom loves Gucci Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 6,427	You did what is best for you and for Lily. The breeder wasn't up front with you. I just hope the breeder finds the best home for Lily. Also I hope that things work out for Daisy and your family. I like that name by the way. Good luck. __________________ Huggies, Gucci and Marie http://www.dogster.com/?132187 "I have been egged"

11-11-2005, 10:26 PM	#28
babi1542 Double Trouble Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 4,658	You should not blame yourself. I hope Lilly will be happy with her new adopted family and for Daisy I would love to see pics of her, Congratulations! __________________ PEBBLES AND SASHA MY DOGS ARE NOT SPOILED...I'M JUST WELL TRAINED!