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02-06-2011, 02:22 PM | #1 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: kingston wa usa
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| Nervous Yorky Hi, I'm brand new to this site, and I have a rescue Yorkie (didn't know it was a rescue situation) with some pretty severe emotional problems. I had just moved to the Kingston WA area, and was looking at a lease property when the owners dog, a standard size poodle, grabbed my Yorkie and killed it. I had had this Yorkie for seven years, and I was devastated. A few months later, a friend called me about a six year old Yorkie that was looking for a home because of personal problems his current owner was having. I agreed to take the dog, but soon discovered I had a dog that had either been severely abused, or had an extremely bad personality. When I first got the dog (Charlie) he would 'fear bite' in the wake of any type of handling. It has been about seven months now, and he only 'nips' at me if I fail to give him plenty of notice that I'm going to pick him up or pet him. He is afraid of EVERYTHING, including his shadow. He will not eat out of anything that has a reflection. I have taken him to several vets, and had him on Clomicalm for a little over two months. The drug helped only marginally. I have tried the hormone collars and sprays to no avail. I can't get him to play as any movement with an object scares him. Other than patience, and time ... I am out of ideas ... any help? thx, ron |
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02-06-2011, 02:34 PM | #2 |
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| Wow, First off Welcome to YT Ron and thank you for rescuing this poor baby. Your right, it sound like this guy has been thru the ringer. By the way, Whats his name? I want you to PM ladyjane and megansmomma. They deal with rescues everyday and are experts in this field. To me he needs lots of love,walks and consistancy and of course time....Please keep reading and keep us updated. So many come on and never come back and tell us how their pup is doing....Lissette |
02-06-2011, 02:41 PM | #3 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | Welcome. I am so sorry about your yorkie being killed. That's great you have taken in this scared little guy. I have a yorkie that was from a rescue situation and it takes time and patience. I know Nikki the rescue I have will nip at me if I startle him and will attack one of my females for no reason. Luckily he has no teeth so he can't hurt anyone. I think you will get a lot of ideas from our experienced rescuer's on here.
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02-06-2011, 03:19 PM | #4 |
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| Welcome to YT. I am sorry for your loss. Now you have a baby you can't even hold. Be very patient with your little one and as was posted try some walks, maybe in your backyard, not a busy street or busy neighborhood because of him being so scared. Somewhere quiet. This is going to be a "get to trust you first". Speak in low tones with him, coax him to take treats out of your hand, coax him to follow you around the house, anywhere you are try to get him to be around or with you. This is going to take alot of time and as you said you have patience! He will come around. |
02-06-2011, 04:18 PM | #5 | |
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02-06-2011, 07:35 PM | #6 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: kingston wa usa
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| What a great group! Wow! I was surprised, and impressed by such a immediate and friendly response. Thank you. To answer one question ... My new dog is named Charlie. Actually, his name is Chauncy, but I had to change it up just a little. He did not respond to Chauncy, so I didn't think the change would make any difference to him. He is a challange. He is scared when he has any physical contact with anyone, BUT, he gets excited, wags his tail, and will run up to anyone ... male, female, children. It is only when someone tries to touch him that he 'binds' up. The only physical characteristic that seems to cause him a problem is someone that is very tall. Also, even though I can touch him very little in the normal course of a day, when I place him in the sink to bath him ... I can do just about anything to him that I want ... pick trash out of his hair, brush him, wash him, trim his nails, etc., if I were to try any of these things while holding him on my lap, or in any other situation, he would go bananas. Food that he refuses to eat from a plate, he will eat from my hand, or from the floor if I spread it around (messy). He does love to walk, and since Kingston is a little harbor town, we have plenty of choices ... parks, beaches, or the woods. Well, it gives me something to do. Thanks again, Ron: |
02-06-2011, 08:00 PM | #7 |
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| It sounds as though he may have been struck by someone's hands.
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02-06-2011, 08:07 PM | #8 | |
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That is exactly what I think. We took in a beagle years ago and ironically his name was Charlie. Lol. He had been abused and it took him a while to warm up to us. Don't give up. Continue to show your love for him and be very patient. If he has been hit then that is what he remembers. Ours would get so scared at loud noises he would wet himself. But he did come out of it all. But it did take time. He ended up being a wonderful pet! So please don't give up yet. I am sure time will heal some of these wounds for the little guy. Also, let me add, sorry for the loss of your yorkie. And what a wonderful thing you are doing by taking this one in!!
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02-06-2011, 08:14 PM | #9 |
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| You are truly a remarkable person and Charlie is a very lucky dog. My daughter rescued a minpin that had very similar issues. She has had her, Lexie, for 7 years, and they are both very fotunate to have each other. I know my daughter realizes this and I believe Lexie does too. Be patient and understand that Charlie has not had the best life, but you can make his life so much better. It will be so rewarding for you to see what a difference you can make for him as you slowly watch him come around, and he will. It will take time, but it will be worth it. |
02-06-2011, 08:33 PM | #10 |
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| The petting and trying to pick him up,then him nipping at you, contradicts what you are able to do when you bathe him. Do you happen to know if there were young children around him at the other house? He sounds like he was/is "shell shocked", like surprised attacked. I am curious.... |
02-06-2011, 08:59 PM | #11 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: kingston wa usa
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| Re: babbsiam I found out a little of Charlie's background. He is not as young as i was told. He is actually nine years old. He was owned by a young couple for seven years. The woman got pregnant with her first child, and felt she had to give Charlie away before the baby came ... This led me to believe that Charlie already had a problem, and they were afraid he would bite the baby. He was given to a single woman who had him for a year, then gave him to a family with four 'rough' children that had him for about a year. This woman's husband got into some major legal problems, and was sentenced to prison. Her mother in law agreed to take her and the children, but no pets ... Starting to sound like a soap opera yet? Anyway, my daughter ended up with the dog, and my ex thought I would like to have him. That's pretty much the story as far as I know. I will post a picture of him a little later. ron |
02-06-2011, 10:13 PM | #12 | |
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For the first few weeks, limit training. For instance, when walking him on a leash, let him lead and don’t push him to walk specific distances or run by your side. Once he begins to trust you, you will be able to train him on the leash, but it’s important to allow him crucial time for emotional development. Don’t rush your dog into obeying your commands right away; just give him time to get used to you. Speak in gentle tones, and be aware of your body language. He might associate common commands as a prelude to some form of punishment. It probably goes without saying, but never, ever, hit your dog even if it’s just a gentle swat. Abuse will send the dog back into his shell, even if he’s already begun to respect and trust you. Just give him time. Make anyone aware of his "nipping" when coming into your home or if anyone approaches him on your walks because you do not want to be held liable. Best of luck to you...please keep us posted.... | |
02-06-2011, 10:37 PM | #13 | |
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So this is my editalot of copy and pasting) I thought children might be involved, "rough" at that. Well, now that is cleared, you have one very traumatized and scared yorkie. Your first responsibility is to provide the dog with a safe and comfortable environment. Give him a special place of his own to foster a sense of security. Give your dog the necessary comforts—shelter, food and water his physical needs must be met consistently before he will grow emotionally. To the 10th degree your little man needs to grow emotionally. Speak in gentle tones, and be aware of your body language. He might associate common commands as a prelude to some form of punishment. It probably goes without saying, but never, ever, hit your dog even if it’s just a gentle swat. Abuse will send the dog back into his shell, even if he’s already begun to respect and trust you. I know it's been seven months but considering his age just imagine the possible years he has gone through being abused. One day he will reward YOU with kisses all over your face due to your kindness and understanding and patience with him. Make anyone aware of his "nipping" when coming into your home or if anyone approaches him on your walks because you do not want to be held liable. Best of luck to you...please keep us posted.... (sorry for all the pasting but it was quicker than typing it all over again) | |
02-07-2011, 03:00 AM | #14 | |
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Very Good Advise | |
02-07-2011, 03:20 AM | #15 |
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| When you pet him, squat down on the ground, and gently put you hand, face up, under his chin, and give him a little scratch there, while talking to him in a quiet peaceful voice...After he becomes aware that you aren't go to strike him, you'll be able to pet him on his upper body...I had a boarder (chihuahua) that I couldn't touch, for about 24 or 36 hrs., but I'd go to her, throughout the day (she kept hiding in an open door crate) and talking w/her, with out looking in her eyes...She finally came around, and then she was my shadow, for the next three weeks...It'll happen for you, in time |
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