Yorkie is Very Ill - When to Give Up Our 13, almost 14 year old, Bentley is having trouble with a collapsing trachea. We thought we had it pretty much under control with steroids and other medicine, but now he has developed a lesion on his spinal cord and lost the ability to stand. Can't even stand to pee. And his breathing problems have gotten worse. We've spent over $1,000 on vet bills in the last two weeks, but he is getting worse every day and night. Last night he woke me having a terrible time breathing, I brought him downstairs before he woke my wife and stayed with him until daylight. (He cries if we leave him downstairs at night.) Our friends were over for dinner tonight, all dog lovers, and they said maybe it is time to put him to sleep. We've never done that before. This is going to be a very sad time. But I can't see any alternative. ??? Bill in Vermont |
Bill You and your precious Bentley are in my prayers. I too had to make a decision for my beloved Muffin this past March. Look at the quality of your pets life and you will know in your heart. I wish you peace. |
That is such a terrible and personal decision to have to make. I'm so sorry. Perhaps a serious talk with your vet about what can be done to help Bentley and what quality of life he can expect to have might help clarify things for you. |
I am so sorry you are having to make this decision. I will say a prayer for you and Bentley. I know it is the hardest thing to do but if he is suffering you should not feel guilty about making the decision to end his suffering. I pray that you will know when the time is right. Hugs... |
I'm so very sorry for your family. It sounds like your yorkie has had a long life, and perhaps the best thing you can do now is give him a merciful death. This is a very personal decision, though. You will know when it's right. |
You will know in your Heart when it's time....Look in Bentley's eyes he'll help you make this very difficult decision! He has had a long life filled with wonderful memories for you and your wife to treasure. I'll keep you all in my Thoughts and Prayers at this difficult time...Blessings, Jodi and Family |
I'm so sorry for Bentley and saying a prayer for him and your family. I think you are already thinking what needs to be done. You will know when the time is right ask your vet to help with your decision. The only thing I will add is please do one last kind thing for your beloved Bentley and stay with him till it's over. It will be the hardest thing you will ever do for him but he will feel better in knowing how you love him. |
Sending hugs and kisses for Bentley and your family. I know it is a very hard decision, as I have a 13 year old pek that is in a similar situation. I hate taking her to the vet, for what they may say. We try to make her life happy and when it is no longer happy and painful for her, we will reluctantly take her for her last visit to the vet. We wish you well in your decision; I know it is hard. |
I too had to make this decision with my Leilauni. When she would sit up in bed with her nose in the air, to be able to breathe, I took her in. My sister is a nurse and she said the worse thing for a patient, is them struggling for air. My Lei was only 12, and I recently has just spent 3k trying to keep her with me, but it comes down to what is best. Quality of life is the issue. It will be the hardest thing you ever have to do, but I agree with a previous poster, that if you can, please stay with and hold your angel while they pass on. My heartfelt prayers for you and Bently. Cj |
It is your decision but I think the kindest thing you can do is let him go. He had a long life where he was healthy and active and now it just sounds like he is suffering and not having a good quality of life. Im sorry I know its not easy. I know its hard but I know those are the things I would consider before reaching that decision |
It is a hard decision, but pay attention, the pups have a tendency to communicate to us when they've had enough. I say talk to your vet, see what could possibly be done, if anything, and then make your decision. It's hard, but sometimes it's be best thing for us to do for them, it sounds like he has had 14 wonderful years of life with a family who loves him :) You are in my thoughts, and I hope you find comfort in whatever decision you make. |
Listen too, to good friends, that know you well and your dog. Sometimes, an outside observer can see things that we cannot; when we are so close to the situation itself. It doesn't sound like things are going to get much better for Bentley. I would have an open and frank discussion with my Vet about what he can expect for quality of life. I would also watch Bentley closely for any signs he might give about whether or not he is ready. One test I have heard is to pick three of their favorite things. IF they no longer can enjoy those things . . . then perhaps it is time to think about letting go. This is one of the most difficult thing we face as pet owners; something most of us have been through. Sending prayers for you ~ for peace, for wisdom, and courage. |
I am so sorry you are going through this. When our babies are no longer enjoying life, not eating, struggling for breath etc we need to make that most difficult decision and end their suffering. My heart goes out to you. |
Thank You For Your Support Bentley looked me in the eye and I could see he was no longer happy to be with us, his sickness had taken too great a toll. He was put to sleep at 4:10 today. Thank you so much for your support. My next step is head right out and buy another Yorkie. Bill from Vermont |
RIP Bentley. You live on in your owners hearts. |
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What love you showed your boy! I'm so sorry for your loss. I want to commend you on listening to him. I had to put my beloved cat down early this year. I had her for 16 years (I am not a cat person either, very allergic, but I loved her!). She had been with me longer than anyone. Saying goodbye to an old friend is so hard. I felt like you...I looked in her eyes and knew the time had come. God bless you. I hope you get the new puppy soon! |
I am so sorry Bill for the lost of your beloved Bently. We too just lost our baby girl of only 6 months. Her name was Elsie Mae. Our vet said that her heart just quit. We still have Harley, Chloe, and Chelcey. Christmas Eve we are getting our new little girl. She will not replace Elsie, as a new pup will not replace Bently, but these precious little babies will help to heal our hearts. Good luck and God Bless! You all are in my prayers. |
Sending hugs and kisses your way. Bentley can rest now without pain. You are a wonderful person for listening to him. I know it is hard for all of us to do that because we love them so much and don't want them to go. They are not gone though! They are always in our heart! Can't wait to see pictures of your new baby. Maybe Santa will bring you one! |
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One of my girls, Sydney, is almost 15, and she is in chronic renal failure, so my husband & I, feel your pain. We will both be thinking of you and your wife, today, as you allow Bentley to Cross the Rainbow Bridge. Sheila |
RIP Bentley Bentley looked me in the eye and I could see he was no longer happy to be with us, No he was saying..........Thanks for all the love you've given me. I'll see you at the Rainbow Bridge....... |
I am so sorry. I hope you find another baby to love. I find for me that always helps. Some people can't do it for awhile, but each one is different. |
I'm so very sorry for your loss. |
I am so very sorry....:cry: |
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:thumbup: Totally agree , I had to make that decision about my beloved best friend Jessie, my 14 year old border collie. It hurt so bad and stll does but in my heart I knew it was the right thing to do. God bless xx |
Bill, I am so sorry for your loss. Having been through this situation myself with one of my own several years ago, I know how difficult it can be. However, I think sometimes our babies are in pain but are holding on for us until we're ready to let go. It is a horrible decision to have to make but also a personal one that can only be decided by each individual. Know that the pain will get easier with time. |
You did what he needed. |
I too have not had to make the decision yet. I have a cattle dog along with my yorkie. My cattle dog, I'm looking at having to make it. If possiable see if the vet will make a house call. My vet has already told me that he would come to the house. It will cost more, but I know my CD. She would rather pass here at home than in the vets office. She never liked going there. |
I am so sorry. Rest in peace Bentley. We also lost our beloved baby, Prince, to collapsing trachea. It is a horrible, horrible disease. We didn't want Prince to suffer any more, and nothing else could be done to help him. We would have done anything and paid any amount. Bentley is at the Rainbow Bridge with a lot of friends and is breathing easily. |
So proud of you! No one can understand the realization of the pain and torment of making a quality of life decision for a beloved. It's beyond hard to let go and do what is actually best, I'm sure Bentley is very proud of you too! Hope you receive everything you need going through this you've shown the strength, now comes the healing. When it's tome to adopt another, I'm sure Bentley will be watching over you helping you as you go. It took me three years after the loss of (same as you) my precious Gooby before I was ready to move on, I really feel he was there guiding me to finding Scoobers. |
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