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06-11-2010, 07:02 PM | #1 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2010 Location: Louisiana
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| Help! New yorkie owner I need help! I bought a 6 week old yorkie 6 weeks ago. She's cute as a button but no matter what I do she just does not like to be held or cuddled. I've had poodles and most lived till around 17 yrs of age. All were gentle and loved nothing better than to love and be loved. Everything I've read states that Yorkies are lovable pets. Mine 'might' let me hold her a few mins per day. She's up to date on her shots and she is in good health so that's not the problem. Has anyone else had a Yorkie like this or am I the only one? I take her outside (potty training) every hour or so during the day. She loves to play catch and returns her toys right to my hand so she's very smart. She comes running when I call her name and is a perfect little girl, except for not liking to be held and constantly mouthing me when I touch her. Any help out there before I put an ad in the paper? I am totally frustrated!!! |
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06-11-2010, 07:13 PM | #2 |
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| She's just being a puppy, really. Have you ever seen two puppies play with each other? It's constant tooth fencing. Puppies have two speeds, full and dead stop. I would try not to hold her too much until you've tired her out. When you play with her, to get her tired out, try to keep a toy between her mouth and you. Once she stops, and is tired, then try to cuddle her. She will get better, but they go through different phases as they grow. Chances are, if you sold her and got another puppy, you'd have the same problem. Have patience, she'll be grown before you know it.
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06-11-2010, 07:27 PM | #3 |
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| It is recommended that yorkie pups stay with their doggy moms until the age of 12 weeks, minimum. That way, their moms and litter mates can teach them proper doggy etiquette. Since your baby didn't have the chance to learn that from mom, it's now your job to teach her. Don't give her attention when she mouths you. Stop all play, attention in this case is the reward. As for being cuddly, I don't know what to say. I have read that males are more cuddly and love to be with their moms and girls are more independent. But, I don't think that applies to puppies as young as yours. She's still growing, learning, and developing into the dog she will be. Spend this time to do obedience training, which will help you bond with her. Good luck and welcome to YT!!
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06-11-2010, 08:31 PM | #4 |
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| 6 wks old, dear lord. Isn't it illegal in many states to sell a pup younger than 8 wks?
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06-11-2010, 08:35 PM | #5 |
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| Your expectations are a bit high. First, she is just a puppy and they don't want to be restrained, they want to run and play. And each one is an individual. I have 3 yorkies, only one likes to be held and cuddled. Does that mean they are not lovable pets as you say?? NO! They each have their own personalities, likes and dislikes. You can't just make a blanket statement all yorkies are lovable lap dogs.
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06-11-2010, 08:43 PM | #6 |
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| I didn't want to take her so soon but the breeder insisted she was ready to go once she had her 1st set of shots (6 wks old). I've since learned she gave other bad advice. But I fell in love with my baby the moment I saw her and she was very cuddly when I bought her. I've since learned that she was happy to be held because she was afraid of the shiny floor tile. In the house she was very docile but once she was in the yard she was bouncy and all playful and not wanting to be held. But once we try to hold her she wriggles so hard and violently to be free that I'm afraid she'll get hurt. I'll try to be patient and wait for her to tire herself out. She doesn't get excited when we come home and is content with staying in her pen with her crate. When she's out all she wants to do is play with her toys. I was sooo hoping by this time (tomorrow she will be 12 wks) that she would have grown attached to me. :-( |
06-11-2010, 08:47 PM | #7 |
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| I think that's somewhat normal. I had Magnus since he was 4 weeks and when he didn't want to be held or cuddled, he'd mouth or tried to get away. He's little over 7 months now, very healthy *knock on wood* and his mouthing is a LOT better now but it's still "work in process". As for cuddling... He naps with me on the couch sometimes and I sort of gently force him to lay down next to me. He stays still and falls sleep. And than if he gets too hot or feels uncomfortable, he'll get up and move down to the end of the couch. Your puppy is awfully young so I think it's just a matter of time. Just be patient and try not to get so frustrated. She'll probably pick up on your feelings. (Mine definitely does..) When she mouths you, quickly hold her muzzle and slap the top of that hand. Than let go and hold it up on front of her mouth. If she tries to bite/mouth you again, repeat. You have to be CONSISTENT. I've been using that method for the past 1-2 weeks and I feel it's given me the most result. Good LUCK! |
06-11-2010, 08:53 PM | #8 |
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| 6 wks old, dear lord. Isn't it illegal in many states to sell a pup younger than 8 wks? __________________ Uni Kaji--world's cutest yorkie monster!It's peanut butta jelly time! I don't know about La being one of those states. Before getting Zoe I bought books and read all the articles I could on yorkies. The Kennel Club book on Yorkies never mentioned anything about selling them before a certain age. I regret it now and believe she should have stayed with her mom longer but at the time I didn't know that. |
06-11-2010, 08:57 PM | #9 |
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| I really appreciate all the good advice. Thanks! I'll try each one. |
06-11-2010, 09:05 PM | #10 |
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| Could you save the slapping your hand for last? It's just that I have a very fearful and innately shy dog and getting him past his fears has been the hardest thing I've ever done. He's not a puppy either, which means he understands things a lot faster. I think that approach will teach your pup to fear your hands. Give your pup appropriate things to chew on and praise her for chewing on her toys and chews, and give her no attention if she mouths you. Also, if she's teething, she's going to be uncomfortable. Put a damp washcloth in the freezer and give her that to chew on. The cold with help soothe her gums.
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06-11-2010, 11:40 PM | #11 | |
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06-12-2010, 01:41 AM | #12 |
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| my first yorkie did the same thing and now she will try to jump in my lap. she's 13mths now. just be patient your pup will grow out of it. when pup tries to bite you give him a toy instead. |
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06-12-2010, 02:20 AM | #14 |
Donating YT 4000 Club Member | Just because she doesn't want to sit In your lap doesn't mean she isn't attached. She's 12 weeks- in human years, that means she's a toddler. Not many toddlers will willingly be restrained if they have something more interesting to do. So, for now, hold her on her terms. When she's worn out is a good start. Gradually, she should let you start holding her at other times. Encourage her playfulness. It's how she's learning. Last edited by Rhetts_mama; 06-12-2010 at 02:22 AM. |
06-12-2010, 02:37 AM | #15 |
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| Chloe is 8 months now and only wants to be held once she's been exercised or played with. Until then, she's too full of energy. We had our other dog for 16 years...gone 5 now...and I forgot how energetic and trying the puppy stage can be. Although I know from experience...it's still encouraging to read that it will get better as she get's older. |
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