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joeyandtanksmom · 03-22-2010, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Darlene68

Wow, She sounds like a real jerk!

that's the nice way of putting it! I cannot believe she would say something like that!! If someone told me that, I would definitely have some words for them! I would have reacted in the same way! I'm so sorry she's put you through that, how immature does she need to be?!

jmdt · 03-22-2010, 06:23 PM

As it is my nerves are on edge. My daughter who turns 19 tomorrow is having surgery on Thursday to insert 2 tissue expanders on her knee. She had a very bad allergic reaction to a cortizine shot and her muscle under the skin was eaten away. She had a very major operation last November. She had a skin graft and now she is having these tissue expanders put in for a few months then the plastic surgeon can fix the graft and she will only have a fine line where the tissue meets. That wont be until about may or June. She is fine though and still continues to play college soccer but it was a very scary time for us. This should be the end of a long journey for us. She is very strong and just wants this part over so she can be ready for the soccer season. So my nerves are shot as it is and she pulls this on me. I would never say that to anyone, how scary that is to hear. I just couldn't dial the phone fast enough I wanted to save that baby.!!! I wish I could take him but I just cant.
My babies are the world to me and for our family 4 in enough.

Thanks for listening I knew you all here would understand how terrified I felt.

yorkie_mama22 · 03-22-2010, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

As it is my nerves are on edge. My daughter who turns 19 tomorrow is having surgery on Thursday to insert 2 tissue expanders on her knee. She had a very bad allergic reaction to a cortizine shot and her muscle under the skin was eaten away. She had a very major operation last November. She had a skin graft and now she is having these tissue expanders put in for a few months then the plastic surgeon can fix the graft and she will only have a fine line where the tissue meets. That wont be until about may or June. She is fine though and still continues to play college soccer but it was a very scary time for us. This should be the end of a long journey for us. She is very strong and just wants this part over so she can be ready for the soccer season. So my nerves are shot as it is and she pulls this on me. I would never say that to anyone, how scary that is to hear. I just couldn't dial the phone fast enough I wanted to save that baby.!!! I wish I could take him but I just cant.
My babies are the world to me and for our family 4 in enough.

Thanks for listening I knew you all here would understand how terrified I felt.

Sorry your friend did that to you, some people just don't understand how you feel and speak or text before they think! I would of reacted the same way so I must be an idiot too

I will pray for your daughter that she has a successful surgery and recovery!!

ArmaniMan · 03-22-2010, 07:01 PM

I see your in Long Island... if it doesnt work out with your sister in law... I could possible foster for awhile (as long as the pup is good with other dogs)... let me know if there is anything I can do... I would hate to see anything bad happen to this little guy.

Mom to Hot Rod · 03-23-2010, 03:17 AM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

As it is my nerves are on edge. My daughter who turns 19 tomorrow is having surgery on Thursday to insert 2 tissue expanders on her knee. She had a very bad allergic reaction to a cortizine shot and her muscle under the skin was eaten away. She had a very major operation last November. She had a skin graft and now she is having these tissue expanders put in for a few months then the plastic surgeon can fix the graft and she will only have a fine line where the tissue meets. That wont be until about may or June. She is fine though and still continues to play college soccer but it was a very scary time for us. This should be the end of a long journey for us. She is very strong and just wants this part over so she can be ready for the soccer season. So my nerves are shot as it is and she pulls this on me. I would never say that to anyone, how scary that is to hear. I just couldn't dial the phone fast enough I wanted to save that baby.!!! I wish I could take him but I just cant.
My babies are the world to me and for our family 4 in enough.

Thanks for listening I knew you all here would understand how terrified I felt.

I hope all goes smoothly for your daughter. You definitely don't need any extra stress going on in your life and for an insensitive brat to do that to you is beyond immature. Thankfully that poor dog will be somewhere where he/she will be loved and spoiled. I just hope they haven't suffered from her stupidity while being with her. Hugs, Bo

yorkieloverx2tn · 03-23-2010, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

No I actually told her to call my sister-in-law, she has 2 females and was looking for another baby. Her girls are about the same age and this little guy.

Did your sister-in-law take this little guy...I sure hope so.

sassykd · 03-23-2010, 05:07 AM

I found no humor in that at all! I will be praying for your daughter, you, and that little guy!

jmdt · 03-23-2010, 05:45 AM

Funny thing is it wasn't the kid who texted me it was a 49yr old woman. Aparantly the girl lives in New Jersey and goes to school here so that's how my friends son knows her. I honestly don't know details. She asked me twice and I said no twice, then she pulls this on me and thinks it's funny. She just thinks my babies and annoying little yappy ankle biters. I really don't know what happened with my sister in law, I haven't spoken to my friend since this happend last night.

Thank you all for your kind words and prayers for my daughter. Today is her 19th birthday so she has a full day planned including a chocolate fondue for tonight!!! Yum!!!

dtrahan511 · 03-23-2010, 06:15 AM

Wow, first of all, doesn't sound like much of a friend!!!! On a more happy note, happy birthday to your daughter!!! Chocolate fondue, yummy
!!!

spiritwings1202 · 03-23-2010, 06:44 AM

Wow they have a word especially made for women like her that start with B!!
It is a good thing she is rehomeing it if she can act that way about a pet.
I would be fuming too!!

jjohnson86 · 03-23-2010, 08:50 AM

Thats just incredibly immature and wrong, how can someone pull a joke like that? Jokes are supposed to be funny and the death of an innocent animal is NOT funny! I would've been panicked too had someone said that to me...just terrible. I hope someone took the poor thing, he needs a good home. And Happy Birthday to your daughter!

xoxJuliexox · 04-07-2010, 01:20 PM

Did she ever find a home for the pup?

livingdustmops · 04-07-2010, 01:30 PM

How sad and it shows the real value put on a animal in that home. I am sure she would never say that about her kid..but then again maybe she would.

LovingMyChloe · 04-08-2010, 02:10 PM

[QUOTE=spiritwings1202;3051485]Wow they have a word especially made for women like her that start with B!!
QUOTE]

my thoughts exactly!! that's very mean and NOT funny AT ALL!!
i hope they found a home for the doggy and a happy bday to ur daughter!!

jmdt · 04-08-2010, 03:45 PM

thank you very much. Yes they did find a home for him. Her neighbor took him. They have a nice backyard, and children for him to play with

03-22-2010, 06:23 PM	#17
jmdt YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Long Island, NY USA Posts: 3,498	As it is my nerves are on edge. My daughter who turns 19 tomorrow is having surgery on Thursday to insert 2 tissue expanders on her knee. She had a very bad allergic reaction to a cortizine shot and her muscle under the skin was eaten away. She had a very major operation last November. She had a skin graft and now she is having these tissue expanders put in for a few months then the plastic surgeon can fix the graft and she will only have a fine line where the tissue meets. That wont be until about may or June. She is fine though and still continues to play college soccer but it was a very scary time for us. This should be the end of a long journey for us. She is very strong and just wants this part over so she can be ready for the soccer season. So my nerves are shot as it is and she pulls this on me. I would never say that to anyone, how scary that is to hear. I just couldn't dial the phone fast enough I wanted to save that baby.!!! I wish I could take him but I just cant. My babies are the world to me and for our family 4 in enough. Thanks for listening I knew you all here would understand how terrified I felt. __________________ Coco, Pebbles, Trixie, and Wally LOVE MY BABIES!!

03-22-2010, 07:01 PM	#19
ArmaniMan I ♥ Armani & Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 3,895	I see your in Long Island... if it doesnt work out with your sister in law... I could possible foster for awhile (as long as the pup is good with other dogs)... let me know if there is anything I can do... I would hate to see anything bad happen to this little guy. __________________ Armani & Chloe

03-23-2010, 05:45 AM	#23
jmdt YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Long Island, NY USA Posts: 3,498	Funny thing is it wasn't the kid who texted me it was a 49yr old woman. Aparantly the girl lives in New Jersey and goes to school here so that's how my friends son knows her. I honestly don't know details. She asked me twice and I said no twice, then she pulls this on me and thinks it's funny. She just thinks my babies and annoying little yappy ankle biters. I really don't know what happened with my sister in law, I haven't spoken to my friend since this happend last night. Thank you all for your kind words and prayers for my daughter. Today is her 19th birthday so she has a full day planned including a chocolate fondue for tonight!!! Yum!!! __________________ Coco, Pebbles, Trixie, and Wally LOVE MY BABIES!!

03-23-2010, 06:15 AM	#24
dtrahan511 ♥ Spoiling Sophie ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: New Iberia, LA, USA Posts: 1,340	Wow, first of all, doesn't sound like much of a friend!!!! On a more happy note, happy birthday to your daughter!!! Chocolate fondue, yummy !!! __________________ Donna, Cassie, Sophie and Bella

03-23-2010, 06:44 AM	#25
spiritwings1202 Pixie and Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: CT USA Posts: 2,680	Wow they have a word especially made for women like her that start with B!! It is a good thing she is rehomeing it if she can act that way about a pet. I would be fuming too!! __________________ Proud Mom of Daisy and Pixie

03-23-2010, 05:07 AM	#22
sassykd Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Tylertown, MS Posts: 31	I found no humor in that at all! I will be praying for your daughter, you, and that little guy!

03-23-2010, 08:50 AM	#26
jjohnson86 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Abilene, TX USA Posts: 229 Blog Entries: 1	Thats just incredibly immature and wrong, how can someone pull a joke like that? Jokes are supposed to be funny and the death of an innocent animal is NOT funny! I would've been panicked too had someone said that to me...just terrible. I hope someone took the poor thing, he needs a good home. And Happy Birthday to your daughter! __________________ *Mindy's Proud Mommy*

04-07-2010, 01:20 PM	#27
xoxJuliexox Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: bay area, ca Posts: 176	Did she ever find a home for the pup?

04-07-2010, 01:30 PM	#28
livingdustmops Princess Poop A Lot Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Colorado Posts: 6,728	How sad and it shows the real value put on a animal in that home. I am sure she would never say that about her kid..but then again maybe she would. __________________ Cindy & The Rescued Gang Puppies Are Not Products!

04-08-2010, 02:10 PM	#29
LovingMyChloe Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Puerto Rico Posts: 23	[QUOTE=spiritwings1202;3051485]Wow they have a word especially made for women like her that start with B!! QUOTE] my thoughts exactly!! that's very mean and NOT funny AT ALL!! i hope they found a home for the doggy and a happy bday to ur daughter!! __________________ ~Histories are more full of examples of the fidelity of dogs than of friends. A. Pope~

04-08-2010, 03:45 PM	#30
jmdt YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Long Island, NY USA Posts: 3,498	thank you very much. Yes they did find a home for him. Her neighbor took him. They have a nice backyard, and children for him to play with __________________ Coco, Pebbles, Trixie, and Wally LOVE MY BABIES!!