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tiggerr36792 · 05-25-2009, 07:31 AM

It's not just you, I think we all feel for anyone who has suffered a loss of a furbabyoe loved one. I find myself staying away from the R.I.P section often cause it's so emotional.

lgoodall · 05-25-2009, 07:36 AM

You're definitely not the only one. I try not to read them because I worry, and fret, and can't get the animal out of my mind. We watched "on demand" tv last night. I knew I couldnt see Marley and Me at the theater. My husband and I watched it at home. I was sobbing out loud at the end. The only reason I watched it was because my daughter said the rest of the movie was really good. Tucker'smom

NIKI1969UK · 05-25-2009, 07:43 AM

My eyes just fill up. I start to read the story and sometimes find I can't finish it as it is just to sad to deal with.

flipflopsusie · 05-25-2009, 01:22 PM

I also tear up everytime I read about someone's loss. It brings up sad memories of what we went through last July, and I feel for the person going through that.

FlDebra · 05-25-2009, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by luvfla

Sometimes I have a weak chi & I cannot open them. It makes me feel bad because I feel like I sould be supporting the mum/dad but I can't...not that day. Sorry!

I feel the same way. It is just too soon after losing Sadie and when I read of another loss it just opens the wound. But some days I push to do it anyway because I know how much it meant to me when people offered their heartfelt condolences. But like you said, some days you just can't do it.

SweetPea53 · 05-25-2009, 04:42 PM

No, It's not just you.....Everytime I read about someone losing their furbaby I choke up and get a knot in my throat...I try to stay away from the RIP boards now. I lost my Sheltie "Fussie"

nine years ago due to old age, she was 15 and it took me 7 years to finally get another dog. When I first got Lil' Miss Izzie I even caught myself calling her "Fussie" on a few occasions. I guess when we lose a beloved pet we never completely get over them. Even though Lil' Miss Izzie will never replace "Fussie", she is such a wonderful, smart, cooperative dog, actually the best dog I have ever owned. I would be completely lost without her.... I just love her soooo much

Sandysbabies · 05-25-2009, 04:42 PM

I am so sorry about your little Kayla. We also have a Kayla. Don't ever feel bad about being sensitive. I had rather see someone with feelings than some of these people that are so heartless. And you are not strange. You may think I am when I tell you that about 5 yrs ago I saw a little toy poodle hit. I had never actually seen a dog run over. The person did not stop and the little thing was screaming. I was crying so hard and shaking even after I got home. To this day when I go down that street I think about that little thing laying in the road and finally laying its little head down and dying. I don't know what it has done to me but I will never ever forget that. So, no you are not strange just very sensitive like me. It breaks my heart everytime I read about someone losing theirs because we lost 2 in 2 yrs. and I know how horrible the pain is to lose one. Bless you for caring.

valerieam · 05-25-2009, 04:55 PM

You are not alone at all. I hurt for the people who's little ones have died (I've had to say goodbye to several over the years), or gotten lost. I still think about the dog that the person had shipped to her and they were disappointed and didn't want it. I wonder what happened to her. When I hear about rescue's from puppy mills and realize what conditions those poor animals are living in. They haunt me. I feel sorry for people who don't feel love for animals. They are wonderful creatures who take over your heart.

kjc · 05-25-2009, 05:12 PM

Amen! Offering our sympathies is important and extremely hard to do. I mean it's there, in my heart, but when I try to share I get wiped out sobbing and crying. I'm crying now just knowing others feel the same way.

But then I think of how many owners this site has helped to steer in the right direction concerning the care of their pets in all the different forums and how many lives have been saved. Wow! You all do a really good, and very important job in the saving and making better of the lives of the little ones we all love and hold so dear to our hearts!

When I first joined YT, I thought oboy I can compare my Beautiful Boy with all yours, kinda like a contest. Instead, I've fallen in love with EVERYBODY'S furbabies! I want them all (jk) and I feel good if I can help.
It always makes me feel good to look at the photos, I always find a new one that makes me laugh!

mscat · 05-25-2009, 06:11 PM

Pets are a huge part of our lives. A comfort, and unconditional love they give us is why we grieve for the loss of our beloved animals. Yes, I cry, Yes my heart is filled with sadness each and every time one of our fellow YT'ers lose a baby. It touches us all. For the love of a animal. It hurts us greatly, to know it is a Yorkie, a part of our family, a treasure that has passes into animal heaven. I beleive their is a spirit world for them.
My kitty cat, one that was my baby and I knew from birth, who followed me everywhere, I loved Mario with all my heart. He was my friend. I recently found out a couple weeks before that I was pregnant. Was young, umarried, and suffered a very terrible Eating Disorder at the time . I was crossing a bust intersection to catch a bus to work one am. My beloeved cat saw me, and tried to follow. I watched in horror as he was run over . The car never stopped. I stood there, and screamed my head off, as other people waiting for the bus froze. A man jumped past the traffic to the other st. and moved my cat out of the road, and a woman, a stranger grabbed me, and just hed me as I sobbed and cried. That was over 16years ago.

STILL very painful to lose my Mario. Yet it happened. I thought i could not be a parent after that. I was terrified, and so upset i could not go to work after witnessing ,my friend getting killed.
Now, I have had other cats, I have loved them too, however, Mario , is still so special to me. I have my Suzi NOW. She is MY first dog ever, and my first YORKIE.
I love her to pieces, and she is a joy. I have not felt like this since the birth of my son.
When our fellow yorkie's pass , it brings tears to my eyes, and makes me sob. I tremble , and become scared for the health and safety of my little Suzi. I give her extra hugs , and hold her and pet her more , and allow her to kiss me all over my face as much as she wants to.

05-25-2009, 07:43 AM	#18
NIKI1969UK Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 178	My eyes just fill up. I start to read the story and sometimes find I can't finish it as it is just to sad to deal with. __________________ Mika 3.11.08 My

05-25-2009, 04:42 PM	#21
SweetPea53 ~Izzie~ My Lil' Sweetie Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: So. California (Santa Clarita) Posts: 2,348	No, It's not just you.....Everytime I read about someone losing their furbaby I choke up and get a knot in my throat...I try to stay away from the RIP boards now. I lost my Sheltie "Fussie" nine years ago due to old age, she was 15 and it took me 7 years to finally get another dog. When I first got Lil' Miss Izzie I even caught myself calling her "Fussie" on a few occasions. I guess when we lose a beloved pet we never completely get over them. Even though Lil' Miss Izzie will never replace "Fussie", she is such a wonderful, smart, cooperative dog, actually the best dog I have ever owned. I would be completely lost without her.... I just love her soooo much __________________ Don't Worry, Be Happy

05-25-2009, 05:12 PM	#24
kjc I♥PeekTinkySaph&Finny Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baltimore, Maryland Posts: 18,872	Amen! Offering our sympathies is important and extremely hard to do. I mean it's there, in my heart, but when I try to share I get wiped out sobbing and crying. I'm crying now just knowing others feel the same way. But then I think of how many owners this site has helped to steer in the right direction concerning the care of their pets in all the different forums and how many lives have been saved. Wow! You all do a really good, and very important job in the saving and making better of the lives of the little ones we all love and hold so dear to our hearts! When I first joined YT, I thought oboy I can compare my Beautiful Boy with all yours, kinda like a contest. Instead, I've fallen in love with EVERYBODY'S furbabies! I want them all (jk) and I feel good if I can help. It always makes me feel good to look at the photos, I always find a new one that makes me laugh! __________________ Kat Chloe Lizzy PeekABooTinkerbell SapphireInfinity

05-25-2009, 06:11 PM	#25
mscat YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Hanford, CA Posts: 4,895	Pets are a huge part of our lives. A comfort, and unconditional love they give us is why we grieve for the loss of our beloved animals. Yes, I cry, Yes my heart is filled with sadness each and every time one of our fellow YT'ers lose a baby. It touches us all. For the love of a animal. It hurts us greatly, to know it is a Yorkie, a part of our family, a treasure that has passes into animal heaven. I beleive their is a spirit world for them. My kitty cat, one that was my baby and I knew from birth, who followed me everywhere, I loved Mario with all my heart. He was my friend. I recently found out a couple weeks before that I was pregnant. Was young, umarried, and suffered a very terrible Eating Disorder at the time . I was crossing a bust intersection to catch a bus to work one am. My beloeved cat saw me, and tried to follow. I watched in horror as he was run over . The car never stopped. I stood there, and screamed my head off, as other people waiting for the bus froze. A man jumped past the traffic to the other st. and moved my cat out of the road, and a woman, a stranger grabbed me, and just hed me as I sobbed and cried. That was over 16years ago. STILL very painful to lose my Mario. Yet it happened. I thought i could not be a parent after that. I was terrified, and so upset i could not go to work after witnessing ,my friend getting killed. Now, I have had other cats, I have loved them too, however, Mario , is still so special to me. I have my Suzi NOW. She is MY first dog ever, and my first YORKIE. I love her to pieces, and she is a joy. I have not felt like this since the birth of my son. When our fellow yorkie's pass , it brings tears to my eyes, and makes me sob. I tremble , and become scared for the health and safety of my little Suzi. I give her extra hugs , and hold her and pet her more , and allow her to kiss me all over my face as much as she wants to. __________________ "No matter how little money & how few possessions, you own, having a dog makes you rich."

05-25-2009, 07:31 AM	#16
tiggerr36792 BANNED! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: California Posts: 6,685 Blog Entries: 1	It's not just you, I think we all feel for anyone who has suffered a loss of a furbabyoe loved one. I find myself staying away from the R.I.P section often cause it's so emotional.

05-25-2009, 07:36 AM	#17
lgoodall YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Tuscaloosa, Alabama Posts: 260	You're definitely not the only one. I try not to read them because I worry, and fret, and can't get the animal out of my mind. We watched "on demand" tv last night. I knew I couldnt see Marley and Me at the theater. My husband and I watched it at home. I was sobbing out loud at the end. The only reason I watched it was because my daughter said the rest of the movie was really good. Tucker'smom

05-25-2009, 01:22 PM	#19
flipflopsusie YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: houston Posts: 319	I also tear up everytime I read about someone's loss. It brings up sad memories of what we went through last July, and I feel for the person going through that.

05-25-2009, 04:42 PM	#22
Sandysbabies YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Dallas, Texas Posts: 2,234	I am so sorry about your little Kayla. We also have a Kayla. Don't ever feel bad about being sensitive. I had rather see someone with feelings than some of these people that are so heartless. And you are not strange. You may think I am when I tell you that about 5 yrs ago I saw a little toy poodle hit. I had never actually seen a dog run over. The person did not stop and the little thing was screaming. I was crying so hard and shaking even after I got home. To this day when I go down that street I think about that little thing laying in the road and finally laying its little head down and dying. I don't know what it has done to me but I will never ever forget that. So, no you are not strange just very sensitive like me. It breaks my heart everytime I read about someone losing theirs because we lost 2 in 2 yrs. and I know how horrible the pain is to lose one. Bless you for caring.

05-25-2009, 04:55 PM	#23
valerieam Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: California Posts: 449	You are not alone at all. I hurt for the people who's little ones have died (I've had to say goodbye to several over the years), or gotten lost. I still think about the dog that the person had shipped to her and they were disappointed and didn't want it. I wonder what happened to her. When I hear about rescue's from puppy mills and realize what conditions those poor animals are living in. They haunt me. I feel sorry for people who don't feel love for animals. They are wonderful creatures who take over your heart.