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04-14-2009, 08:12 AM | #1 |
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| Anyone ever have this happen? Well, Brian and I broke up. Fiona is really taking hard to this, anyone got any ideas on what i can do? thanks......
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04-14-2009, 08:24 AM | #2 |
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| I'm sorry you are going thru this. I don't have any advice for you except that maybe she is picking up your vibes. (?) Maybe spend a day just spoiling her, like taking her to the park or petsmart? A mommy and baby day. Hugs.
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04-14-2009, 08:29 AM | #3 |
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| Thank you. Yes, I think they do feel our vibes. brian will be moving out in a week- just taking his clothes, but leaving other stuff there, and I think only time will tell. He lost his job in feb, and hasnt worked since, so i think he just needs time to figure out what he is going to do, but Fiona was by my side all day saturday, we are going on a roadtrip this weekend to visit my cousins, so maybe that will help! Thanks!
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04-14-2009, 08:32 AM | #4 |
YT 1000 Club Member | I'm sure you both just need time. I agree with Hot Rod's mom to just spend some time together being spoiled. You both need some pampering. My daughter went through this. She stayed at her x's house allot and would take her dog with her (which he got for her). They are both doing great now and to tell you the truth I've never seen either of them happier. Good luck and just give it some time. I know it hurts right now. As long as your baby has you she should adjust pretty quickly. Lots of treats, toys and playtime always makes anyone feel better.
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04-14-2009, 08:34 AM | #5 | |
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04-14-2009, 08:37 AM | #6 | |
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wait...are you saying your daughter and dog are both happier, or that they got back together, and are happier? im confused!
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04-14-2009, 10:22 AM | #7 |
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| I've always wondered what I would do now that Bailey and I are living with my bf and they've bonded so well, but if I really think about it it's all in how I react that will cause Bailey's reaction. I'm sure Bailey would look for him and be a little sad but I think that as long as Fiona has YOU she'll be ok...
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04-14-2009, 01:34 PM | #8 | |
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i really hope so. i just came home and noticed that he already starting taking things, and im just sitting here with tears running down my face...this really stinks.......
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04-14-2009, 04:52 PM | #9 |
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| I'm so sorry you're going through this. I just seen your thread. Can you go out for a while as he's packing? Maybe it'd be easier not to see him packing. Please, try and keep your chin up. You are beautiful and things will get better! Focus on your baby and it will take your mind off him. (((((Hugs))))) to You.
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04-14-2009, 05:59 PM | #10 | |
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thank you, no he made it a point to live 10 min before i got home from work, fiona and i are taking a much needed trip to my cousins this weekend, i havent seen him all day, by the time i got home he was gone, and i noticed some of his things were already gone. ....i just think he needs his space, he is in a depression from loosing his job...im hoping he will be back.....
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04-14-2009, 10:09 PM | #11 |
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| I don't have any advice, but I just wanted to give you a I can tell from your posts that you are pretty upset. Keep your chin up, and remember that everything happens for a reason.
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04-15-2009, 05:17 AM | #12 |
YT 1000 Club Member | Yes daughter and dog. I could really give a rats you know what about the ex. He's a PITA! Glad your little one had a good night!
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04-15-2009, 05:23 AM | #13 |
YT 1000 Club Member | When someone is depressed and not acting right towards you it affects your dog too. They feel what you feel. That had to be stressing you out living with someone who's not happy. Give it some time and going away this weekend is good. It's showing your making an attempt to try to move on with your own life. People who care about each other don't walk out. They stay together and work through the tough stuff. Good Luck sweetie, I hope you can move on soon.
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04-15-2009, 08:34 AM | #14 | |
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