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04-06-2009, 12:44 PM | #16 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Virginia
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| You're on the right path. And you're right, if you have no evidence, it's a he said / she said case. That's the problem with all the CSI type of shows on now a days, everyone thinks there should be DNA to convict. Which makes it understandable why she just wanted to hide the fact that this happened to her. My heart goes out to her and I'm praying for you both!
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04-06-2009, 04:31 PM | #17 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas
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| I am so sorry Angel. Know that I am always here is you need to talk.
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04-06-2009, 05:16 PM | #18 |
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| I am so sorry this happened. I agree with alot of the others here. If she waited 2 months it will be hard to prove,if you have no evidence, it's a he said / she said case.some times even with evidence its still hard to prove. Now if she was under age and him over the age then some thing might be done. but if they are both under age or both over the 18 age their prob wont be much done, just a lot of interviews and more pain for her. I think the law sucks and in cases like this its so wrong that they let many get away with it. I think it would be best to let her talk to someone counseling may be the best thing for her,just to vent and get it off her chest may make her feel a little better. again Im so sorry this happened just be there for her and let her know you are there for her. keeping her in my thoughts and prayers. |
04-06-2009, 06:16 PM | #19 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Central Pennsylvania
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| First I would like to say my heart goes out to you as a mother of a daughter that has been victimized. Secondly, my heart breaks for your daughter who was only trying to be a good friend. My feelings on this is that regardless if this happened a couple of months back. It is a crime. It needs to be reported. I am baffled at those saying not to report or not to press her into reporting. If this boy gets away with raping your daughter, how many more girls will he rape because it wasn't reported? Sometimes you have to step up and do what needs to be done to protect the innocent. Too many times girls don't report it and play it off like it isn't as big of a deal or I shouldn't have been in that situation. This gives these little scum bags ammo to do it again. This is a tragic event...one that needs to be reported and prevented from happening again. I do hope that your daughter is seeing a therapist or will in the future. I do agree with the few saying to report it for her... if she is worried about what others are going to say or do.. this way it takes her out of the loop. Personally, if it were my daughter I think I would be making a visit to the little bastard's house!
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04-06-2009, 06:18 PM | #20 |
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| I was just thinking, she's 15, how old is he? Can't she get him for statutory rape? |
04-06-2009, 07:12 PM | #21 |
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| Oh gosh, this is so sad. My heart is breaking for you. I think of my little 4 yr old girl, and how I would feel if this happened to her. I'm so sorry that your daughter was made a victim of such a terrible crime. I hope that justice is served, and this boy gets what's coming to him. What a dispicable human being, to use his dead sister as an excuse to take advantage of an innocent girl. That's SICK!
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04-07-2009, 05:41 AM | #22 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | I will keep your dtr in my prayers.
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04-07-2009, 06:01 AM | #23 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Hemphill, Texas
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| Just an update to let you all know how things are going. We went yesterday to the DR and our health DR said she is doing good and he ran some test for us. She was not pregnant so that was a blessing. We wont know about the other test till next week. After that we went to see the counselor and she did great!! She talked and told them everything and they talked to her and helped her understand things better. They recommended I not do anything till she is ready. If I go to the police for her than she will have to go through more than she can handel for now. They did say they could go talk to the police so that they could go talk to this kids parents he is 16. She said there wouldnt be much they could do at this point but if they know what happened then If it it happens again then it will be on file. My DD will go back and talk to them Friday. They are going to keep talking with her till she doesnt want to anymore. Thank you to everyone for all the pryers we sure need them right now!!
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05-04-2009, 04:23 AM | #24 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Hemphill, Texas
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| Just a quick update on my DD. We went to the police and she made a statement and LONG story short the kids parents flipped. He is now in a sexoffender treatment center for kids. His parents had no clue and are so sorry for what he has done. My DD is still in counseling and doing GREAT!!! Thank You all for all the prayers.
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05-04-2009, 04:42 AM | #25 |
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| I am so sorry that this happened to your daughter. I understand how she must be feeling. I was date raped at 15 too! It was a dear childhood friend of mine. Because I didn't tell anyone, I had to drive with him in the car to school. I had to act as if nothing was wrong. That was very difficult. Three months after it happened, I went to a therapist and he asked if he could tell my mother (who was waiting in the car). I said yes and I was there when he told her. She started crying. It completely broke my heart, but it was so great that she wasn't angry with me. We went to the police and I gave a statement. Months later the case was dropped since we didn't have any concrete evidence. I went to a rape specialist (therapist) and now I am all better. At 23, I still have loads of trust issues when it comes to men and I plan to go to another therapist to help deal with this. I don't endorse violence, but I saw this guy at a sport event. He was laughing at me and telling my schoolmates what he had done. I went up to him and told him that I had gone to the police. He laughed at me. Hehe, that is when I punched him. Twice. Hard. On the nose! He started crying!!!! I haven't seen him since. Turns out, his dad hits his mom so he has no respect for women. But he is freaking scared of me now!!!
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05-04-2009, 05:13 AM | #26 |
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| How sad...2 families hurt. I hope your daughter keeps going to counciling until she understands that it's not her fault & it's not normal & that ALL boys (men)are NOT like that. Marilize GOOD FOR YOU....you are a good example of a strong woman. I'm proud of you. |
05-04-2009, 05:27 AM | #27 | |
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05-04-2009, 07:07 AM | #28 | |
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First off, I am so sorry that your daughter had to go through this. I am happy that the boys parents are taking this seriuosly and are getting him help before he can hurt someone else. You and your family are in our prayers.
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05-04-2009, 07:20 AM | #29 | |
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Thanks for the update. I am so glad that the boy is getting treatment and that your daughter is doing so well. No one should have to go through what she has. We continue to pray for her and for you that you can know how best to help her.
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