| zenzele | 01-01-2009 04:32 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by avasmama75
(Post 2393344)
Hi everyone! Happy holidays, I need some advice from my fellow yt'ers. Bowie is 7 months this week, ava is 3 yrs old. Bowie is really mean to ava, he is so agresive, he takes toys away from her, puts his behind in her face and nips at her and now he has taken to humping her. He is just not nice to her. It really worries me, i want them to get along. Could it be his age, the fact that he is not neutered or the fact that i baby him? When ava is not here he is such a sweet boy. Can anyone help me , im sad they are being this way.:( | Bowie is trying to pull rank and become top dog. I have a 6 month old male yorkie and a 7 yr old female and am going through the same thing. You have to show both that you are the pack leader and that will help Bowie realize he's not the leader. (I am a big fan of Cesar Milan, the Dog Whisperer and he said when you have multiple dogs, if you show all that you are the pack leader, no one tries to become # 2 over the other dogs.) When Bowie takes the toy, you take it from him and show both that you are the one who keep the prize toy. (The prize is always the property of the leader). Also when he mount her, put him on his back and hold him there a minute or less that puts him in the position of submission. When it comes to the fighting don't jump in immediately unless they are about to hurt one another, Ava have to know she has to stand up to Bowie and she also may end up putting him in his place. My 7 yr old have had to nip the 6 mth old a couple of times to tell him to back off, if I stepped in immediately, I would have taken that opportunity away from her. Let me know how it works out...and if you are not feeding Ava first and giving her attention first be sure to do that to show Bowie Ava is not lower than him on the totem pole. |