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11-01-2008, 03:06 PM | #1 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: w.leisenring pa usa
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| one husband free (you haul) let my just say GRRRRRR, anyone that wants this man can have him!!! but I do have to say there is NO RETURN POLICY!..he is getting on my LAST NERVE! I have a spinal leak due to a injection in my back...its been 5 days now I am in SEVERE pain...he has done absolutly nothing around here my house looks like a tornado went through it. and all he does is complain that the dogs are going on the floor,,,,well no kidding YOU WONT TAKE THEM OUT, and I cant get off the couch to do it...and he had the nerve to make a comment when he saw me logging on here, to say...are you putting these dogs up for sale.......I said no im putting you up for sale...I have had a migrain from hell due to this spinal leak,,,the last thing I want to hear is his stupid comments....just had to vent sorry,
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11-01-2008, 03:19 PM | #2 |
♥ Chip ♥ Smokey ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Leesburg
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| sometimes hubbies can be so insensitive!!! I'm sorry and FEEL BETTER!!!
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11-01-2008, 03:28 PM | #3 |
YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Jakarta, Indonesia
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| Aww I am so sorry to hear that. I commiserate. I really don't see what's so difficult about taking them out... But why would he say anything about putting the dogs up for sale... I will be livid if anyone suggests it. Hang in there.
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11-01-2008, 03:33 PM | #4 |
Nope, Not a Wig. Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: New England
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| Now, he better appreciate you more for everything you do when you're back on your feet!! I can't help with the hubby, but I really want to wish you a speedy recovery. The leak and headaches can be very painful, and I really hope you are taking care of yourself even if hubby's being a dunce. Remember that you must take care of before you can go back to taking care of everyone else.
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11-01-2008, 04:14 PM | #5 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: w.leisenring pa usa
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| well the reason he would say about putting.the dogs up for sale..it that he is tired of taking care of them..cuz I do everyting around here..and now he has to so he is being pisssy...and my kids are just as bad, and their complaining right with him.."this place is a mess, I steped in dog pee, the dogs are chewing up everything"...yada yada yada.. because I normally take care of all this stuff. becuase the dogs are mine. and right now I cant,,so he is on a kick about " you need to get rid of all these dogs"...but sorry honey you will go first!....oh and as far as him appriciating what I do cuz he is getting a taste of it..HA, YA RIGHT, he thinks thats my JOB!.. (one of those types ya know) cuz thats what his mother tells him.....(oh please)
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11-01-2008, 04:30 PM | #6 | |
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They should help you out because you are a family and families stick together. Good wishes on your recovery | |
11-01-2008, 04:37 PM | #7 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Kenmore, Washington
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| Sorry to hear you're in such pain and that your family is not supporting you during this difficult time. However, I have to be honest here, you're not doing a very good sales job with the husband!!! Take care, and get well soon.
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11-01-2008, 04:37 PM | #8 |
YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Jakarta, Indonesia
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| This is just very inconsiderate of your family. Don't they understand that the mother is sick? I would SO set him straight about what his mother tells him. My stepdad is archaic but he will mop the floor. We have a maid (it is very much the norm here) but when she goes home for a holiday, he is the one who sweeps and mop the floor. My mom or I will cook or do laundry. Even my 8 year old sister will iron her own shirts. A family should share the load. I am sorry for your situation.
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11-01-2008, 04:38 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Florida/Canada
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| I am sorry you have to deal with this, yes men are incensitive for the mostpart. I have had my surgeries and myhubby has helped.. but when I am back at it.. he forgets what he did in the house.. he hates doing anything inside.. anne |
11-01-2008, 05:05 PM | #10 |
BANNED! Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: South Carolina
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| My advice would be take a picture of his sorry butt and put him up for the highest bidder on ebay. I can never say anything bad about my hubby, heck, my 3 inside ones are trained to go on pee pads, and he gets up before me every morning, and very quietly shuts the bedroom door, comes out here and changes up both pee pads. Heck, 2 weeks ago, I had diverticulitis, and he wouldn't let me do anything. |
11-01-2008, 05:23 PM | #11 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | I feel so bad for you. I know I wouldn't get much help either. I no longer work, other than taking care of my 89 year old father, so he thinks I shoud do everything, which of course I did for 33 years that I worked and raised a family!!! Men!! I wish Iwas closer I would love to come help you.
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11-01-2008, 05:33 PM | #12 |
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| awwwwww that stinks!!! It's bad enough to be feeling so horrible!! I know ....I've been there with the spinal headache!!!! sorry your family isn't supporting you at this time. Get feeling better!!!
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11-01-2008, 05:45 PM | #13 |
Stop Puppy Mills Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: california
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| I think you might need to revise his description otherwise you may have to pay someone to haul him away. I hope you feel better soon.
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11-02-2008, 09:44 AM | #14 | |
YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: w.leisenring pa usa
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11-02-2008, 09:56 AM | #15 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Indian Head, MD
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| I am new here and probably shouldn't make this my first post but I had a GREAT idea! You need to get some hired help. Not just call-a-maid but call a HOT male Maid! Prerequisite would be experience with bedside manner. I guarantee, even if hubby and kids dont change you will feel A-OK about it. LOL |
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