megansmomma | 08-29-2008 10:58 AM | I would just like to comment on this thread since I was one of the very first people to comment on this question that was posed to the forum. Over the past week, I have come back here several time to look over many of the comments made back and forth between some members of this forum. I own a MORKIE~or a maltese/yorkie mix and am also the owner of a larger yorkie who is 12 lbs. Many people that have posted to this thread would disappove of both of my dogs but I still love them.
For the past week this thread has been at the VERY TOP of the General Discussion forum. With that being said, when I was a lurker as I was for over a year reading all of the arguing, name calling and down right mean spirited behavior that has been said over the past week, it would have made me RUN from this wonderful forum. The impression that is given by a handful of members within this commumity is not welcoming. :(
Prior to bringing home my first yorkie I was looking for information on this breed and if I would have come here to see all of this negative banter, I would never have returned. That is sad since I have learned so much very useful information from the many nice, friendly and caring people here. :)
I understand NOW after learning from YT that their is a standard for the Yorkie, there are backyard breeders and puppymills~I learned that HERE on YT while lurking. I was also fortunate enough not to come across anything like this thread when I first stumbled upon this site. I would have RUN from this type of group.
There seems to be a group of posters on here that find a rush in jumping into a discussion to just bash away without regard to how their strong feels might offend others or cause ill feelings. Some people will try to defend themselve to this type of behavior but others will just leave and never return. I have seen this with new member that have been jumped on when they were trying to find information only to be driven away. I have also posted to a thread and had these same people post negative comments and make a nice thread turn ugly very quickly. I do not believe that this is why this community was started.
When names like "mutt" :thumbdown are tossed around people will take offense, when the only place to get a mixed breed is the pound, people will take offense, if your yorkie is large and not standard, people will take offense. If I am told that the pet that I have opened my home to and love whole heartedly is not as valuable as yours~yes I will take offense to that as well.
If you look at my very first post it referred to others with Morkies and it was totally overlooked and the bashing and fighting began! This is all very sad!:(
If I came to your home and told you that I didn't like you how you raised your children, the car that you drove or the way you kept your home you would take offense. It really is the same thing here, our dogs are part of our lives and families and when you attack something or someone that we love it is only a natural human instict called fight or flight.
I am not looking for a fight only understanding to others feelings. |