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07-16-2005, 12:31 PM | #16 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Austin, Texas
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| Tsvesta-- I think letting the breeder keep Kaya for a month would be your last resort. I know how you feel about doing exactly as what dad says. I have a strict one as well Have this in writing and make sure you'll be getting Kaya after a month. This way, you'll be able to avoid any discussion from your dad and all would be fine. And I couldn't stress this enough--have this in writing with the breeder. We know you've been excited about getting Kaya and taking care of her. Just think of it this way, you'll have another month to prepare and anticipate her arrival. You'll have everything ready and you'll be the prepared super mommy that you are!! Hope everything works out well. |
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07-16-2005, 12:33 PM | #17 |
Owned by Charlie Bug Join Date: May 2005 Location: South Central, MN
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| I just wanted to say I hope everything works out in the end. My parents weren't to happy about me getting charlie because i still live with them. Now we joke about who's dog he is even though i paid for him and his stuff.
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07-16-2005, 12:37 PM | #18 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2005
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| I'm so sorry, it is hard for the yorkie lovers of the world and animal lovers too, to understand there are folks who just do not relate, to them it is "just a dog". I truly hope and pray the breeder will understand and keep her for you. Maybe you can visit often. I'm sure once you explain she will understand. As for mom and dad, well of course you must do what you have to, I feel badly for you and your mom. Sometimes, though, moms can have an enfluence when no one else can do it. Just keep your fingers crossed and try to keep busy until you can get your little one. I'm glad you wrote, you know you have understanding here, nobody thinks you are nuts, unless we all are. |
07-16-2005, 02:45 PM | #19 |
I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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| I hope everything works out for you and you are able to get your puppy.
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07-16-2005, 02:55 PM | #20 |
Boppin' Bo! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Indiana
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| Oh, I'm so sorry you have had to go thru all this turmoil. Anyone who is adamant about not having an animal in the house, in my opinion, ususally won't change their mind. If the breeder will agree to keep her for you maybe you can visit her several times a week. Hope things work out for you.
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07-16-2005, 02:56 PM | #21 |
Double Trouble Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: FLORIDA
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| I would also be careful if you say that he still helps you financially.
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07-16-2005, 02:58 PM | #22 |
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| Oh my! I really want you to have your baby now and I would just tell your father that she is your "baby" just like a human baby and he has to accept her if he accepts you. You are a "package deal". What is it he doesn't like about dog in the house...the accidents? Keep panties on her when she is in the house and then there are no accidents and he has no reason to say no. The panites are the kind for females in heat. They work well. Good luck! |
07-16-2005, 03:31 PM | #23 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 235
| I'm so sorry to hear your father is so head strong about bringing your new puppy. He should be glad your not bringing home a baby.LOL! Maybe someone here would babysit, but it's sad because this an important time to be bonding with her. Good Luck. |
07-16-2005, 03:47 PM | #24 |
Inactive Account Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: MD
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| AW, I am so sorry to hear of the trouble you are going thru. Getting a new Yorkie puppy is supposed to be ever so much fun. If I were the breeder, I would insist on keeping your baby til you can sort out how to maybe get your dad to come around or til you are ready to go back home. As for the white roots, your puppy is starting to break the adult color on her head. Bet she looks like she is going bald. You would be amazed at how many people are concerned when they first the color changing. Her coat on her body will also start to change at the root and grow out. You will see the dark hair on the tips of the hair as it grows out. That is the normal thing so do not worry. She is right on target...Best of luck with your parents and your baby.. |
10-03-2009, 01:25 AM | #25 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Dubai
Posts: 13
| Hello! I hope you manage to sort things out with your dad,and congrats for your new little baby! Just be aware of certain things you need before putting her in a plane to the UAE: The dog has to be minimum 6 months old (unless they changed this law recently) Has to be vaccinated against Rabies (if im not mistaken 2 or 3 months before travelling but check on that one). Has to have a microchip. You need an import permit from the ministry of Environment & Water. Also a health certificate from your vet and ministry on your country, depending in your Country laws, you might also need a export permit. She will have to fly in by Cargo only (pets not allowed on board) :-( I advise you to send her by Emirates,they are the best for handling pets. Its a pain in the neck all these procedures but its worth it once you have your little one next to you... :-) Usually you can find a company that can handle all these paperwork and transportation for you. Good luck! |
10-03-2009, 02:47 AM | #26 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Havre de Grace, MD
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| This thread is four years old. I wonder if it worked out?
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10-03-2009, 04:02 AM | #27 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member | Your Dad must be a very unhappy soul. I can't imagine NOT loving animals, they make me laugh & smile everyday. AND I also can't imagine not supporting my daughter with her new baby. I hope his heart changes because that is sad. If it were me, I would have just TOLD him what I was doing and said, if I can't bring her, I will have to figure out other living arrangements. I am sure he would not want that. I have a very demanding Father, but I have learned to tell him NO and now that we are adults, we are equal. I also demand respect and privacy. You can love your Dad while making your own decisions in life, so dont let him control you forever. (speaking from experience). I love my Dad, but we have such a better relationship now that I am older and he knows where I stand. I would think the breeder would be able to keep her with no problem. I hope so anyway, Yorkies are wonderful! I hope it all works out for you. (just noticed how old this thread is! lol) Last edited by BaxtersMommy; 10-03-2009 at 04:03 AM. |
10-03-2009, 05:02 AM | #28 | |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: VA
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my dad gives me h3ll each time i buy a puppy and i dont live at home either, i just ignore him...and i still bring my pups to their house occasionally and just tell them to stay away from that mean old man who SAYs he doesnt like dogs...he doesnt seem to like mine because they have such free roam at home..to jump on the sofa and kiss people..he doesnt like them in his face when we were growing up we wanted pets of all kinds and it was always no. but it never stopped us..lol...i snuck in hamster, gueine pigs, ..my mom got a new dog and he let it stay inside...then when we moved out..they got 2 cats and he acted all macho about not wanting them...guess what? he loves those dang cats..wont admit it but he does...we asked for cats from the time we could talk..always heard i hate a freaking cat...now look at him | |
10-03-2009, 06:20 AM | #29 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: California
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| I'm sorry you're going through this. My Mom was kind of the same way..not to the degree your dad is. She didn't like animals in the house, but that started to change after we got our cat, Pumpkin. She's pretty much an all indoor kitty now and even though my Mom doesn't really approve, she still let's Pumpkin sleep inside and everything. As for my puppy, my Mom didn't want me to get a puppy. I had been wanting one for 3+ years and when I decided to move out from my roommate's apartment to live on my own, I decided now was the best time. I really needed a little companion. My Mom didn't believe me that I had bought a baby. But I talked to her and told her that I wasn't going to like living alone and I needed a little baby to keep me company. Well, everything worked out well. When my Mom came to visit me in Mexico last year, she bought a little harness for my baby and a dress! She doesn't like to pet her, but my baby will go and play with her and my Mom will find it funny. She doesn't have a problem with my having my baby in the house or sleeping in my bed. My Mom thinks it's kind of gross but I don't mind. Good luck to you and your baby. Hang in there.
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10-03-2009, 06:29 AM | #30 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Havre de Grace, MD
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| HELLO!!
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