Originally Posted by Keno (Post 1564268)

you mean we can only agree with daisy mae? there are no other options??? why have a thread then?

I have read other threads where they say that certain things should be done in a PM, but now you all are saying otherwise ... I am baffled.

I think when you post on a public forum, you can expect to get tons of different opinions ...

I am not advocating offensiveness or being ignoble, just being open to other's opinions.

Originally Posted by crb (Post 1564383)

I think the thread started off well, but just like a lot of threads it has gotten off topic a few times.

Originally Posted by daisy mae06 (Post 1562792)

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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s (Post 1564420)

You are right. I contributed to that some...sorry. I am now trying for the life of me to understand why one member stated that she does not want and will not have children and now she is getting a lecture and being told that she doesn't really know what she wants (I guess everyone else has a better idea of what she wants than she does?) and that she should get her tubes tied because that is what is best for her !?!?!:confused: Geez....:(

Originally Posted by BamaFan121s (Post 1564420)

You are right. I contributed to that some...sorry. I am now trying for the life of me to understand why one member stated that she does not want and will not have children and now she is getting a lecture and being told that she doesn't really know what she wants (I guess everyone else has a better idea of what she wants than she does?) and that she should get her tubes tied because that is what is best for her !?!?!:confused: Geez....:(

Originally Posted by Txgurl06 (Post 1564458)

they are not saying she doesnt want kids lol they were just asking her what if it did happen. she said that she would use 2 typed of birth control or something.

then they were talking about ways she could prevent it and so was she!

nothing was said mean to her about her not wanting kids.

Originally Posted by peanut (Post 1564193)

I am amazed at some of the stuff that goes on YT...you would think that I would know better, I don't know who, when, where or why someone would email a person and say bad things about them re-homing...I have 4 yorkies , 2 puppies and 1 big GSD, 1 of mine I took in a year ago as a rehome, and thank God I did, Mac is the best yorkie around.Here is my problem with the whole thing...since everyone else is giving there 2 cents worth...
I love YT its like a family to me, and I know some disagree, but my gosh people, if you have a reason for rehoming it must be pretty bad, I 100% support it for the purpose of getting the baby a new a great home, and yes the one about rehoming because of another, ticked me off, but then I thought about the dog is better off because if they will rehome it for that reason. How would you feel if you had cancer and knew you were dieing and had to find homes for them, or if you couldn't make ends meet after working 50 hours a week and could barely feed them, or you had to move and the only place you could go to wouldn't let you have them, are you suppose to live on the streets, is that a good home for you and your dog...or you had to work 60 hours and left it home all by itself all the time, which is better to find the dog a home or keep it cause you don't believe in rehoming...I just brought this up because we have no idea what is going on with people or there situation..

It takes a big person and I am taking alot of heart and soul for someone on here that needs to rehome because of there situation...we are all crazy in love with our animals, well most of us:rolleyes: , I would give mine a kidney if I had to..I had to put one down a few years ago due to liver shunt and I cried everyday for a year over Tucker, but I did what I thought was best for him...that is call LOVE people, and some people love there dogs so much that it about kills them but they rehome..Life without animals has to be very hard and cruel, but to hang on to a dog, give it no time, lock up for long hours, hardly ever human contact, or don't have enough money for food or your medical condition prohibits then I am sorry for the people that don't understand...God forbid you had to go through something like this.....
I have a problem with a person that is on this forum, they get a dog and resell it after a couple of months and then get more and does the same thing over & over...but you know I haven't said anything about this person online, it is really none of my business, I feel sorry for the dogs, but then again, I don't they are so much better off to get a real home...What good is it going to do for me to start stuff and get more uproar on YT..none at all..the reason I am saying this is If you have nothing nice to say Keep your Mouth shut. I have try ,really hard too but sometimes I can't, I need to just think really hard before I say harmful things, which isn't easy:rolleyes:
I have had mean cruel things said about me breeding Lexie, and yes they hurt, she was breed to improve the breed, the stud was excellent, but someone put there 2 cents telling other yt members and yes it hurt, but then I am a bigger person than them, and I know my reason for what I do, and there isn't anyone that loves all there babies more than me, I just look at it this way, people that are so rude and hateful, are very miserable with themselves.
I think alot of the problem on YT is people type before they think, and they think they know everything, one of the best gifts of all is the ability to never stop learning..there isn't anyone on this forum or any forum that knows everything only God does...I really think the time has come that we all unite and try to get along better.
We don't know everyone on the forums, we talk but you don't know what is going on in there lives, and being mean, cruel and evil to people you don't know how you are impacting there lives. God only knows what is going on with these people or what they are really going through I just think we all need to STOP and think before we post, how are we going to effect that persons life...it maybe just a smart comment from us, but it could be a life moment for the person on the other end...:(
Thanks Lori for your post....:)
Sorry so long...:(

Originally Posted by Keno (Post 1564268)

you mean we can only agree with daisy mae? there are no other options??? why have a thread then?

I have read other threads where they say that certain things should be done in a PM, but now you all are saying otherwise ... I am baffled.

I think when you post on a public forum, you can expect to get tons of different opinions ...

I am not advocating offensiveness or being ignoble, just being open to other's opinions.

Originally Posted by aarnold808 (Post 1564432)

I had the same thing happen to me when I posted that I had to rehome a pet, as a consequence of that.. its really hard to post on here as often as I used to. I still remember each and every person who said nasty things to me, and it really hurt. So thank you for this thread.

Originally Posted by HallTx1203 (Post 1564291)

This is OT but.....:rolleyes:

I have a sister who does not/did not want children...She knew from early on that that was how she felt...She never changed her mind.......She looked and looked to find a doctor that would give her a hysterectomy....Insurance was okay with the surgery but could not find a doctor....And I promise you...She tried everywhere to find one too.....They also would not tie her tubes either...Saying she was young and would change her mind later.....Never happened....She just turned 37 and they finally did her hysterectomy....

So I honestly believe there are some that know they will not have kids....And there is truly nothing wrong with that....She has her pets.....They are her babies.....My sis is great with all her nieces and nephews....She loves them but does not want any of her own....Does not make her a bad person....


lol...This is just some of my useless knowledge as my hubby says :p


Joyce

Originally Posted by MyFairLacy (Post 1564467)

Yeah...I was only stating I didn't want children because someone asked what I would do if my child was allergic - so I told them I wasn't having kids. Then I kept feeling like I needed to further explain myself and the discussion of preventatives came up and sorry it got so off topic. Anyway, my Lacy is my baby :)