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how should i tell this one breeder that i don't wanna buy her puppy anymore? Hi Everyone, Please give you your advice. In the past month, I have narrowed down my Yorkie search to TWO breeders. I have solidly chosen one breeder (after much thought), but feel like I've gotten in too deep with the other breeder. How should I tell her that I am no longer interested in her Yorkie? :confused: :( Look forward to your responses, D |
I would say honesty is the best policy. Who knows, down the road you just may want one of her puppies. |
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You're right. I might eventually want another Yorkie from her one day. Very good point. I wanna be careful with my words. Do you think I should say, "I have decided to negotiate with another breeder?" Should I give her a reason? (The breeder I've chosen to go with is actually selling her pups for more and also provides lifetime breeder support [including grooming]. She is also very personable. We enjoy hearing from each other.) |
Hi! I'm a breeder and I would want to know as soon as possible, and I think just an honest "I've found another puppy that better suits me" would be good :) I'm sure they'd rather know now, rather than be thinking the puppy is sold. I'm sure they will understand!!! Good luck in your puppy search!!!! |
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Here is what I've sent: "XXXXXXXX, Thank you so much for your time and advice, but I have recently found another Yorkie that better suits me; still from a reputable breeder such as yourself. It is probably better that you haven't yet sent pictures - I would have gotten too attached! But it's better that I inform you now, that I decline from my previous inquiry. Thank you again and good luck with the little boys, Dani" Do you think it's good? |
I think its perfect, and very nice of you!!!!!! :thumbup: Quote:
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:thumbup: Don't forget to post pictures of the little one you have chosen. Good luck. |
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Anyway, I almost teared up when the breeder sent me this picture. I can't wait to be a dog momma!!! |
I agree just be honest and let her know you're not interested at this point in time. |
The breeder replied. I am relieved! She said 'no problem' and that it's better since the puppies were turning out to be show quality and was thinking they would be better off in a show home. Show quality puppies! Bye bye! :( Now, I feel stress-free! Thank you for everyone's help! |
?? Did I read that wrong..does he weigh three quarters of an ounce?? or 3.4 oz?? Debbie |
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i can't believe he's 3/4 of an ounce? is that right? :eek: that's friggin small, omg i'd be so worried. My morgan was 2.5 ounces when born and i thought THAT was small. good luck, you must be so excited. can't wait to see all your updates and pictures on the little boy |
i think it was 3/4 of an ounce when born... they all are so cute!! |
New Baby for sale I 'm a breeder, and I'm against selling a puppy that is as young as these are. I don't think a good breeder would put their puppies up for sale untill they are at least 6 weeks old. Too much can happen between 1 week and 6 weeks of age, especially to the smalles of the litter. It's like putting Meat on a platter. I like to weigh my babies each week, take time to let them be a baby. You can't really tell a thing about what they will look like any way. If I would place a deposit on the smallest, it would probably die, Momma could lay on it, or it may turn out the biggest of the litter. Just isn't a good policy. Besides there is such a danger of the smallest one not being the healthy one, then somone could get up set, and disappointed. |
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"Hi Dani, Wow! Im exhausted as well as mom! 5 Puppies. This is unusually large litter considering the Mom is 4.5 lbs! I will keep you updated as they grow, Eyes open at 12-14 days, crawling by 4 weeks, running by 5 weeks He will be Ready around Christmas Eve, if this is Too soon for you, we will hold on to him until you are ready They are all suckling Mom , all seem quite Healthy largest pup weight 2 oz , smallest 3/4 of an oz. :) Enjoy XXXXXXXXX" Is 3/4 of an ounce unusually abnormal?! |
I am getting frustrated. Can anyone please help me? Should I go back to the original breeder? She is seems more reputable to me now :( |
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My female's weight was 5lbs. before getting pregnant...she delivered 6 puppies, delivered on approximately day 60/61 and her puppies weighed between 3.4oz. to 5.2 oz. The stud was 3.5lbs. So, yes, I would say that a puppy that only weighs 3/4 oz. is definitely very, very small. I am not saying there will be anything wrong with the puppy, just be cautious and watch it's development. Debbie |
Here's my story: I posted in a KiJiJi ad that I was looking for a Yorkshire Terrier in December. This one lady emailed me and said she has a litter coming that will be ready to go to new homes in December. A couple weeks later (September 24), she emailed me and said the litter was born! I was so happy. So I knew about the puppies before they were even born. That's why I knew about them at such a young age. But I was aware that the puppies won't be ready to go until December 24, she says. So she's still giving 12 weeks with the mom, which is good. She owns a full fledged farm in the countryside and breeds Yorkies for sale to pet owners only (non-breeding contract). She sounds legit to me. Do you think I could still ask to put a deposit on one of the other males if they're not taken yet? Or should I keep looking around? Quote:
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Have you sold puppies before? Are you a breeder? Back to my original message: I would feel badly if I had to turn her down too! I don't want to take it too far. Should I stay faithful to her and keep watching his development? Looking forward to your advice! |
Anyone have general advice/feedback? |
I have a litter right now, and I couldn't imagine a pup being 3/4 oz. I mean...has ANY breeder had a pup that small?!?1? I can't imagine, the health issues that would probably go along with a pup so small....I just can't say I would have confidence in that. I also would NOT take a deposit on a pup that was only a week old. I would say that you can keep in touch, and watch the development, and then MAYBE when the pup is older, BIGGER, and stronger, if you would like to leave a deposit....then make arrangements with the breeder. I just find it VERY hard to believe that their pups are THAT tiny....I mean, 3/4 oz, is nuts. Maybe other more experienced breeders will have a better idea. |
I feel somewhat pressured because out of the three boys, she said that one is already on hold (was given a deposit the DAY they were born). So now I don't really want the runt, especially if he was too small at birth. In all actuality, size doesn't matter. I just want it to be healthy and fits my personality like someone else mentioned in this thread. Quote:
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I am not a breeder and I'm sure not an expert but just to give you an idea of the weight thing- the current world's smallest dog was 1.5 ozs at birth. I feel like the breeder must have made a typo or something. If it's true, I would run as fast as I could. That would be a very special needs dog. If you choose not to buy from this breeder I am sure you would find an excellent one right here at YT. Good luck!:) |
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Oh and p.s.;) You should not feel any pressure at the very young age the pups are. Only you know what feels right for you but that would be a warning sign to me. |
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