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KendraE · 04-25-2011, 06:59 PM

Thank you!! To those of you I have personally either talked with through PM's or a phone call, I just wanted to thank. Those of you that have listened to the entire story now understand my dilema. Those of you who haven't bothered to reach out, just read my post and assumed, still think Im insane! Theres more there....but again, THANKS!!!

YorkieRose · 04-26-2011, 04:21 AM

I find most Yorkie lovers are "crazy"..so you are in good company!

FlDebra · 04-26-2011, 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by KendraE

Thank you!! To those of you I have personally either talked with through PM's or a phone call, I just wanted to thank. Those of you that have listened to the entire story now understand my dilema. Those of you who haven't bothered to reach out, just read my post and assumed, still think Im insane! Theres more there....but again, THANKS!!!

Why the negativity & attempt at mystery? I thought you got a huge display of attention, concern, advice, suggestions, compliments, and empathy to your threads. You can't really expect every member to comment on every thread???

I kept up for a while, commented several times, but am not up to date on your "delima" as I have not had much time to be online over the Easter holiday. Out living life! On a forum this HUGE, I think you just need to be grateful for the replies you get, whether on the forum itself or in PM or phone calls; and NOT try to insult those who may not have read your thread or may have not felt experienced to add to the suggestions already there. I am just very surprised at this tone!

shodanusmc · 04-26-2011, 05:37 AM

I had no idea you had a problem as I pretty much just post updates and when I have time check off topic and general. Like Deb said, there are way too many posts to post on. Whatever your problem, I hope it is or is getting resolved.

Mardelin · 04-26-2011, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by FlDebra

Why the negativity & attempt at mystery? I thought you got a huge display of attention, concern, advice, suggestions, compliments, and empathy to your threads. You can't really expect every member to comment on every thread???

I kept up for a while, commented several times, but am not up to date on your "delima" as I have not had much time to be online over the Easter holiday. Out living life! On a forum this HUGE, I think you just need to be grateful for the replies you get, whether on the forum itself or in PM or phone calls; and NOT try to insult those who may not have read your thread or may have not felt experienced to add to the suggestions already there. I am just very surprised at this tone!

I don't understand either Debra. I know from time to time I've received PMs (and not from the OP) telling me off because I didn't provide input to their thread.

In this case the OP has received suggestions, responses, etc. The possibility exists that the OP doesn't understand that most of the time, members don't engage unless true assistance is needed. However, it doesn't take away that even though some members don't post, they read and are truely pulling for every yorkie.

FlDebra · 04-26-2011, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Mardelin

... it doesn't take away that even though some members don't post, they read and are truely pulling for every yorkie.

Well said, Mary! There are probably many prayers said without a post being made. Sometimes there is already adequate advice, sometimes a person might not know anything to add ...... but the thoughts and good will are always there!

KendraE · 04-26-2011, 06:07 AM

Oh wow!! NO, NO,NO....I wasnt at all trying to be negative!!! I was sincerely saying Thank You!!!! I am so very grateful for EVERYONE that repsonds!! Just wanted to say a special Thank You to those Ive talked to on a more personel level!!! Please do not think I am not grateful, because I am!!!!!

And ps Mardelin,,,,I actually did send you a PM personally thanking you for your advice last week. Maybe you didnt get it!! Sorry!

Mardelin · 04-26-2011, 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by KendraE

Thank you!! To those of you I have personally either talked with through PM's or a phone call, I just wanted to thank. Those of you that have listened to the entire story now understand my dilema. Those of you who haven't bothered to reach out, just read my post and assumed, still think Im insane! Theres more there....but again, THANKS!!!

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Originally Posted by KendraE

Oh wow!! NO, NO,NO....I wasnt at all trying to be negative!!! I was sincerely saying Thank You!!!! I am so very grateful for EVERYONE that repsonds!! Just wanted to say a special Thank You to those Ive talked to on a more personel level!!! Please do not think I am not grateful, because I am!!!!!

And ps Mardelin,,,,I actually did send you a PM personally thanking you for your advice last week. Maybe you didnt get it!! Sorry!

The bolded out is a back slap...very negative....

KendraE · 04-26-2011, 06:18 AM

Im sorry...it does come across that way doesnt it...Not what I meant though!! I think several people really do think Im half crazy!! LOL! Geez....I am great at wording things wrong, arent I!! Please do accept my apology...I really wasnt trying to be ugly!

I really and truly am SO GRATEFUL for every single person here!! I have learned a tremendous amount from you all and past threads!

Evie the evil · 04-26-2011, 06:34 AM

In General....... emails, text messages, and any other written form of communication has the potential for being misinterpreted. 95% of human communication is done non verbally believe it or not.

I have noticed in general that people are sometimes misunderstood and sometimes people take things as a personal attack when it isn't meant as such. I have also noticed that in some people are quick to throw a nasty retort because it is so easy to do when not face to face.

I do not comment much on these forums. I do come here often to read up on advice and some topics that I just find interesting; however the one thing I see in abundance is people taking insult and the result being drama.

Don't get me wrong .. its fun to read but also unfortunate to see people treat each other in such a way.

Mardelin · 04-26-2011, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by KendraE

Im sorry...it does come across that way doesnt it...Not what I meant though!! I think several people really do think Im half crazy!! LOL! Geez....I am great at wording things wrong, arent I!! Please do accept my apology...I really wasnt trying to be ugly!

I really and truly am SO GRATEFUL for every single person here!! I have learned a tremendous amount from you all and past threads!

You were doing fine until the bolded out portion.....then wham. I think in the future....you just have to stick to the thanks....in other words have you ever heard of "KISS".

KendraE · 04-26-2011, 08:01 AM

Thanks!

Mardelin · 04-26-2011, 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by KendraE

Thanks!

That's all it took....

JESSY_RN2B · 04-26-2011, 08:31 AM

Agreed with Deb and Mary. Sometimes less is more. In this case, very true.

shodanusmc · 04-26-2011, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B

Agreed with Deb and Mary. Sometimes less is more. In this case, very true.

Less is more? Don't ever tell a guy that!

04-25-2011, 06:59 PM	#1
KendraE Hook Em! Bevo & Mack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 3,752	Just wanted to say..... Thank you!! To those of you I have personally either talked with through PM's or a phone call, I just wanted to thank. Those of you that have listened to the entire story now understand my dilema. Those of you who haven't bothered to reach out, just read my post and assumed, still think Im insane! Theres more there....but again, THANKS!!! __________________ Kendra Bevo and Mack & grandpups Bryleigh and Jaxon

04-26-2011, 06:07 AM	#7
KendraE Hook Em! Bevo & Mack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 3,752	Oh wow!! NO, NO,NO....I wasnt at all trying to be negative!!! I was sincerely saying Thank You!!!! I am so very grateful for EVERYONE that repsonds!! Just wanted to say a special Thank You to those Ive talked to on a more personel level!!! Please do not think I am not grateful, because I am!!!!! And ps Mardelin,,,,I actually did send you a PM personally thanking you for your advice last week. Maybe you didnt get it!! Sorry! __________________ Kendra Bevo and Mack & grandpups Bryleigh and Jaxon

04-26-2011, 06:18 AM	#9
KendraE Hook Em! Bevo & Mack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 3,752	Im sorry...it does come across that way doesnt it...Not what I meant though!! I think several people really do think Im half crazy!! LOL! Geez....I am great at wording things wrong, arent I!! Please do accept my apology...I really wasnt trying to be ugly! I really and truly am SO GRATEFUL for every single person here!! I have learned a tremendous amount from you all and past threads! __________________ Kendra Bevo and Mack & grandpups Bryleigh and Jaxon

04-26-2011, 08:01 AM	#12
KendraE Hook Em! Bevo & Mack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 3,752	Thanks! __________________ Kendra Bevo and Mack & grandpups Bryleigh and Jaxon

04-26-2011, 08:31 AM	#14
JESSY_RN2B Owned by 3 furballs Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 6,581	Agreed with Deb and Mary. Sometimes less is more. In this case, very true. __________________ Bobbi Yorkietalk http://www.dogster.com/dogs/395435 And now........little Aja too! http://www.picturetrail.com/sfx/album/view/23776545

04-26-2011, 04:21 AM	#2
YorkieRose No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,577	I find most Yorkie lovers are "crazy"..so you are in good company!

04-26-2011, 05:37 AM	#4
shodanusmc BANNED! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Illinois Posts: 4,603	I had no idea you had a problem as I pretty much just post updates and when I have time check off topic and general. Like Deb said, there are way too many posts to post on. Whatever your problem, I hope it is or is getting resolved.

04-26-2011, 06:34 AM	#10
Evie the evil Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Arundel, Maine, USA Posts: 40	In General....... emails, text messages, and any other written form of communication has the potential for being misinterpreted. 95% of human communication is done non verbally believe it or not. I have noticed in general that people are sometimes misunderstood and sometimes people take things as a personal attack when it isn't meant as such. I have also noticed that in some people are quick to throw a nasty retort because it is so easy to do when not face to face. I do not comment much on these forums. I do come here often to read up on advice and some topics that I just find interesting; however the one thing I see in abundance is people taking insult and the result being drama. Don't get me wrong .. its fun to read but also unfortunate to see people treat each other in such a way.