| KendraE | 04-11-2011 07:48 AM | Wow...yes, this is all very overwhelming. Let me answer a few of your questions......
First off, everyone keeps asking if Mac, Bevo and Macs mother have been spayed/neutered. Mac is 7 weeks old today, but he will be when he is old enough. He is still nursing, so no, the momma dog hasnt been fixed yet either. Her owner has promised to do this, but I am actaully going to offer to take her myself to ensure that it is done. YES, we are going to have BOTH boys neutered. I was going to wait and let them have a father/son neutering date together! I again, only bred Bevo for a pup. I know what an irresponsible thing it was to do now. I have learned alot from YT. But, we love little Mac so very much, and I think God had a play in him being the only pup in the litter.
I believe the "breeder" has 4 or 5 female yorkies of breeding age. I dont think she has had alot of litters. I know Mac was that females first and hopefully last. The female that is pregnant right now is also her first. The female that has the two pups right now, I think she told me it was her 3rd?? And the other female(s), Im really not sure. I dont think she has a ton of experience, just wants to breed. And yes, I think its all for money. She is basically just beginning to expand. Thats why I want her to slow down right now and make her think! She hasnt had any horrible experiences yet. And again I say YET...Again, In the very beginning of all this mess, I had no idea she had several dogs. I thought she just had Macs momma.
When she offered to let me have a pup out of this litter (because Mac was a blue), I ceratinly didnt jump on it. As I have previously said, the only reason we ever bred Bevo was to have a pup for my daughter who is 15. (again, i know I should not have done this, but did) She has been wanting a female yorkie for a long while. I told her after Mac was born, we would take our time and look for a good, reputable breeder to find her a baby girl in the future. We were in no hurry. But here is a yorkie being handed to me....a yorkie that God only knows where it will end up. I ultamately have decided to take it. And yes, it will be fixed. Bringing the female to my home was my idea. But, let me explain why.....
Mac and his mother came to my home when he was a few days old. The breeder was having some remodeling done and was afraid the noise was upsetting the female and she would hurt Mac. What was supposed to be a few days of her staying with us, has turned into 6 1/2 weeks. I kept her by choice. Mac has thrived...I wonder how different his spunky, loving, personality would be if he had beed raised in a cage? He runs and plays...he has learned to pull himself up the doggy stairs to the couch and patters up our bodies to nuzzle himself in our necks. Would he even be the same puppy? I shudder at the thought of him being caged up.
So, this female....things have worked out so well with Mac that I thought I could do a better job with her and her pups. I guess because I know they would be loved while here. I know I wont lock them up their first few months on this world. The pup we would keep would be raised in our home like Mac. They could stay longer with their mother. And it would give me more time that I would HAVE to be in communication with this breeder. It would give me a reason to keep talking to her. Ultamately, when I finally have to send Macs momma home, I will have no excuse anymore to talk with her. To tell her the good, bad and ugly of breeding.
You all are right....I am really actually changing nothing. All this will do is give the breeder a vacation from caring for the litter. Will she breed the momma again, most likely. Can I stop her...no, but I can try. Can I forcibly keep the pups till they are 12 weeks? Maybe if I make her sign a contract. Will that really make a differnce? No..they will still be sold and end up who knows where. So, all I can really do is keep talking...encouraging her to leave breeding to the experts, to not take chances with these babies lives. Maybe if I keep talking, she will eventually hear me. I could offer to buy all her dogs, have them fixed and find them homes, but she would probably just buy more and start over.
I just feel sad...and defeated. I really dont think there is anything else I can do. What she is doing isnt illegal (or at least I dont think it is), just immoral. I will still take the pup...I know I can give her a wonderful forever home and then I will take your advice and cut all ties with her. Maybe, I can just hope that some of what Ive told her will sink in and impact her.
Thank you all for opening my eyes and making me see that Im not helping, just enabling. I know we hear harsh words sometimes that we dont want to hear but need to hear. |