How Could He?
Posted 01-25-2009 at 01:23 AM by missj2007
I have been going through so much lately. School is already stressful and to add salt to a cut I found out David was cheating on me tonight. I felt that he was because he felt distant but he kept saying he loved me, still wanted to marry me blah blah but he kept saying how we need to have sex for me to prove I love him. He knew that I do not want to have sex before marriage but not even that I at least wanted our relationship to improve. So he called wanted me to come over to his house, he paid for the cab and ran out like he missed me. Came in the house he was all kisses, touching etc. Something well God told me to look at his cellphone.
I saw the messages from some woman named Dawn and where he was trying to delete them. I saw the messages in his out box of what he had wrote to her and they were explicit. These were messages from 01/11/09. So he kept lying over and over about it. First saying it was his boss he was kidding around with (yeah right), than it was something he did one time than two and he was sorry. I threw the cell phone at his faced he a huge knot came up and I ran to the bathroom crying and he was down on his knees saying sorry and that he loved me blah blah and we would get a place together and put it behind. He even asked me to stay the night but I couldn't I was hurting.
Well much later someone knocked at the door and it was Dawn she came in asking for her stuff back he had closed the door and tried to pretend like I was there for his friend. I came in and she saw me. He completely disrespected me. He act like I wasn't even there. She told me she was sorry and hugged me and told him to leave her alone. When he came in the house i threw the dvd case right into his eye. So yep he has two bruises to remember me by now.
I just can't believe he did this to me. The whole time I kept asking do you want to be with me, do you want to just end it, nope he couldn't let go. I knew I was not giving him the attention he needed but why couldn't he just come to me. He could have just broke up with me. After all that he still kept saying he loved me and that he could never put me out of his life. His friend said why can't you say you love her as a friend he said no he loved me more than that.Oh yeah he also says he is in love with her and me
Sorry this is long but writing really helps me. I have cried so much tonight.
I saw the messages from some woman named Dawn and where he was trying to delete them. I saw the messages in his out box of what he had wrote to her and they were explicit. These were messages from 01/11/09. So he kept lying over and over about it. First saying it was his boss he was kidding around with (yeah right), than it was something he did one time than two and he was sorry. I threw the cell phone at his faced he a huge knot came up and I ran to the bathroom crying and he was down on his knees saying sorry and that he loved me blah blah and we would get a place together and put it behind. He even asked me to stay the night but I couldn't I was hurting.
Well much later someone knocked at the door and it was Dawn she came in asking for her stuff back he had closed the door and tried to pretend like I was there for his friend. I came in and she saw me. He completely disrespected me. He act like I wasn't even there. She told me she was sorry and hugged me and told him to leave her alone. When he came in the house i threw the dvd case right into his eye. So yep he has two bruises to remember me by now.
I just can't believe he did this to me. The whole time I kept asking do you want to be with me, do you want to just end it, nope he couldn't let go. I knew I was not giving him the attention he needed but why couldn't he just come to me. He could have just broke up with me. After all that he still kept saying he loved me and that he could never put me out of his life. His friend said why can't you say you love her as a friend he said no he loved me more than that.Oh yeah he also says he is in love with her and me
Sorry this is long but writing really helps me. I have cried so much tonight.
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Dump himGET RID OF THE BOYFRIEND ASAP. IF THE CHEATING NOW HE WILL CHEAT ONCE YOU HAVE THE WEDDING RING ON | |
Posted 01-25-2009 at 11:27 AM by nm yorkies |
I left him that night. I am done with him and me and Dawn are now friends. | |
Posted 01-25-2009 at 12:40 PM by missj2007 |
Oh, my little Joy. I am sooo sad for you. You have struggled so much to achieve in your education and then this jerk does this to you. My daughter has gone through similar junk so I am so disgusted with him. Just wish I was close and I could give you a hug. Just soooo, soooo, sorry Joy. Sounds like you are strong. And so is your faith, little one. That is what is going to get you through. I am so proud of you to want to wait until marriage. You are a rare jewel, sweetie. You just make sure that the one who gets your love is worthy of you. Take care, Joy. ~Joanne~ | |
Posted 01-25-2009 at 03:28 PM by 4doggiemama |
good for youIt is a very hard time for you now, don't back down, he will say anything to get you back, he has already showed what type of person he is, the old saying tigers don't change his stripes, well he has a cheating strip, you take care and let your dog help you ,, my yorkie's helped me when i was going through many bad things , my husband that was my best friend and the love of my life, died then 5 mo later my mom dies , i have many health issues but my babies are my joy:d stat strong | |
Posted 01-26-2009 at 05:32 AM by nm yorkies |
Thank you both so much for your support.Joanne you are right I have been through so much trying to achiev in my education and he was stressing me out than. He is not tryin to get me back and I am happy. All he said to me today was that I ruined it between him and her. Me the person who has put up with his temper tantrums, late night calls, family arguements, etc for almost two years ruined his two week relationship, what a jerk he is. | |
Posted 01-26-2009 at 04:33 PM by missj2007 |
nm yorkies I am so sorry about your husband and your mom.I always tell Poppy he will be the only man in my life to never hurt me. | |
Posted 01-26-2009 at 04:34 PM by missj2007 |