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Princes mom · 05-21-2010, 08:59 AM

A co-worker told me yesterday that she is pregnant. After the congrats, I remembered that she told me last year that her husband lost his job, and is only working part-time, like she is; they already have 4 children (2/2), she is always upset about her money situation and now she's pregnant.
She doesn't have insurance (both work part-time), so she goes to a clinic.
She's 39 so I guess that's what she wanted.

yorkieusa · 05-21-2010, 10:37 AM

Oh, boy!

maryeverett1 · 05-21-2010, 10:45 AM

Serious yikes on that...what I don't get is why people have kids to just to have them! Just like i dont understand getting a dog and THEN realizing you dont have enough money to take care of regular day to day needs (let alone emergencies!) Raising them (kids and dogs) right takes a lot of love and a lot of money and that should have occurred to her since she has 4 already. I am not trying to be mean or judgmental but this is one I just don't get especially with all the details you listed. Let's just pray that they have what they need for not only the baby they are already pregnant with but the other 4 kids in their home now...

jmdt · 05-21-2010, 11:18 AM

Why not have 20 kids if the state is going to pay for them??? People like this should not have kids because they have no sense!! It's a shame

Cerise · 05-21-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkieusa

Oh, boy!

she may be saying Oh girl! But in their situation oh boy, or oh girl, is not a great idea right now

livingdustmops · 05-21-2010, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

Why not have 20 kids if the state is going to pay for them??? People like this should not have kids because they have no sense!! It's a shame

Yea but who is going to pay for the maid service for 20 kids...

MaddiesMommie · 05-21-2010, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

Why not have 20 kids if the state is going to pay for them??? People like this should not have kids because they have no sense!! It's a shame

Yea, really. I know a few families that have one parent working part time, yet they drive new vehicles than me, take more trips, and always seem to have money for "stuff".

Of course, given $700 a month in food stamps would take care of your food bill.

yorkieusa · 05-21-2010, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Cerise

she may be saying Oh girl! But in their situation oh boy, or oh girl, is not a great idea right now

I'd laugh, but I'm feeling just sick at the thought of those children not being properly cared for by the parents who are responsible for bringing them into this world and not by the tax payers who had nothing to do with it.

J_is_my_initial · 05-21-2010, 12:51 PM

Was it an oops or planned? Accidents do happen even at that age.

Princes mom · 05-21-2010, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

Why not have 20 kids if the state is going to pay for them??? People like this should not have kids because they have no sense!! It's a shame

This really ticks me off. I have one child (22 years

) and I really resent paying for any else's kid(s)!!!
I work with a lot of educated fools.

Princes mom · 05-21-2010, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by J_is_my_initial

Was it an oops or planned? Accidents do happen even at that age.

Either way, it wasn't prevented. I doubt if she uses anything, nor her husband. You would think she would have gotten "fixed" after having 4 kids!!!

Princes mom · 05-21-2010, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Princes mom

This really ticks me off. I have one child (22 years

) and I really resent paying for any else's kid(s)!!!
I work with a lot of educated fools.

anyone I hate typos when I can't correct them!

mojo · 05-21-2010, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by J_is_my_initial

Was it an oops or planned? Accidents do happen even at that age.

Sorry, respectfully disagree. Having one kid, maybe two by accident I can see, when you are on your 5th child, it is no accident!

mizzwanned · 05-22-2010, 08:44 AM

Who is this about? Im confused lol

Oh nvermind..i didn't even read the coworker part lol Yea I don't know what she was thinking..

PANAMA69 · 05-23-2010, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Cerise

she may be saying Oh girl! But in their situation oh boy, or oh girl, is not a great idea right now

you crack me up, they probably thinking if octomom can do it why not them

05-21-2010, 08:59 AM	#1
Princes mom YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,566	What was she thinking??? A co-worker told me yesterday that she is pregnant. After the congrats, I remembered that she told me last year that her husband lost his job, and is only working part-time, like she is; they already have 4 children (2/2), she is always upset about her money situation and now she's pregnant. She doesn't have insurance (both work part-time), so she goes to a clinic. She's 39 so I guess that's what she wanted. __________________ Prince, rest in peace. We miss you and love you so much.

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mizzwanned Donating YT 11K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: new york Posts: 14,007 Blog Entries: 2	Who is this about? Im confused lol Oh nvermind..i didn't even read the coworker part lol Yea I don't know what she was thinking.. __________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3

05-21-2010, 10:45 AM	#3
maryeverett1 BANNED! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Virginia Beach, VA Posts: 795	Serious yikes on that...what I don't get is why people have kids to just to have them! Just like i dont understand getting a dog and THEN realizing you dont have enough money to take care of regular day to day needs (let alone emergencies!) Raising them (kids and dogs) right takes a lot of love and a lot of money and that should have occurred to her since she has 4 already. I am not trying to be mean or judgmental but this is one I just don't get especially with all the details you listed. Let's just pray that they have what they need for not only the baby they are already pregnant with but the other 4 kids in their home now...