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RebelBelle · 01-27-2008, 09:33 PM

Jamie's neuter is scheduled for Wednesday (Its his 6 month BDay.) and I am already freaking out. I know that everyone says that vets do neuters everyday and that its routine, but I can't help but worry. Jamie is my baby boy and I don't know what I would do without him. My mom says that its silly that I'm this worked up about it, but he's only 3.5 lbs. I asked her if she would feel comfortable with a skin baby that small going under anesthesia and she said no but he's a dog.

She will never get it. I know I'm doing the right thing for him and I really trust my vet. I just can't imagine leaving him in a place that he doesn't know all day. I think my fears about Jamie may be multiplied by all the other stress in my life right now but I don't think its unreasonable for me to be scared. On the other hand I spent the whole day tearing up everytime I looked at him... I don't know if I'll make it to Wednesday at this rate.

zoeybear · 01-27-2008, 09:51 PM

It is so hard. I was really worried when Zoey was spayed. It will be time for Chloe soon. You are a good mommy to be worried about your baby boy. Im sure he will be fine.

jsclark · 01-27-2008, 09:58 PM

I know exactly what you mean. In another month or so, I'll be in your shoes and I already get nervous about it sometimes. It's just incredible how these little guys can get into your heart like no one else. You have love for your little guy, you have trust in your vet, now you just have to have faith.

I'll keep you guys in my thoughts this week, and let us know how everything goes. I'm sure everything will be fine!

Beabble · 01-27-2008, 10:22 PM

Aweeee, God bless your heart for loving your furbaby so much. I think it's very normal to worry about our furbabies like that. For those who say, "it's just a dog" well, I feel bad for them, cause if that's truly how they feel, then they've never really experienced the love of a furkid before

When our boxer boy was 2 years old, I got him neutered and he was a hefty 70 pounds then, I still worried like crazy about him. Heck, Maggy has an appointment to go to the vets on the 4th of February and the doc said "we'll see" how she's doing then as to if she can have her first set of shots then or not. I'm scared outta my wits about it and I told my vet that. But, she has to have them. The best I can tell ya hon is to have faith, trust in a higher power if you believe in him and leave it in God hands, that's all you can do. I know times like these are really hard, it's all a part of being a good Momma. Please keep us updated how your furbaby does with the neuter and I'll keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

saphire · 01-28-2008, 12:08 AM

We will all be thinking of you and your little man. I'm sure it will be ok.

Sheilagh

Clioc · 01-28-2008, 03:32 AM

I know exactly how you feel!!! My pixie has gone in to be spayed this morning. I think the vet thinks i have a screw loose in my head or something. I rang on saturday and kept her on the phone for 45 mins asking the same questions I did when my DH made the appointment. I couldn't drop her off becuase i know i would make a scene. I am going to collect her in 5 hours and 15 mins and it has been the longest morning. She is a spirited little girl and is so friendly to every one i am praying it doesnt break her unique personality. We have a span new bed for her to come home to with her favourite teddy all washed and clean and have her favourite dinner chicken with rice for her when she feels up to it. I think we are good mommys and daddys if we worry about our furbabies, only thing is my DH says "what are you going to be like if we have kids, as in humans???" i said " no different my furbabies are my furry kids!!!!" i will let you know how she got on and will be thinking of you on thursday!!

Lee B · 01-28-2008, 03:58 AM

The fact that you are concerned is a good thing: it means you care about your furbaby. My pup was neutered two weeks ago today; I worried about him so much, and my hubby tried to keep my spirits up, but you could hear it in his voice when he called me to tell me that the vet's office had called to tell us the procedure was done and he was just fine. He was so relieved ...

We took him in at 0730 and they called at 0900 - so it didn't take long (and I know they didn't take him immediately). And he was ready to go home by 3:00 that same day. He was a little sleepy the rest of the day - didn't do too much - but the next day he was back to his old self.

Neutering is much less invasive than spaying - and THAT'S safe. Your baby will be just fine ... let the nice, caring folks here know when all is well.

RebelBelle · 01-28-2008, 06:32 AM

Thanks guys! I am feeling somewhat better about it today or at least for the moment. Still scared but not as panicked. It is so much easier to share my fears with people who understand how much I love him. When I was little my family raised hunting dogs and they NEVER came inside... so me keeping a puppy inside is a stretch for them much less letting him sleep with me and buying him clothes and toys and blankets...

hha · 01-28-2008, 06:45 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelBelle

Jamie's neuter is scheduled for Wednesday (Its his 6 month BDay.) and I am already freaking out. I know that everyone says that vets do neuters everyday and that its routine, but I can't help but worry. Jamie is my baby boy and I don't know what I would do without him. My mom says that its silly that I'm this worked up about it, but he's only 3.5 lbs. I asked her if she would feel comfortable with a skin baby that small going under anesthesia and she said no but he's a dog.

She will never get it. I know I'm doing the right thing for him and I really trust my vet. I just can't imagine leaving him in a place that he doesn't know all day. I think my fears about Jamie may be multiplied by all the other stress in my life right now but I don't think its unreasonable for me to be scared. On the other hand I spent the whole day tearing up everytime I looked at him... I don't know if I'll make it to Wednesday at this rate.

My son and his fiance just had their yorkie neutered 2 weeks ago, he was 3 pounds even, and did fine..my girl(they're brother and sister) weighs almost a pound more, she also did fine..the boys aren't under as long as the girls. He will be fine. Neither one of us could pick them up until the next day, but my son has said over and over, it was the best thing and he's actually settled down a lot already

Yorkie Luv of 3 · 01-28-2008, 06:53 AM

I feel for ya,, and wish you all the best,, been there ,, done that,, well not exactly that,, but have had 2 of our babies spayed,, and Cricket was barely over 3 pounds too,,, its scarey but my Vets office was really good,, knew how concerned i was,, they called me when they were about to take her in,, called me the minute the surgery was over ,, the minute she was awake,,and about an hour later to let me know how she was doing,, and just about every hour after til i got to go bring her home,, and they babied her to pieces too,, and as for after recovery!?!?! they are both much better for it,, Cricket i swear is even MORE playful after,, and Daisy's temperament is better,, both are all around much better for it,, I'm sure your baby will be as well!! Best Of Luck!!

sondra2004 · 01-28-2008, 07:25 AM

Sending Prayers for a Safe Surgery. I Have two babies and I cried both times.But I knew It was for the best.Hugs and Kisses to you and Jamie .

Clioc · 01-28-2008, 08:53 AM

Pixie is just back from the vet, my poor baby is all quiet with a "lampshade" on her head (not sure if it is the anaesthesia or the indignity of wearing the lampshade that has her so quiet). She all curled up in ball in her new bed and blankie, up on the couch and have a heater nearby as well. (as you can see in the pic) But she is fine everything went well and she even gave mommy a kiss.

Yorkie Luv of 3 · 01-28-2008, 09:13 AM

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww,, poor baby,, I'm sure she'll be right as rain in a few days,,hope you have pain meds if needed,, our last spay surgery here,, she really needed it for a few days,, Here's Wishing a Speedy Recovery!!!

Mere_de_Jambo · 01-28-2008, 03:36 PM

How long do the boys have to wear the lamp shade after they are neutered? My Jambo will have to go in next month and I am not looking forward to it.

RebelBelle · 01-29-2008, 05:08 PM

Hey Guys! Please remember to keep Jamie in your prayers tomorrow. Thanks!

01-27-2008, 09:33 PM	#1
RebelBelle Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Madison, MS Posts: 2,597	Scared about Neuter Jamie's neuter is scheduled for Wednesday (Its his 6 month BDay.) and I am already freaking out. I know that everyone says that vets do neuters everyday and that its routine, but I can't help but worry. Jamie is my baby boy and I don't know what I would do without him. My mom says that its silly that I'm this worked up about it, but he's only 3.5 lbs. I asked her if she would feel comfortable with a skin baby that small going under anesthesia and she said no but he's a dog. She will never get it. I know I'm doing the right thing for him and I really trust my vet. I just can't imagine leaving him in a place that he doesn't know all day. I think my fears about Jamie may be multiplied by all the other stress in my life right now but I don't think its unreasonable for me to be scared. On the other hand I spent the whole day tearing up everytime I looked at him... I don't know if I'll make it to Wednesday at this rate. __________________ Misty & Jamie

01-27-2008, 09:51 PM	#2
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	It is so hard. I was really worried when Zoey was spayed. It will be time for Chloe soon. You are a good mommy to be worried about your baby boy. Im sure he will be fine. __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

01-27-2008, 09:58 PM	#3
jsclark Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Paris, TN Posts: 26	I know exactly what you mean. In another month or so, I'll be in your shoes and I already get nervous about it sometimes. It's just incredible how these little guys can get into your heart like no one else. You have love for your little guy, you have trust in your vet, now you just have to have faith. I'll keep you guys in my thoughts this week, and let us know how everything goes. I'm sure everything will be fine! __________________ Captain Jack's Mommie

01-27-2008, 10:22 PM	#4
Beabble YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Ohio Posts: 2,104 Blog Entries: 4	Aweeee, God bless your heart for loving your furbaby so much. I think it's very normal to worry about our furbabies like that. For those who say, "it's just a dog" well, I feel bad for them, cause if that's truly how they feel, then they've never really experienced the love of a furkid before When our boxer boy was 2 years old, I got him neutered and he was a hefty 70 pounds then, I still worried like crazy about him. Heck, Maggy has an appointment to go to the vets on the 4th of February and the doc said "we'll see" how she's doing then as to if she can have her first set of shots then or not. I'm scared outta my wits about it and I told my vet that. But, she has to have them. The best I can tell ya hon is to have faith, trust in a higher power if you believe in him and leave it in God hands, that's all you can do. I know times like these are really hard, it's all a part of being a good Momma. Please keep us updated how your furbaby does with the neuter and I'll keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ ~Tracy~ Last edited by Beabble; 01-27-2008 at 10:24 PM. Reason: Spelling

01-28-2008, 12:08 AM	#5
saphire Lil' CoCo, Lotta Coffee. Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Africa Posts: 3,115	We will all be thinking of you and your little man. I'm sure it will be ok. Sheilagh __________________ Sheilagh CoffeeAbigail-Ceana. CoCoMurfee & Winston

01-28-2008, 03:32 AM	#6
Clioc Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Ireland Posts: 123	I know exactly how you feel!!! My pixie has gone in to be spayed this morning. I think the vet thinks i have a screw loose in my head or something. I rang on saturday and kept her on the phone for 45 mins asking the same questions I did when my DH made the appointment. I couldn't drop her off becuase i know i would make a scene. I am going to collect her in 5 hours and 15 mins and it has been the longest morning. She is a spirited little girl and is so friendly to every one i am praying it doesnt break her unique personality. We have a span new bed for her to come home to with her favourite teddy all washed and clean and have her favourite dinner chicken with rice for her when she feels up to it. I think we are good mommys and daddys if we worry about our furbabies, only thing is my DH says "what are you going to be like if we have kids, as in humans???" i said " no different my furbabies are my furry kids!!!!" i will let you know how she got on and will be thinking of you on thursday!! __________________ Clioc Wizzar Pixie Sparkey Last edited by Clioc; 01-28-2008 at 03:33 AM. Reason: Spelling

01-28-2008, 03:58 AM	#7
Lee B YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Land O' Lakes, FL Posts: 735	The fact that you are concerned is a good thing: it means you care about your furbaby. My pup was neutered two weeks ago today; I worried about him so much, and my hubby tried to keep my spirits up, but you could hear it in his voice when he called me to tell me that the vet's office had called to tell us the procedure was done and he was just fine. He was so relieved ... We took him in at 0730 and they called at 0900 - so it didn't take long (and I know they didn't take him immediately). And he was ready to go home by 3:00 that same day. He was a little sleepy the rest of the day - didn't do too much - but the next day he was back to his old self. Neutering is much less invasive than spaying - and THAT'S safe. Your baby will be just fine ... let the nice, caring folks here know when all is well.

01-28-2008, 06:32 AM	#8
RebelBelle Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Madison, MS Posts: 2,597	Thanks guys! I am feeling somewhat better about it today or at least for the moment. Still scared but not as panicked. It is so much easier to share my fears with people who understand how much I love him. When I was little my family raised hunting dogs and they NEVER came inside... so me keeping a puppy inside is a stretch for them much less letting him sleep with me and buying him clothes and toys and blankets... __________________ Misty & Jamie

01-28-2008, 06:53 AM	#10
Yorkie Luv of 3 Ayla now makes it 4!!! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Louisiana(home) & Texas(work) Posts: 1,711	I feel for ya,, and wish you all the best,, been there ,, done that,, well not exactly that,, but have had 2 of our babies spayed,, and Cricket was barely over 3 pounds too,,, its scarey but my Vets office was really good,, knew how concerned i was,, they called me when they were about to take her in,, called me the minute the surgery was over ,, the minute she was awake,,and about an hour later to let me know how she was doing,, and just about every hour after til i got to go bring her home,, and they babied her to pieces too,, and as for after recovery!?!?! they are both much better for it,, Cricket i swear is even MORE playful after,, and Daisy's temperament is better,, both are all around much better for it,, I'm sure your baby will be as well!! Best Of Luck!!

01-28-2008, 07:25 AM	#11
sondra2004 Mommy's Love Bugs Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Northern Virginia! Posts: 1,670	Sending Prayers for a Safe Surgery. I Have two babies and I cried both times.But I knew It was for the best.Hugs and Kisses to you and Jamie . __________________ Yorkies are like potato chips; you can't have just one! The PiNK Club

01-28-2008, 09:13 AM	#13
Yorkie Luv of 3 Ayla now makes it 4!!! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Louisiana(home) & Texas(work) Posts: 1,711	awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww,, poor baby,, I'm sure she'll be right as rain in a few days,,hope you have pain meds if needed,, our last spay surgery here,, she really needed it for a few days,, Here's Wishing a Speedy Recovery!!!

01-28-2008, 03:36 PM	#14
Mere_de_Jambo YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 328	How long do the boys have to wear the lamp shade after they are neutered? My Jambo will have to go in next month and I am not looking forward to it.

01-29-2008, 05:08 PM	#15
RebelBelle Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Madison, MS Posts: 2,597	Hey Guys! Please remember to keep Jamie in your prayers tomorrow. Thanks! __________________ Misty & Jamie