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marcerella02 · 02-06-2007, 04:06 PM

ok... so as some of yuo know... my bf of three years out of no where broke up with me in june.... broke my heart.,. blah blah blah.. still mending it... he has a new gf... broke my heart again.. ok... so i just heard from my aunt who heard from someone else that his mother is having an affair... damn rumours... and i mean as much as he ripped my heart apart.. i do still care for him and love him .. which i'm sure i always will.. i just need to hear it is NOT my place to tell him this.. as it IS a rumour and cuold be false.. but then again these things dont' just come out of no where... anyways.. someone just tell me what to do!

peanut · 02-06-2007, 04:09 PM

Its not your place....let it go girl, and get on with your life....

Your doing great, you will always have a special place in your heart, but people don't change and your better off staying away from him....

YorkieMom55 · 02-06-2007, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

i just need to hear it is NOT my place to tell him this..

I guess you just wrote your own answer.

Tiggerwit · 02-06-2007, 04:13 PM

Not your place is my vote.

side note: I'm sorry. It's hard moving on. Day by day. You can do it.

marcerella02 · 02-06-2007, 04:13 PM

thanks

i felt like i knew it... but needed to hear it from someone else... i'm new at being an "ex" and penut's mom.. you are right... i thought i kenw him.. i really did.. but he is someone else now.. and as much as i might care.. i guess these things are no longer my problem (i'm from a super small town.. this stuff travels fast.. i guess he'll find out

) but it's hard to stop caring.. thanks guys.

marcerella02 · 02-06-2007, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiggerwit

Not your place is my vote.

side note: I'm sorry. It's hard moving on. Day by day. You can do it.

by FAR the hardest thing i've been through... i think i'm doing well.. and then i miss him all over again.. guys.. what a mess!!!

YorkieShadow · 02-06-2007, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

ok... so as some of yuo know... my bf of three years out of no where broke up with me in june.... broke my heart.,. blah blah blah.. still mending it... he has a new gf... broke my heart again.. ok... so i just heard from my aunt who heard from someone else that his mother is having an affair... damn rumours... and i mean as much as he ripped my heart apart.. i do still care for him and love him .. which i'm sure i always will.. i just need to hear it is NOT my place to tell him this.. as it IS a rumour and cuold be false.. but then again these things dont' just come out of no where... anyways.. someone just tell me what to do!

No one can tell you what to do. only what they think you should do, And I for one say stay out of it, For one you dont know if this is true and even if it was. It has nothing to do with you. I would put it and them behind me and move on. if its true they will soon find out in time. Good Luck.

my2boyz · 02-06-2007, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

i'm from a super small town.. this stuff travels fast.. i guess he'll find out

I lived in a super small town once and I can guarantee you that if you already know most likely everyone else does too. Geez...I heard a rumor about me once that I didn't even know yet!

fourdez · 02-06-2007, 04:20 PM

One day you will wake up and you'll be surprised that the first thought in your head wasn't about your ex-boyfriend... Little by little, you will think of him less and less. You'll never totally forget, but it will be a memory like so many other memories.. Keep strong..

02-06-2007, 04:06 PM	#1
marcerella02 Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario Canada...not California :( Posts: 7,449	i need some advice ok... so as some of yuo know... my bf of three years out of no where broke up with me in june.... broke my heart.,. blah blah blah.. still mending it... he has a new gf... broke my heart again.. ok... so i just heard from my aunt who heard from someone else that his mother is having an affair... damn rumours... and i mean as much as he ripped my heart apart.. i do still care for him and love him .. which i'm sure i always will.. i just need to hear it is NOT my place to tell him this.. as it IS a rumour and cuold be false.. but then again these things dont' just come out of no where... anyways.. someone just tell me what to do! __________________ Layla 's Simon http://misscanam.blogspot.com/

02-06-2007, 04:09 PM	#2
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,161	Its not your place....let it go girl, and get on with your life.... Your doing great, you will always have a special place in your heart, but people don't change and your better off staying away from him.... __________________ KIM http://dogster.com/?307164 http://dogster.com/?375879The Monkeys http://www.photoshow.com/watch/PH5fy9Ff

02-06-2007, 04:13 PM	#4
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Washington Posts: 4,252	Not your place is my vote. side note: I'm sorry. It's hard moving on. Day by day. You can do it. __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle."

02-06-2007, 04:13 PM	#5
marcerella02 Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario Canada...not California :( Posts: 7,449	thanks i felt like i knew it... but needed to hear it from someone else... i'm new at being an "ex" and penut's mom.. you are right... i thought i kenw him.. i really did.. but he is someone else now.. and as much as i might care.. i guess these things are no longer my problem (i'm from a super small town.. this stuff travels fast.. i guess he'll find out ) but it's hard to stop caring.. thanks guys. __________________ Layla 's Simon http://misscanam.blogspot.com/

02-06-2007, 04:20 PM	#9
fourdez Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Rockland county, NY Posts: 1,199	One day you will wake up and you'll be surprised that the first thought in your head wasn't about your ex-boyfriend... Little by little, you will think of him less and less. You'll never totally forget, but it will be a memory like so many other memories.. Keep strong.. __________________ ********************* Nedda & My Girls Desi & Millie & my boy Ricky