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01-08-2008, 04:57 PM | #1 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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| So I have proof One of my really good friends like to steal guys from me! Well I wasn't actually "talking" to this guy, but I thought he was hot.. and he is.. well after I had said that she started talking to him.. and he called her tonight.. Which is fine for me.. bc he wasn't a big deal. But with this other guy she def got in the way of us! any advice? I don't tell her really any of my personal things between guys bc of this.. but if she ask or somethign then I will tell her that "yeah i talked to him.. or yeah he told me that".. but I won't just go to her telling her something. BTW.. the reason Im not too worried about this guy is because hes 40.. and shes 20!!! |
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01-08-2008, 07:58 PM | #2 |
Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida
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| I'm sorry, honey, but that is NOT a "very good friend". The Cardinal rule of girlfriends is that if your friend expresses interest in a guy, then he's OFF LIMITS I used to have a friend like this, until I caught on. I kicked her butt to the curb. It was a competition/jealousy thing with her
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01-08-2008, 08:03 PM | #3 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Upstate, NY
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| I agree with lunasmomma, this girl is NOT a friend. If she is not above "stealing" guys from you, she isn't above alot of other bad behavior either. You seem like too nice a girl to waste your time with this girl, she's not worthy of a good friend like you! |
01-08-2008, 08:33 PM | #4 |
megan - g Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: South Texas
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| There is definitely an unwritten rule between girls, especially friends, that if you like a guy he is off limits until you say so! I know age is just a number but you are right 40 is a little old, enjoy your 20's don't shack up!
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01-09-2008, 04:21 AM | #5 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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| Last night he kept texting her and told her that he wanted her to meet her at his house because "he had a hot tub"... so she called and told me.. I think she was trying to rub it in my face.. I just said "be careful" ... now that I look at it all he wants is sex. She has very low self esteem.. so any guy that will even attmpt to flirt with her in any little way she will take is as they are in love with her..... she will just have to learn. |
01-09-2008, 09:30 AM | #6 | |
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EXACTLY!!! To all of that! And even if you have broken up with a guy, I don't want my friends dating him then either. There's plenty of fish in the sea, believe me! I also made it clear to any of my ex-bf's that if/when we break up, they do NOT show up somewhere they know I'll be with a new "date". It's inconsiderate and disrespectful; and I don't see any excuse for it. One thing to accidentally run into someone (providing YOU are not following them around snooping on who he's seeing now.....life is too short for that, plus it just makes you miserable ) but when they know darned good and well where you'll be or are likely to be....off limits!!! Oh yeah..and when you're 20....40 y.o.???? EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
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01-09-2008, 10:20 AM | #7 |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | ^^^THAT^^^ is an oxymoron! In my book, this would not be a really good friend, it would be a FORMER friend. Back away from the "friend", back far far away....
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01-11-2008, 05:53 AM | #8 | |
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01-11-2008, 08:20 AM | #9 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: California
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| I had a best friend of 17 years cheat with a BF of mine,I was really hurt that she could do this to me.I guess she wasn't a friend after all. |
01-11-2008, 08:26 AM | #10 |
Luvs Lulu Donating Member | She is not a friend and definitely not someone I would not trust her anywhere a man I am either interested in or dating at all. Those are the kind of envious sneaky chicks you have to watch out for.
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