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good_gurl63901 · 08-25-2008, 06:15 PM

My DH gives me all kinds of heck about me and my dogs... he was asking me what I do on yorkietalk all the time, I told him that i have learned a lot from everyone on here and he told me I baby the dogs too much anyway... I told him he never wanted to get on here then, because i am MILD compared to some others on here.... he asked me what others did that i didn't i told him that there are some that have strollers for their pups (he told me he would commit me), that there are some that do homecooking (he told me i am too lazy for that), i told him that i was wanting to make them some home made treats, he told me that if i made them treats before i made him homemade bread that he would throw it in the trash

(he has been wanting me to make him bread for a month now lol) I don't know why i thought he might understand... I am 29 and I had a full abdominal hysterectomy in June, and I went through a bit of depression.. anyway... I dont know why i figured he would understand... i volunteer at the local pound and his family thinks i am nuts... they are like umm don't ppl get PAID to do that??!! anyway sorry for the long post i just really needed to vent

MyTobiBoy · 08-25-2008, 06:20 PM

We understand.......we are all a little nuts over our fur babies.

Jeri Cunningham · 08-25-2008, 06:21 PM

You really are light weight compared to some of us!

I have the stroller, bought the largest SUV made (Ford Excursion 10 cylinder) for my dogs benefit, 3 puppy tents, tons of clothes and leashes, and hold a puppy BBQ every year.

Tell hubby you can adopt 10 kids or have a few yorkies and he may come around ( worked for my first 5)

Anytime you want to vent this is the place!

We are here for you.

good_gurl63901 · 08-25-2008, 06:26 PM

lol thanks! I have one outfit and when he saw it he told me that he wouldnt go anywhere with me and my dog if he had that outfit on... he aslo doesn't want me taking them on trips with us

I love taking my babies places!!!

BamaFan121s · 08-25-2008, 06:28 PM

My hubby used to give me a hard time about being on YT too. Until he joined a forum of his own....now he has his own addiction and I am always getting to say, "See? I TOLD you so!"

linsvs · 08-25-2008, 06:31 PM

Gee thats to bad obviously hes not a Yorkie person.. Its sad that you arent allowed to enjoy your babies as much as you want to..

good_gurl63901 · 08-25-2008, 06:33 PM

he wont let them sleep in our room, much less with us... I would love to do more with them!!

Punkin&Piper · 08-25-2008, 06:40 PM

My hubby calls it dorkietalk and tells me if I put as much effort into the gym as I do YT then I would lose my 20 lbs real quick

mscat · 08-25-2008, 06:41 PM

I think that this is a jealously issue with him. Hubby' s get like that when mom's have a first baby sometimes too. They want to be number one, and when a certain someone moves in on their territory , they behave like that.....
Goodness, I have not been a member long myself, and well, um i have too many posts already, and my Suzi is my baby. Come in here and vent anytime you need to, we understand. I love my Suzi and this fourm too.
I am sorry your hubby is behaving like that to you, maybe he could see what it is all about?

emilyann · 08-25-2008, 06:43 PM

Your DH seems a little harsh

. I feel sorry for you having to put up with that.

emilyann · 08-25-2008, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by good_gurl63901

he wont let them sleep in our room, much less with us... I would love to do more with them!!

I think I'd sleep on the couch if my boyfriend told me I couldn't let Lilly sleep in the bed with us

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good_gurl63901 · 08-25-2008, 06:45 PM

he wont get on here he thinks we are all NUTS!! and i quote 'they are JUST dogs"

I want to get another yorkie, but he gives me crap about the 2 i have, but i am the one home all day, and the one that does and pays for everything for my dogs...

Punkin&Piper · 08-25-2008, 06:53 PM

My girls dont sleep in the bed with us because we have a mastiff that doesnt know his size and when they are on the bed he takes it upon himself to come on up and snuggle right in... but we both would love for them to sleep in the bed..especially Piper (hubby says thats his baby& I heard him say his most favorite baby)

good_gurl63901 · 08-25-2008, 06:59 PM

he thinks its weird that i call them my furbabies too lmao

Ines3185lyorkie · 08-25-2008, 07:03 PM

I was just telling my hubby today you have your comic books I have my yorkies addiction.

08-25-2008, 06:15 PM	#1
good_gurl63901 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Poplar Bluff, Mo Posts: 177	Anyone else have any issue w/family... My DH gives me all kinds of heck about me and my dogs... he was asking me what I do on yorkietalk all the time, I told him that i have learned a lot from everyone on here and he told me I baby the dogs too much anyway... I told him he never wanted to get on here then, because i am MILD compared to some others on here.... he asked me what others did that i didn't i told him that there are some that have strollers for their pups (he told me he would commit me), that there are some that do homecooking (he told me i am too lazy for that), i told him that i was wanting to make them some home made treats, he told me that if i made them treats before i made him homemade bread that he would throw it in the trash (he has been wanting me to make him bread for a month now lol) I don't know why i thought he might understand... I am 29 and I had a full abdominal hysterectomy in June, and I went through a bit of depression.. anyway... I dont know why i figured he would understand... i volunteer at the local pound and his family thinks i am nuts... they are like umm don't ppl get PAID to do that??!! anyway sorry for the long post i just really needed to vent

08-25-2008, 06:20 PM	#2
MyTobiBoy Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2008 Location: Jacksonville, Florida USA Posts: 15	We understand.......we are all a little nuts over our fur babies. __________________ ....Tobi's Mama:

08-25-2008, 06:21 PM	#3
Jeri Cunningham Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Hercules,CA Posts: 1,816 Blog Entries: 1	You really are light weight compared to some of us! I have the stroller, bought the largest SUV made (Ford Excursion 10 cylinder) for my dogs benefit, 3 puppy tents, tons of clothes and leashes, and hold a puppy BBQ every year. Tell hubby you can adopt 10 kids or have a few yorkies and he may come around ( worked for my first 5) Anytime you want to vent this is the place! We are here for you. __________________ Mandy & Krissy & Teddy & Chelsey & Kayla Non-Yorkies: Rusty & Spicy & Biewers: Darla & Spanky The Little Rascals

08-25-2008, 06:28 PM	#5
BamaFan121s YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama Posts: 7,970	My hubby used to give me a hard time about being on YT too. Until he joined a forum of his own....now he has his own addiction and I am always getting to say, "See? I TOLD you so!" __________________ ...........Misty........... Trixie * Lexi * Chipsie

08-25-2008, 06:40 PM	#8
Punkin&Piper Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 1,077	My hubby calls it dorkietalk and tells me if I put as much effort into the gym as I do YT then I would lose my 20 lbs real quick __________________ Laura Punkin,Piper,Picasso,smokey & stormy's Mom

08-25-2008, 06:26 PM	#4
good_gurl63901 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Poplar Bluff, Mo Posts: 177	lol thanks! I have one outfit and when he saw it he told me that he wouldnt go anywhere with me and my dog if he had that outfit on... he aslo doesn't want me taking them on trips with us I love taking my babies places!!!

08-25-2008, 06:31 PM	#6
linsvs YT Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: maine Posts: 288	Gee thats to bad obviously hes not a Yorkie person.. Its sad that you arent allowed to enjoy your babies as much as you want to..

08-25-2008, 06:33 PM	#7
good_gurl63901 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Poplar Bluff, Mo Posts: 177	he wont let them sleep in our room, much less with us... I would love to do more with them!!

08-25-2008, 06:41 PM	#9
mscat Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Avenal, California Posts: 1,824	I think that this is a jealously issue with him. Hubby' s get like that when mom's have a first baby sometimes too. They want to be number one, and when a certain someone moves in on their territory , they behave like that..... Goodness, I have not been a member long myself, and well, um i have too many posts already, and my Suzi is my baby. Come in here and vent anytime you need to, we understand. I love my Suzi and this fourm too. I am sorry your hubby is behaving like that to you, maybe he could see what it is all about? __________________ "No matter how little money & how few possessions, you own, having a dog makes you rich."

08-25-2008, 06:43 PM	#10
emilyann Lovin' my Lillybug♥ Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Kentucky Posts: 1,547	Your DH seems a little harsh . I feel sorry for you having to put up with that. __________________ ♥ lovin' my lillybug ♥ so thankful for my little family happy thanksgiving!

08-25-2008, 06:45 PM	#12
good_gurl63901 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Poplar Bluff, Mo Posts: 177	he wont get on here he thinks we are all NUTS!! and i quote 'they are JUST dogs" I want to get another yorkie, but he gives me crap about the 2 i have, but i am the one home all day, and the one that does and pays for everything for my dogs...

08-25-2008, 06:53 PM	#13
Punkin&Piper Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 1,077	My girls dont sleep in the bed with us because we have a mastiff that doesnt know his size and when they are on the bed he takes it upon himself to come on up and snuggle right in... but we both would love for them to sleep in the bed..especially Piper (hubby says thats his baby& I heard him say his most favorite baby) __________________ Laura Punkin,Piper,Picasso,smokey & stormy's Mom

08-25-2008, 06:59 PM	#14
good_gurl63901 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Poplar Bluff, Mo Posts: 177	he thinks its weird that i call them my furbabies too lmao

08-25-2008, 07:03 PM	#15
Ines3185lyorkie Yorkies R Heaven Sent Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 580	I was just telling my hubby today you have your comic books I have my yorkies addiction. __________________ NINA TIGGER INES NIKKI1 in 150 children will have Autism