My Mother has been given 6 month to life.
 

Some of you and I hope at least a few of you may be wondering where I have been lately. Well I didn't fall off of the face of the earth or anything but I have been quite pre occupied with my mother and doctor after doctor coming and going.

After a very long and stressful three weeks in and out of the hospital with my 71 yr old mother after a heart attach than back with Pneumonia and Carbon monoxide poisoning on top of her being in the final stages of Emphysema. We though we were going to loose her, But not her.... she's too darn ornery to die. I guess it wasn't here time and I am so grateful to have today, tomorrow and the next day for as many weeks, months and hopefully years that god will allow her to be in our lives.

She's been home for over a week now with supervision and my mothers is doing much better. She is a bit less active than she was but she's getting there. She's home now on hospice care and not happy about it. She knows that she needs the help but doesn't agree that she needs to be on hospice care. I happen to agree but it wasn't my decision. The hospital was very persistent when asking about getting her home even if that meant hospice care. Its a lot to ask of everyone to give up of their own time so hospice care stepped in and is there for her for certain things like baths, suppling her oxygen, a bed and a bed side potty. She has so many family members and close friends that were there for her to show how much that she is loved. We have a great support system in place for the first few weeks who are staying with her during the days and at night if necessary. We are checking in on her and my 82 yr old step father.

She has been given a six months expectance to live out her life. It just wasn't her time to go, but when it is....my siblings and I are prepared. We all know what is expected of us and we plan to follow her wishes as asked (DNR). We know her time is limited and I expect to be there for her in any way that I can even if it means sacrificing my own families needs for the time being. I have to be the strong one, I have to be there for her up to her last days on this earth. I have to be because if I let myself think about it too often or dwell on the inevitable... I will crumble. I know that when she leaves us it wont be easy but it will end her year of suffering and will be for the best.

I know that she has been a gracious, respectful, strong and honest women who has always been there for others and when she goes knocking on heavens doors that she will be welcome with open arms.

It is comforting to me knowing that she will always be with me in Spirit!

oh dawn... i know it is sooo hard. I lost my mom a while back and it was so hard, but as you said I gave her love and took each day one step at a time.

I am praying for you ...(((( hugs))))

Dawn I am praying you, your Mom and your family. We are here for you.

Praying for your dear Mother and your family and you...

I'm so sorry to hear this about your mother's serious illness. It sounds like she has had a productive life, is being cared for well, being kept as comfortable as possible and has plenty of love and respect from her family; and I suppose when it comes time to say goodbye to one's life here, no one could ask for much more. I guess that is some comfort. Still, there is hardly anything more painful than losing one's mother and I know these months will be so hard for you. I am keeping your mother, you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Dawn i am so sorry, for me there was no one like my mother and i still miss her
I pray that God will ease the pain for you and family when he comes to take her home...Hugs

Sending prayers to you and your family Dawn.

Sorry to hear about your Mother, sending prayers to you and your entire family.

Sending prayers for your dear mother's comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yor family in this difficult time.

Sending prayers to you and your family.

Praying for you and your family!

Dawn I am so very sorry. I will remember you and your family in my prayers.

Dawn I'm sorry to hear of your mother's illness. When the Lord comes to wrap her in His Loving embrace to take her home, she will know she was loved and will be very much missed.
I pray for your peace, comfort and strength during this difficult time.
((Huggzz)) and prayers to you and your family.

Dawn, I am so very sorry to hear about your mother's illness. I pray for comfort and strength for your entire family in the coming days and weeks.

I am sorry to hear about your mom's illness. My thoughts and blessings go out to your mom and to you and your family at this time.

I am sorry to hear of your Mom's failing health. It is so difficult to watch our loved ones go through this. It sounds like she will be surrounded with love by family and friends. I had the privilege of taking care of both my parents and husband in their final time. Knowing you were there for them when they needed you most will help you deal with the inevitable. Look at each day you have with your Mom as a precious gift. I will keep you all in my prayers.

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. I will be keeping her and you family in my prayers. It's wonderful that she has such a great support group.

Dawn, I am keeping your Mom, you and your family in my prayers.

prayers and thoughts to you and your family and your mom! may she dance and sing among those who she longs to see again. wishing you the most cherished time in all the time you have left with your mother. hugs

So sorry to hear about your mom. I lost mine in 2004 and it still seems like just yesterday. Its hard but God will give you the strength you need. Just cherish each day you have left with her. God bless you.

Oh Dawn
 

I am so sorry to hear this :cry:

Take care of yourself

Gucci, Sophie, Dakota and new baby Cooper Mom 2

Your Mom, you and your family are in my prayers. My Mom went to Heaven just nine days ago ....my heart goes out to you.

Dawn, sending prayers for your mother and your family.

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I will be praying for your Mom and you and her family. I miss my Mom each and every day. Hugs to you.

Word for word, I could have written this....God Bless you and your family...I will say a prayer for you all...remember....stay strong and stay close.....

Dawn, I am so sorry to hear this... I'm glad you will be getting to spend some time with her. It's important to be there as much as possible in the end. I was able to be by my grandmother's bedside as she passed, and I will never regret getting to spend those last few hours with her.

I will be thinking about you and your family...

Prayers for you and your family!

Thinking about you and your family.....

I am so thankful for such caring and loving group of people. All of your kinds works and prayers are very much appreciated.

Thank You !

Dawn it is never, ever easy to lose a loved one. And knowing your time with your Mom is limited, doesn't make it easier....

My prayers and lots of healing light go out to you and your family in this time.