BabyFidgette | 01-23-2006 04:10 PM | Let's make a vow! Quote:
Originally Posted by red98vett For all you Nosy Nellies out there - That was Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :D
I want to thank Irene for being a woman about it and taking the time to talk to me and accept my apology for coming on a little strong....it was in a thread somewhere in this section.... ...Because we talked it over privately .....something that could possibly be uncomfortable will go NO further ....and I feel much better too :D |
Now THIS is the way to handle things...go Villette and Irene!!! I know from experience (not necesarily on YT, just in general) that if someone says or writes something to/about me that I don't think is right, I feel as though I have to stick up for myself in the same manner...whether it be written or spoken. If a person has a problem with you they should PM you, NOT publicly try to humiliate you by airing your dirty laundry for the whole YT world to see. But I can TOTALLY understand about trying to defend yourself on a thread if someone has belittled you to begin with. I try my HARDEST NOT to start any crap with anyone b/c I don't need that in my life. That's why everytime I say something that may possibly be thought of as nasty I'll put "LOL, or Not trying to be sarcastic" or something so that the readers will know I am not trying to be mean. We ALL have lots of opinions that are very different, and there is NO problem with expressing them, but we don't need to get nasty with each other. I sure wouldn't want a "clique" ganging up on me via YT, and I don't really know you people!! :D I don't think anyone likes to have enemies, I know I don't. But if someone doesn't like me, that's okay...you don't have to, but please don't try to make me (or anyone for that matter) look like an "a double s" because that's not nice, it hurts feelings, and it only makes the person look rude and disrespectful that things couldn't be resolved privately. So, I want to make a suggestion: let's all try to be nice to one another and express our opinions in a proper manner...and use more smileys and such so that people know that we're not trying to be mean. If everyone had the same opinions the world would be boring. I know that I love hearing everyone's opinions even if they don't match mine. That's okay, because I like to learn...but just because someone doesn't have the same opinion as you DOESN'T MAKE THEM WRONG OR A BAD PERSON. So, I will vow to be nice on YT, and if for some reason I don't like what someone says (meaning they hurt my feelings) I will PM them to state my concerns and not involve the whole YT world. Maybe I should start a new vow thread. What does everyone think? Oh, and if you don't like my idea...don't be mean to me please! :p Thanks!!! |