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twalla · 09-28-2007, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

LOL!...And I will cram those "special eggs" of hers where the sun don't shine....

Now we're talking!! Nothing like a lil friendly violence to work it out

jp4m2 · 09-28-2007, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by twalla

Now we're talking!! Nothing like a lil friendly violence to work it out

LOL!.... Come on now, mine was a going away present to her....

Chrissy0277 · 09-28-2007, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by twalla

Now we're talking!! Nothing like a lil friendly violence to work it out

Well at least all us women are thinking alike.
Like everyone else is saying something isnt right, trust your instincts.

Im not good at these things but.... Would it be a smart move to make him REMEMBER why they are divorced?

I would strangle Mike if his ex started hanging around, Im sure he would do the same to me if my ex started hanging around again.

Sounds like this woman needs a good old fashioned b***h slap

Bizzymammabee · 09-28-2007, 06:27 PM

You know what's funny is that I doubt very much that DH would like to hang out and be buddies with your ex.

Homegirl is definitely warming up to a good old fashioned a$$ whipping. I definitely wouldn't have patience for her or her friendship.

I totally agree that it's not good to have an ex around that is showing flirtatious behaviour. She will be just waiting to lend a shoulder or an ear and hope to open that door wider so she can enter and do more damage.

Holla if you want us to deliver a good a$$ whipping her way. I have no idea why some people have to be that way.

Lemme tell you I am damn sure if the shoe was on the other foot hubby would so not want your ex around.

Years back I ran into a high school boyfriend (nothing went further than a few kisses between us). He has taken over his dad's body shop business. Anyhow he gave me his card and said if we every needed any body work or a car towed to call him. I mentioned this to DH and oh boy did I see that demon light up in him. He clearly told me I rather pay a million dollars than take a discount from your ex. You can throw that card right in the garbage. Boy was I shocked. I asked him what did he have to worry about being as we have been together a million years while the ex had only gotten a kiss and never sampled any goodies

He just walked out the room.

So you can see how tolerant a man would be if the shoe was on the other foot. Mind you my ex is with a girl and has a child with her and all that good stuff. Hubby wasn't interested in a thing to do with him...lol

jp4m2 · 09-28-2007, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Bizzymammabee

Years back I ran into a high school boyfriend (nothing went further than a few kisses between us). He has taken over his dad's body shop business. Anyhow he gave me his card and said if we every needed any body work or a car towed to call him. I mentioned this to DH and oh boy did I see that demon light up in him. He clearly told me I rather pay a million dollars than take a discount from your ex. You can throw that card right in the garbage. Boy was I shocked. I asked him what did he have to worry about being as we have been together a million years while the ex had only gotten a kiss and never sampled any goodies

He just walked out the room.

LOL!!...AAWWW!!....Hubby still cares, isn't that sweet he was ready to dual it out for you!lol

PrestigeousYT · 09-28-2007, 06:39 PM

I think DH is being rude to you, to expect this is OK with you.
I think he needs a reality check. If it were me and my DH expected to have his EX around me no matter what the reason,he would soon have another EX to deal with, I have 2 EXs and both times I was the one who kicked them to the curb.

I am very happy today

He should be the one to say NO! This situation is not being respectful to you
Some men are slow, I would tell him one time exactly how you feel. Pretending to be OK with you will only escalate the problem
Deana
Prestigeous

love_me_cody · 09-28-2007, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by PrestigeousYT

I think DH is being rude to you, to expect this is OK with you.
I think he needs a reality check. If it were me and my DH expected to have his EX around me no matter what the reason,he would soon have another EX to deal with, I have 2 EXs and both times I was the one who kicked them to the curb.

I am very happy today

He should be the one to say NO! This situation is not being respectful to you
Some men are slow, I would tell him one time exactly how you feel. Pretending to be OK with you will only escalate the problem
Deana
Prestigeous

100% agree with you! You shouldn't even have had the chance to go through this s#!t. He should have realized that his ex and wife are totally different and will clash (if not out in the open then secretly, in their heads).

Chrissy0277 · 09-28-2007, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by love_me_cody

100% agree with you! You shouldn't even have had the chance to go through this s#!t. He should have realized that his ex and wife are totally different and will clash (if not out in the open then secretly, in their heads).

In a perfect world.. Sometimes men just dont think..
Well some of them think but not with their brains

I really hope this resolves without any problems.

jp4m2 · 09-28-2007, 06:53 PM

It is entirely possible he's having his ego stroked at his wifes expense....

twalla · 09-28-2007, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

It is entirely possible he's having his ego stroked at his wifes expense....

No way... a man would never do that... Say it isnt so!

jp4m2 · 09-28-2007, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by twalla

No way... a man would never do that... Say it isnt so!

It's every mans dream....one to fetch the beers and wash the skid marks and one to lay at his feet and fluff his pillows....

crystalsmom · 09-28-2007, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

It is entirely possible he's having his ego stroked at his wifes expense....

This is it in a nutshell.

Twalla, you are so funny

twalla · 09-28-2007, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

It's every mans dream....one to fetch the beers and wash the skid marks and one to lay at his feet and fluff his pillows....

A lot of men are pigs

jp4m2 · 09-28-2007, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by twalla

A lot of men are pigs

Well you don't have to marry them to get a little sausage

....

zoeybear · 09-28-2007, 07:17 PM

The real question is not what Hubby or E are thinking. The real question is what is SHE thinking? Why would she want to be around an ex and his new wife? What an awkward situation. Sounds like she is trouble to me. Time to stop worrying about everyone else's feelings, because they are obviously not worried about yours!!!

09-28-2007, 06:27 PM	#19
Bizzymammabee Luvs Lulu Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Queens, NY Posts: 6,931 Blog Entries: 1	You know what's funny is that I doubt very much that DH would like to hang out and be buddies with your ex. Homegirl is definitely warming up to a good old fashioned a$$ whipping. I definitely wouldn't have patience for her or her friendship. I totally agree that it's not good to have an ex around that is showing flirtatious behaviour. She will be just waiting to lend a shoulder or an ear and hope to open that door wider so she can enter and do more damage. Holla if you want us to deliver a good a$$ whipping her way. I have no idea why some people have to be that way. Lemme tell you I am damn sure if the shoe was on the other foot hubby would so not want your ex around. Years back I ran into a high school boyfriend (nothing went further than a few kisses between us). He has taken over his dad's body shop business. Anyhow he gave me his card and said if we every needed any body work or a car towed to call him. I mentioned this to DH and oh boy did I see that demon light up in him. He clearly told me I rather pay a million dollars than take a discount from your ex. You can throw that card right in the garbage. Boy was I shocked. I asked him what did he have to worry about being as we have been together a million years while the ex had only gotten a kiss and never sampled any goodies He just walked out the room. So you can see how tolerant a man would be if the shoe was on the other foot. Mind you my ex is with a girl and has a child with her and all that good stuff. Hubby wasn't interested in a thing to do with him...lol __________________ Lulu will always be in my heart

09-28-2007, 06:53 PM	#24
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys Posts: 5,056	It is entirely possible he's having his ego stroked at his wifes expense.... __________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J. Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too..

09-28-2007, 07:17 PM	#30
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	The real question is not what Hubby or E are thinking. The real question is what is SHE thinking? Why would she want to be around an ex and his new wife? What an awkward situation. Sounds like she is trouble to me. Time to stop worrying about everyone else's feelings, because they are obviously not worried about yours!!! __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

09-28-2007, 06:39 PM	#21
PrestigeousYT YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Somewhere Out there............ Posts: 1,742	I think DH is being rude to you, to expect this is OK with you. I think he needs a reality check. If it were me and my DH expected to have his EX around me no matter what the reason,he would soon have another EX to deal with, I have 2 EXs and both times I was the one who kicked them to the curb. I am very happy today He should be the one to say NO! This situation is not being respectful to you Some men are slow, I would tell him one time exactly how you feel. Pretending to be OK with you will only escalate the problem Deana Prestigeous