Im going to be single forever!!!
 

Why is it that EVERY single man I go out with turns into a jerk? Either they lie to me about themselves, their feelings towards me, what theyre looking for. I dont get it.....im not a terrible person. I am an intelligent, attractive, funn compassionate woman....but all I get is jerks. Every time I think its different it just turns into the same thing over and over. Im seriously at the point of giving up. After my last break up I said that if I get hurt again thats it - im never dating again. So I guess thats it.....25 and going to be alone forever. How pathetic is that??

At least you realize that they are jerks and leave them alone!! You'll find the right one when you least expect it! ;)

Hon your not going to be alone forever. It really does seem to happen when you least expect it. Enjoy yourself, hobbies, friends, family etc and don't dwell on it. There is definitely someone out there for everyone. Your young yet to start worrying.

I guess im just impatient...but it does seem like guys my age are just looking for one thing...

My 22 year old dtrs last BF turned out to be a big jerk after 3 1/2 years togther and that has been 2 1/2 years ago and she hasn't found a single decent person to even date.

Your lucky that you find these things out "before" your married. You shouldn't be "looking" for a life-long mate. Just have fun being single. Being single isn't so bad. Living with someone is the hardest job you will ever have, so don't rush into it. ;)

You will really find the right person when you least expect it...When you stop looking, it will happen :)

not married
 

I dont think its pathetic!!!! I am 48 and never been married. Yep, I met all the jerks too. But please dont think you have to be married to define yourself!!!!!!!! Just be yourself, do what interests you, dont wait around for ANY man!!!!!! Follow your own dreams. If one is truely interested in you, he will wait for you. Hope that helps a little!!!Lynn

It really does. Thank you! It's just very frustrating, I know having a man does not define me, but it would still be nice to have a close relationship with someone...besides Buster :)

Seriously she's right! Don't wait around for any man, they will def. take notice that you are looking for someone. It's when you are not looking and don't give a care that they take notice in you and actually want to work hard to get you, so have fun, take some dance classes just for fun, go swimming, idk do whatever, just have fun! :)

not married
 

The more I am around men, the better I love my Yorkies!!!!LOL Yes, its frustrating and lonely sometimes. I want to marry a truck driver. They are gone most of the time and they send the paycheck home!!!!LOL Good luck, and dont be in a hurry!!!!!

I'm now 26 and I DON'T date guys my age. I find 5 years and above my age to be most appealing...give it a go! ;)

oh, i long for the single days sometimes. It was so nice to be able to make decisions on my own...and just to be able to drive without a "back seat driver". i could go on and on and on.

but then again...I remember how lonely I was for those 4 years. I longed for someone to ask me how my day was when I got home. I longed to have someone take care of me when I was sick.

I have those things now...but the "how was your day" is usually followed up with "well, this is how you could make it better", or, "this is what you did wrong". and when I'm sick...yes, he will bring me what he thinks will make me feel better...and I get my head rubbed when I have a headache...but I still don't get rest. I am still bothered to no end when I try and stay in bed when I am sick "Honey, where is this..." "Honey....Maggie did this..."

sheesh...it's late and I'm in a cranky mood...maybe I shouldn't respond to threads like this...I get on a kick where i convince myself I should not have gotten married LOL

but I do understand where you are coming from. I clearly remember those days. I hope you find exactly what you are looking for. My only advice...DON'T SETTLE. keep going until you find EXACTLY what you are looking for :)

Stop looking and the right one will find you. I'd rather be alone at 25 then with some jerk, and 4 kids.

4? How about just ONE and a jerk? ha ha