I've been checking the posts regularly, waiting to hear from you. I was so excited to see you'd posted.

Be kind to yourself, do what you need to do. We'll all be waiting for your wonderful humor and kindness.

Hugs!
Jacki
Harry, Chloe & Darla

Glad to see you were finally able to post...do you know how much you have been missed on here...I know about the sleeping habits but I will for once keep my mouth shut:rolleyes: I love you girl, and miss you on here so much, but I know how hard it is for you, I will be talking to you soon...give those girls a big kiss & hug from me...and give yourself a big hug, your in my thoughts V...:)

V...First and foremost take care, it is never easy to lose one that we love...time helps, but it is so very hard. At first it seems as though, it's not real...like maybe it's just a terrible dream. But as time goes by, the reality does set in, I think that is the hardest thing to deal with. I remember what my father told me on his death bed...he said "Life is for the living, do not dwell on my death, I want you to live your life as I have lived mine". That is exactly what you must do...you must live your life and try not to dwell on your husbands death. Remember him yes, always...as he was, while living his life. And the fond memories that you shared will forever be part of that life.
Wish that there was more we could do to help you through this rough spot...but just knowing you have us, your friends to turn to any time you may need us, I hope comforts you in some way. You still have a whole lot of love to share...and many friends that truly care. Hugs to you Villette...take care.

Oh V, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I haven't been on much at all and never saw the post. I am glad to hear you are doing better and am sending prayers your way.

HI! Just take one day at a time, someday you will only remember the good warm memories. Please know that we are all here for you! Take good care of yourself.

Ohhh V we are all thinking about you thru this tough time and always cause we all love you! Please, and i don't know what is going on but don't let anyone's bad intentions and words get to you. Only God knows why they do those things, it's sad really. We all love you and praying for you. :love:
Sarah

I'm glad your back and posting! It's good to see you back. I hope your doing O.K and hanging in there. Remember, were all here for you!

Hey Vee! Glad to hear from ya! Hope you are taking care of yourself. We are here for ya if you need anything!

HUGS!

Hi Villette..

Its good to see your post...you are surely missed on YT...rarely do I read a thread without you posting on it and not seeing that has been strange..you are a kind wonderful person and I cant imagine being in your shoes right now but you have us to lean on when times get tough..so nice to hear the girls have been there for you as I knew they would be...our furkids are a good source of comfort and joy..take care and hope to see you back on here regularly in the next little while...

Dawn

It's good to hear from you. I think of you daily and keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Hi Villette

I am so happy you posted. When I read the post I cried of happiness that you are back and of sadness that you are hurting. Make sure you get lots of sleep and take time for yourself. You need to be strong for you and for the girls. We are always thinking about you and we keep sending our prayers
Maria and the babies

V we all love you, and I'm sorry if someone upset you. This is a time for everyone to pull together for you. Love you, and hope time helps you heal. You're in my prayers.

Villette it is nice to see you on here. I hope you continue to heal. If you need anything let me know I am continuing to pray for you

you can do this ... as hard as it seems ...
 

As with any loss, you don’t really get over it. You get through it and assimilate the experience, so that the life and death of the one you love becomes part of your life story—part of what makes you uniquely you.

You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. May G-d's loving hand touch you and give you comfort through the days ahead.

It may seem as if this hurt will last forever, but you will get through it although you will never get over it.
Take it one day at a time ... just baby steps. And the less you dwell on it publicly, the easier it will be.
I believe I was quite a bit younger than you when this happened 5 years ago, and I felt so alone ... the loneliness was the saddest part, I missed him so much. Think of all the "fun" times ... it will help ...

I used to cry while the dentist was examining my teeth ... especially if a song came on that reminded me of my sweet husband.:cry:

all my love goes your way ... and you are right, cherish what we have while we have it ...

Life is precious. So is yours.

Vilette- I am glad to see you on here again. I am sure the last couple weeks have been very difficult for you- I can't even imagine. I am here if you just need someone to simply listen. You are still in my thoughts and prayers everyday!

Villette it's so nice to see you back. I can totally relate to how you are feeling right now, I think. I lost my baby sister last year and now, when I think back on those days and weeks following, it just all seems like a dream. The memories are not crisp and clear like most memories, it's all a fog from the time the doctors said there was nothing more to do until she passed away a week later and even after that for a couple of months. I didn't realize how much I was going thru life just keeping busy. It is a little easier now although I still miss her like crazy. It's like a yearning to see her and talk to her and I still have things happen and I think, I have to call Krissy and tell her and then I realize I can't. I also had so many dreams about her. Dreams like she was still alive and I would wake up crying. And sometimes I had those dreams and felt like she was there with me. Like there was an invisible thread and I could talk to her in the dreams. I like to think I could and that does give me comfort. And I do think that her life is a reminder to us all that life is short and we should never ever take it for granted. I know she would not have traded her life for anything even if it did only last 32 years. I think it was a full and mostly happy life and for that I am grateful. I wish I could offer you the perfect words that would make everything better but I haven't found them yet so I just will wish you the best and take care. Theresa

Oh, honey, it's so great to *hear* your voice. Anything I could say right now would sound like a cliche. But, having lost my mom to cancer when I was 21 (and after taking care of her), I came to realize SOME of those darn cliches are true. It DOES get easier - but I know that doesn't MAKE it any easier.

I just wish you some precious moments, some snippets, of serenity and peace - just a glimpse of some healing. I'm thinking of you, my friend.

Hugs,
Ann

SO great to "hear your voice" again. I'm sure anyone who thinks they are strong enough to handle something like this on their own would no doubt get proven wrong. That's what friends and family are for.... to lean on. Do not feel guilty for that. I'm so glad you've found someone to keep the girls while you're gone. Of course they'll miss you and you them but they'll be in very capable hands so that you have one less thing to worry about. Keep strong but don't put too much pressure on yourself. Keeping busy is a nice distraction but take care of yourself also! Love you, V!

Vee - we all love and miss you and just know that you have many, many friends here on YT to help you through all this - even though many of us do not live near you (hahaha...maybe that's a good thing - you would get sick of all of us coming over)...we are an email, phone call, PM away if you ever need anything.

HI V, Its wondeful to hear from you, I think and pray for you daily, i have lost many close loved ones, so i do know how you feel, They say time heals, please take care of yourself, we all miss and love you,:hug: hugs to you and your babies.

Villette - I'm so looking forward to meeting you too. I've enjoyed our phone conversations tremendously!!! Keep doing what you've been doing and you'll get through this. I have faith in you and in the universe - everything will work out and we'll always be there for you. Love ya girl!

Villette, I am fairly new here and I alway's liked your post, you are very funny in most of them! I had posted once and you were nice to respond, I thought your girls were some of the most prettiest Yorkies I have ever seen!! I was sad to hear what you have been through recently. I could not imagine what you are going through right now. You have been in my prayers. Take care of yourself and get the rest you need. Sending my prayers and love your way, Brandy.

I know I don't post much, but I always enjoy reading your posts. I can always count on a good laugh and I've missed not seeing you on YT. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, I know you are a strong lady and will get through this and in the meantime, my thoughts are with you.

V , its wonderful to hear from you .

Villette, I am so sorry to hear of your loss :( Your posts (and everyone elses) brought tears to my eyes. I hope time helps you heal the pain you are going through right now...hugs & prayers from us

V - I can't tell you how happy it made me to see your post this morning:) Your caring personality and wit has been sorely missed.

I think of you often and have been praying for you constantly because I know what you're going thru:(

Take care of yourself!!

Lucy and Rebel send big sloppy kisses:)

Villette, love & :aimeeyork hugs & lots of smooches from the kids.

V I'm sorry it is taking so long to get all the arrangements taken care of. that has to be difficult. You can't go on with your life until all of this is taken care of. I cannot even imagine what you are going through.

You are in my thoughts constantly.

Good to see you post V ! Keep it coming, as you can see you are very much missed ! Kiss the Girls for us ! Hugs

V, it's nice to hear from you. Your not giving yourself enough credit
for all your going through. You are strong, give yourself credit for it.
Having to wait so long for closure must be very difficult but you are,
in your own way,dealing with that. Hence, the spotless house.:p
See my friend, you can do it. One day at a time V. One day at a time.
Again, I am here if I can do anything at all for you. Your in my
thoughts and prayer's daily.


Hugs.