Message from Villette....
 

Hi All....

Spoke with Villette this morning and she asked me to post this thread.

She is having phone problems and is going to get a new phone this morning.

I guess people have been trying to call and can't get through so hopefully now they can.

Kim

Thanks for letting us know! :D

Is there a way to get her new phone number, or would she prefer to just be left alone right now?

Thanks for letting us know she is okay. :)

Thanks so much. I've been worried that I haven't been able to get through!!

Thanks for the update. I have been worried about her

awwww that poor sweet woman. this is the last thing she needs. i hope she is coping with this as well as she can.

I am so glad to get an update! I've been so worried...............

Thanks for the update - good that you were able to talk to her...

:thumbup: Thanks for the update!!!!

Thank you for the update. I hope she's doing the best she can at this time.
I continue to pray for her to be strong and go forward with her life.
I know she's a strong lady.

thanks for the update :thumbup:

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Thanks so much...if she is just buying a new phone, I doubt she will change her number...

Thanks for the update!

I had a very long conversation with Villette just before lunch time. She was leaving after we spoke to go to Walmart to get new phones. It seems like everything is breaking in this past week - her keyboard is shot, too!!

She is doing much better than the last time we spoke. She is keeping herself busy doing a deep cleaning of the house, particularly using products and getting into areas she wasn't able to when caring for Leonard. She is also using the cleaning to go through and determine what items she will put into a garage sale. She wants to stay in the house as long as she can and hopefully she will be able to find a job soon that will make this doable for her.

The funeral arrangements have been made, and although I don't know the details yet, I do know she will be flying to MI on Saturday 9/8. I have offered to pick her up from the airport and transport her to her inlaws (or she may spend Saturday night with me and I'll take her there on Sunday). Still have some specifics to work out, but she was definitely liking that idea.

Villette is a strong woman, but she still needs all our thoughts and prayers. If anyone would like to order notecards, address labels or anything else - please keep Villette in mind. She can really use the income!!!!

Thank you Jodie. You're such a wonderful person. When you see V, please give her a BIG HUG from me.

me too

Jodie,Like I said before you have a big heart and it is awesome that you are reaching out to Villette.I'm going to order some labels this week sometime. C'mon everyone let's help V.:cheer: :cheer: :woof: :ghug:

oh wow, I haven't been on for a long time, but I remember Villette and how sweet she is and I know her husband wasn't well i didn't realize he had passed...................

I def. going to need Xmas cards as soon as i can get a decent pic of my 2 !

I was just wondering if V has been back to YT. I miss seeing her here. Thanks for keeping us posted.

Thanks for the update. Give her my love. I will be ordering from her soon too.

"Thank You " Kim & Jodie for the update on V.

Than you thank you thank you thank you thank you everyone and Kim for posting this !

(this is long SORRY !!) Thank you for the wonderful cards- the nice gifts & the many phone calls - even the ones I missed and so truyly appreciated - more than you'll ever know. I really REALLY miss my husband. I thought there would be some 'relief' knowing he isn't suffering anymore but I just plain Miss him:( :( it's so very quiet and lonely now

Anyway - I'm keeping notes and will personally get back to all of you. I THINK I fixedmy phones and do have a cell if anyone needs it - Was up till 2 am trying and ended up with working phones but then put my my ty out in the process LOL - I was so tired I didn't care so - no tv -and on and off phones ...

Sissy is right - when it rains it pours. I'm hoping the company will work with me as I have many many complaints in about my digital phones

And she's right about how busy I've been - I HAD to stay busy or I'd have just curled up crying - I was pacing and couldn't sleep or eat so I figured cleaning is always a cure for that king of thing plus... Knowing there would be no $$ I have to move fast, The cost of apartments isn't much lower than my house rent so if we could stay here I'd be estatic - The Girls are missing their dad but mostly ok - It's Tessa my cocker I'm worried about. She's just devesated poor girl.

So - since I can't 'talk' to each of you - I'll start a thread and update everyone that way. I feel I can do it soon but do apologise - I had too hard of a time reading the other ones - I kept cryin then couldn't see the words.

Linda (fufu Fashions) was nice enough to print them all out for me when she came over.... I think my girls fell in love with you:) - Thank you so much for the food :thumbup: :thumbup: I know I was a terrible patient and think it's lack of sleep that's keeping me from eating but I'm trying-

Joan - I NEED THOSE ORTHOPEDIC Socks and Shoes now :( ask me how I sprained my ankle that now looks like it's 5 times bigger than my other one) and a Thank You to Fred for rushing me a keyboard and ciggies - that was so thoughtful

and Jamie (Yorkiecrazy) and Kelly - THANK YOU BOTH FOR COMING BY too !!! I don't have much time today - still working on Funeral arrangements with his family & I will be flying to Michigan aroung the 8th....Its so awesome - I've only met a few of them but they've welcomed me like they've known me for years from the day we got married. None of us can believe he's really gone :(

PART II to Follow and BIG HUGS to all of you !!

Villette, it's so nice to see you posting. Hang in there girl and do what
you have to do to move forward. I know you can do it. I am here for
you if need be. It's a very stressfull time for you, I know but it was
certainly nice of you to stop by and say hi and let us know your doing
ok. Please take care of yourself. Hugs to all.

Wow, Villette, it's so good to see you posting!!! Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. Take care of yourself!!

Vee, it's so nice to see your doing ok...thanks for popping in for the update....looking forward to your return as is everyone else.....

OH V, BIG HUGS to you!!! You are a rock! So strong and I pray everyday for you to keep that positive attitude and strength of character you have. My thoughts are with you. :)

After a while (I have this hanging in my house) - Veronica Shoffstall

After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn
that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman, not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn...


(((HUGS))) V! :)

oh V, so glad you are posting,i bet you do miss your husband, but i bet he will allways be with you in your heart. Staying busy is good. Just dont forget about YOU ! Many hugs girl and give those girls lots of kisses from us, specialy Tessa !

Villette my heart goes out to you, with tears in my eyes, i can feel your pain just reading your post, i wish i could give you a big hug, maybe i will see you in michigan,,,,,,,,,,, hugs to you i pray that you stay strong,,,,