Kathryn_V a Flake?
 

I have had my character attacked countless times over the last 9-10 months and my only defense has been that "I have some personal issues that I cant get into" I am sick of saying that.... While a select few have been given a generic idea of what's going on, the rest of you (I'm speaking to the folks who know me long term, not the new folks who I'm sure will be very confused when reading this) have no clue. The ignorant comments made and the judgments cast without any knowledge of my personal life or circumstances are both callous and a reflection of your own character.

I went through some very personal issues, most of you remember that. As things were looking up for me.......

I was in a car accident, it was in November of 06. Many of you may remember this. A father of a student Rushing to pick up his child from school hit me. I suffered some internal abdominal injuries and spent a few days in the hospital. I have not been the same since..

This is the reason I have not been the same.

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Every month or two it comes up for jury trial and I am a wreck! Then it is postponed... I am an even bigger wreck! Then it comes up again and I am a ball of nerves and I am again a wreck and I get served that subpoena and then it gets postponed again! Its a vicious cycle that I am caught in, and it seems never ending!

It was postponed AGAIN last week. I am angry, I am scared, I am hurt, I am everything you can't even imagine!

Its pushed out 2 months this time! 2 more months he gets to walk the streets! 2 more months I live in fear! 2 more months I wait for justice!

I'm not the same folks... I don't know when I will be... but I'm trying. So please don't pass judgement when I write an off post, it may just be my way of coping with another twist in this whole situation.

No replies are necessary here... I just wanted to set the record straight, I'm tired of writing "I am going through some personal things right now" My name is a matter of public record now since I testified in the pre-trial so I'm no longer Jane Doe. But really I'm not supposed to talk about it, per my lawyer, so please don't ask questions.... Just know that I really do have personal issues going on...

OMG Kathryn!! I didn't know! I remember your accident but I never knew this terrible, unspeakable thing happened to you!

I am soo sorry! what a horrible piece of lard! Can you maybe go to a higher court and try your case there?

You don't have to defend yourself to anyone here! You don't owe anyone that! We (the members that know you) know you're a sweet, kind person!!

I hope this will all be over for you soon!

I will be praying for you

Your accident was all I knew about. I found you to be a very outgoing, funny, sympathetic, and sweet young lady. I'm so very sorry this despicable act from such a sick monster has caused you so much physical and emotional pain. When this freak does get put away, he's going to suffer the same horrible, painful fate as he gave. But his is going to last much much longer!
You will be in my prayers. :hug:

Hon I didn't know the extent of your current turmoil. Sending you prayers and lots of hugs your way. Hopefully that animal gets put away soon so he can't hurt anyone again.

You are in my prayers. How horrible for you to have to go thru this.

Hugs girl - don't let things get to you - you're a strong woman - you can do it......Jerks like that are cowards....concentrate on what'll happen to HIM when he's convicted and hopefully that'll help you get thru it.

OMG, I'm so sorry for all that you are going through. I don't know you but I just wanted to lend my support to you through this horrible ordeal.

Hang Tough, my Friend
 

Kat, please be strong. You have an army of people Praying for you. Sending hugs :ghug:

Prayer going up for you Kathryn. No one should have to go thru what you did and no one should have to live in fear.

i read that thread you were referring to where people were assuming things and it made me ill. I've only known you as pleaseant and helpful and SO fast with getting your products out. it's too bad that they can post such things on here and you have to go into personal details in order to defend yourself. I'll be praying for you. i hope the trial comes fast and is over with and justice is served.

I'm sorry you feel bad. I don't know you, but want you to know that I am glad you're posting.

:ghug: Hugs to you!

i'm sorry with everything that's going on. i don't know you personally either, but sending prayers your way. :)

No, no, no... I am not concerned about that thread... I am ok with that, she had every right to express her concerns as a customer. And I was very happy to see the support of all of the people who did post! It was very heart warming.

Seeing Shanas post is what drove me to post this. Over the months I have bit my tongue on numerous occasions and it has taken every ounce of restrain in me to do so. The "if they only know what I had on my plate" thoughts were so very overwhelming!

I just didn't want to have to use that BS line any more "personal bla bla bla"

Bottom line... I feel so much better not having to explain myself... I have a ton of S%@T on my plate right now. I'm not ok... I'm not the same... I'm a bit off.... But I'm dealing with it. :)





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Kathryn, you have had to go thru so much this past year. Be strong and hang in there. Our prayers are with you.