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aka_yorkie_mama 07-19-2007 08:17 AM
a little lost
 
im a little lost right now everyone is asleep in the house and my grandma just passed away ...i knew it was comming i had her in hospice ...Countrygirl and her family made room for me and all my fur babies so i could be close to grandma at the end. and im hiding on YT and cant belive i wasnt with her at the end i dont want to do the funeral home but im it just me ...its so odd when i was 24 i moved my grandma in with me and took care of her i have been acting like this was part of life and prayed for her suffering to end and now im crying and hiding im 32 wish i had someone to hold my hand through this s**t ... ok nuff said im gonna go hide in puppy love

Zeus' Mom 07-19-2007 08:19 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

chloeandj 07-19-2007 08:26 AM
Oh Jamie, I'm so sorry for your loss:(

cheryl000 07-19-2007 08:31 AM
I'm so sorry. I'm sure that your grandmother enjoyed spending so much time with you.

medusa512 07-19-2007 08:36 AM
i'm sorry that you're hurting.
when my grandfather passed away recently (feb) i felt like you do. but i'm the person that made sure everyone else was ok. my mom, my sisters, even my aunts. i had a few tiny moments with my husband where i couldn't hold it in anymore. and finally about a month later i let all the crying out.

i still have moments now where i am doing something that makes me think of him or memories we have (had) together and it stops me in my tracks.

i will say that i don't know what to say to comfort you--and that is what i can offer. it made me so mad when people would say, "meant to be" or "in god's hands." they say that because they don't know what else to say.

if you want to be left alone or in peace, then you hide. and when you are strong enough and ready to be with someone, then you decide when that will be.

*thinking of you*
tina

mizzwanned 07-19-2007 08:41 AM
I'm sorry about your grandma :( I know what you mean about feeling lost, there are some times that I feel like that too

Yorkiedaze 07-19-2007 09:36 AM
I know exactly how you feel. My grandparents raised me, and when they passed it was horrible. The pain will get better, and your grandmother has not left you. She will pop in from time to time to see how your doing. She would be really sad and hurt if you grieve too much, so just be happy that she is in such a beautiful wonderful place and is young once again.

nvnvgirl 07-19-2007 10:50 AM
My condolences to you at such a hard time in your life. It's funny how sometimes, we want our Mommy or Daddy there to hold our hand and tell us everything will be ok....no matter how old we get.
But your grandma is not suffering anymore and she knew that you loved her. Think of all the wonderful experiences you two shared and how lucky you are for having had her in your life; and how lucky she was to have you in hers. I'm sure she loved you very much. May she rest in peace.

Bizzymammabee 07-19-2007 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted by aka_yorkie_mama (Post 1245817)
im a little lost right now everyone is asleep in the house and my grandma just passed away ...i knew it was comming i had her in hospice ...Countrygirl and her family made room for me and all my fur babies so i could be close to grandma at the end. and im hiding on YT and cant belive i wasnt with her at the end i dont want to do the funeral home but im it just me ...its so odd when i was 24 i moved my grandma in with me and took care of her i have been acting like this was part of life and prayed for her suffering to end and now im crying and hiding im 32 wish i had someone to hold my hand through this s**t ... ok nuff said im gonna go hide in puppy love
My condolences on grandma. Hon listen we all have to deal with loss how we can...so if a bit of avoidance right this minute helps then so be it. Your grandma knows how much you loved her because you cared for her while she was sick. She knows what is in your heart and won't be mad at you for needing to cope however you can.

Hugs to you and my condolences to your family as well.

babi1542 07-19-2007 11:16 AM
I am so sorry about the loss of your grandmother. My prayers and thoughts are with you!

Breny 07-19-2007 11:18 AM
I'm so sorry, and I'm sorry you feel alone. We will be here for you to hold your hand, just remember that. My prayers to you and your family.

IluvLucy 07-19-2007 11:20 AM
I'm so sorry for the loss of your grandmother.

Yorkie3 07-19-2007 11:23 AM
My deepest condolences on your loss.

Little Bit 07-19-2007 12:06 PM
I am so sorry you lost your grandmother and are feeling so alone right now. You will be in my prayers that you will feel His comforting arms around you to get you through this. Please know that we care about you and you are never alone.

KELLY353 07-19-2007 12:24 PM
Jamie, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandma. I know she will be deeply missed. It's so hard. I lost my only grandma I've ever known 3 years ago while my husband was in Iraq. When I got the phone call that time was near the end for grandma it was New Years day and also the day my landed in Kuwait to begin his tour. I felt so sick. In fact the other day I almost tried to call her. It's still so very hard to this day. Just take it a day at a time. I'm thinking about you with deepest sympathy and you are in my thought and prayers.


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