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Congrats to you and your DIL - I bet you are all so excited!! :thumbup: |
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Although I have confided in my older sister in Hawaii and you are right - she has been so great to talk to and supportive. :) |
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Caren - I hope that the Dr. can get you on the path you desire quickly. When my hubby and I were first trying to concieve, I also had very irregular periods. It was impossible to know when I was ovluating. After 9 months of no luck, I missed a period for long enough to think I might possibly be pregnant, despite having no symptoms and a negative pregnancy test. The day before my first OB/GYN appointment, I had a very strange "period" with lots of cramping and a fist-sized clot that looked like it had straw sticking out of it. Once that happened, the "period" stopped. I believe I had a miscarriage though the OB/GYN who was a brand new doctor for me did not agree. I was very frustrated and decided this doctor was not the one for me. When I then missed the next period and again had no pregnancy symptoms and a negative pregnancy test, I made an appointment with an OB/GYN that came highly recommended. His nurse listened to my story and thought perhaps there was a hormone imbalance, so I felt at least they might be able to find some answers. Well, it turns out that he did think I had a miscarriage and then conceived immediately after. My son was born on the due date given to us by the ultrasound. I hope your journey turns out well for you. |
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Wow Jodie...that is quite a journey you and your hubby had. But great news you could have a son!! :) I am hoping things turn out the best for me and my hubby. I know it is still very soon, I just thought all these years to take BC pills so I did not get pregnant and now that I want to get pregnant I can't - funny how life works, huh? :rolleyes: I will try to keep the stress down and just not think about it and I know God has my best interest at heart! Thanks for all your kind words!! ;) |
As someone who has had "woman" problems basically since I was 16 (I'm 26), the most important thing to do is find a doctor you trust. I have seen doctors who didn't believe I was in pain, who told me to take an advil and get over it. I've seen doctors who just looked at me and told me that pain is "normal for you". You have to understand that YOU know your body and your doctor is NOT always right. When I was 16 my doctor actually told my mom I was MAKING UP the pain. WTF? And it went downhill from there. I finally went to a surgeon who agreed we needed to look inside before another doctor put me on some awful injection for endometriosis (Which I don't have! But he did find the cause of 90% of my pain!) I'm SO GLAD I did that. When I went back to the doctor with another problem, she just shrugged! Like, oh well we've done all we can. I finally, finally - 6 doctors and 10 years after this all started have found a wonderful doctor who listens and doesn't think pain is normal. She's already helped me more than any of the other doctors have. We've never tried to get pregnant, but I won't be surprised if we have problems. I'm only sharing this to urge you to find a GOOD doctor, and don't wait. They are out there, they are just hard to find. REALLY hard to find. But finding the right one is so helpful. Good luck. |
I'm so sorry you are going through this...... I have a friend who tried for over a 1 yr to get preg. well she got sooo worked up and I'm not sure why this happens but once she kinda decided to take a break...then BOOM...she was preg. Its weird, but I know a lot of people and it happens that way. Maybe you are getting your body stressed out too much for it to happen. Seeing a doctor is your best bet. They too thought they might have to use fertilitiy place which was expensive, but turns out they now have a healthy baby boy who is 6 months old. Just see the doctor and see what he says. In the mean time try to relax as much as possible. or you can make love then stand on your head....to get those suckers to swim down...lol lol lol ( I really have heard of people doing this) You might look funny butt naked standing on your head but I'd try it...lol :) :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: I'll be praying for you!!! |
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I can just see that now....me standing on my head and my husband thinking I have REALLY lost it now!! OH MY!!!! :lol tears :eyetearss Thanks girl for making me laugh!! |
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Please don't think I'm making light of your situation. Was just trying to make you laugh! As they say...Laugher is the best medicine. |
Oh Caren I am so very excited for you . . .am sure there are more than a few ways to get pregnant without getting into those fertility medicines. Of course I am no expert though. Hope all goes well with the doctor and keep us posted as to what he recommends :) I had been trying too for the longest time but finally gave up :rolleyes: Even hubby no longer wants to start all over :p But I have at least been blessed with a wonderful daughter. I know you will be a great MOM someday soon. Hugs and Kisses from us :animal-pa |
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I agree.....I am trying to stay stress free so it was all in good humor and I needed it!! Thanks girl! :D |
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Awh...Thanks Des - you are always so kind - I love ya girl!! So when did you and hubby decide not to try any longer? Your daughter is in collge now right? You really would be starting all over - how much fun though!! :D |
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