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having a hard time with YT lately I am not someone who goes looking for the threads full of debate and controversy... i just try my best to give the best advice that i know... just to help someone out like so many on here have done for me. But lately i've found that in giving my well-meaning advice, people are attacking me on it... when i read these posts my heart drops and it makes me not want to be on here anymore... it only takes a few to ruin it. I'm just so sad that all i'm doing is try to help and some people just can't see that. it is totally ok to not agree with what i think, but i just feel there is a polite and nice way to go about that.... maybe i'l just browse more and keep my opinions to myself |
Please don't keep your opinions to yourself when it comes to me!!!! I LOVE your posts....... |
Don't let a few ruin it all for everyone. I have seen it too where someone comes on and asks for advice and when someone gives it, they proceed to lay into them for it. Alot of times I feel like I am done with YT too but then I start to think why should I let someone spoil something I enjoy. I like good controversies and debates and it always seems like someone has to take offense and get P.O'd and then the thread gets ugly. Just ignore it and stick around. |
Oh please don't stop posting. I know some can be rude and obnoxious, but we love you!! Don't leave!! You can always report a post if it's unacceptable. The admin will review it and I believe they will suspend for too many nasty posts. I'm so sorry you're getting attacked. I know you are just trying to help people and it sucks when people shoot you down. Don't be discouraged, keep your head up and ignore those people. Whoever started the stilled enjoyed your help even though some broke in and weren't nice. Hugs to you!! :hug: |
What your feeling many of us have felt also so your not alone. Hang in there because I enjoy your posts and glad to have you be a YT friend. |
I can't thank you enough for all of the help you've given to me and Gizzy! Never stop posting. :) |
I do agree with you. That's why I tend to keep to myself and browse a lot. It just makes it just that much easier so my feelings dont get hurt. Some people are so harsh. Anyways, I will keep my mouth shut, because I could go on and on about that. I think you and Layla are awesome, I love reading your threads and posts! You two are just the cutest little pair :) |
Please don't stop posting. I love seeing and hearing about Layla. |
Aw, don't let some of the world seeping in drive you away! That would be wrong.:( We're trying to close a thread now because that's the direction it's going. Not that it's unwarranted ... when you read the title you just know it's going to be one that is going to go downhill quick. Luckily, I think several of us are in agreement that the culprit in this case is someone recently banned. Here's hoping! |
I agree with everyone else...I love to hear about you and Layla! I think your advice is right on point! I just got *pulled* into a thread that turned ugly and now I wish I had never gone there! I know most everyone here at YT is honest and above board...it is those few that makes things bad. Please stay on board!:D |
Don't stop posting! I enjoy reading your posts. I like getting different opinions and advice which was the whole reason I join forums. If you're feeling a little heated, take a break for awhile, but come back. That's what I do if I feel I'm being attacked too much. Please don't leave permanently! |
Please don't stop. I enjoy reading your posts. I too have noticed a lot of controvery lately but please don't go. Patty |
Oh Marci, feel free to speak your mind on any of my postings :) And being that this is a public forum, you really CANNOT please everyone :) |
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I know exactly how you feel. I have wanted to take a break as well. I feel like everyone is ready to attack what you have to say and to be honest, I feel like things are too competitive around here. When I first joined it was fun. No Drama or very few if any, but now OMG, too much drama. I have also run into a few people who seem to befriend you, but end up being complete phonies who lie to get people to like them. SO SO Sad. Oh well just my opinion. |
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Dont Go, Dont Go, Dont Go Otherwise Others Will And I Wont Have Anything To Do In The Evenings Ha. People Will Always Be Judgemental Just Ignore Them. I Do. |
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Please don't leave us, you would make me so sad! You can't let just a few others ruin it for you, try to just ignore. I know at times it can be hard, I know I have ran across some threads that just make me want to scream, but I bite my tongue. Please please don't you leave us!!!! We need you here, you have been a great access to YT! |
Well Marcella. There is very little we can do about changing other people, but I know I can not let them ruin my YT experience. I get frustrated at times, but ultimately, people like you are the ones that keep me coming back. So don't get off YT girl. And like Courtney mentioned (bornygirl), there are some threads that I avoid, but I still enjoy some other ones. Keep your head up and like always, keep those Layla pics coming. She's a cutie. |
Marci (is that right?) I enjoy your posts and hope you plan to stick around. :D I've been here since the end of 2005 officially and was a reader before that. Prior to YT, I have never belonged to any forum. So I had no experience. Here are the things I have learned about YT. YT rocks for many reasons: :) 1. There are so many here that you never wait days for a response 2. Just think about Papi 3. Check out any RIP thread to see how great people are 4. Yorkie meetups 5. I could go on and on People get rude and people get their feelings hurt: Often I see people say things like, "when I first joined YT, it wasn't like this". Well, and I'm sure V will attest to this, threads just like this one have come up from time to time throughout YT's history. (maybe not in the VERY beginning). There have always been controversial threads where people get heated. Choose the threads you read wisely. (that's all I'm going to say on that) Monitor your posts. Keep in mind that the tone of voice that you are using does not often translate, if in doubt, add lots of smileys. :) :) :) :) I've seen threads go down hill quickly because someone used the wrong emoticon or none at all and everyone misread what they meant. None of this is directed at OP, I think her posts are well done!!!! |
I know I don't post a whole lot. I read a ton more than I post but to be very honest I've always enjoyed reading your posts, Marcella. You come across as a very sweet person and I hate that you're feeling down. For what it's worth, I would miss you ;) |
Aw, Marci, you're one of my favorite peeps on here! Don't you go anywhere! I noticed the stuff going on that I think you're referring to - please don't take it personally. You are a sweetheart - and always SO responsive to people. There are so many opinions on here, so I know what you mean - sometimes it can feel so alienating. Just take a nice deep breath and remember that you are always kind, respectful and supportive - and how darn great is that? |
I would have to agree that lately it does seem to be getting somewhat(heated in certain threads) and it does make you feel like you dont belong, i know i took affence one time real bad and had to step back and calm down, i love it here and most people on here, but there area few who i believe to be way to judegemental,and i had a new comer pm me who also was very affended by a few:( please dont leave, i didnt:) |
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Okay...being the curious person that I am;) I decided to check out some of Marci's recent posts...to see what these rude people were saying. :eek: :eek: :eek: Marci (G I hope I've got that right), I have just read something that surprised even me.....:eek: Girl, I reported that poster to admin, I hope others did the same. Seems like they are just being rude for the sake of rudeness. Please don't let people like this send you away!!!!! Then they win. |
I know what you mean. I try to avoid posting in controversial threads. Sometimes I can't help myself so I post my opinion but I reread it before hitting the submit button. If I feel that I'm being too harsh, or stooping to a level where I don't want to go, I'll delete it rather than post it. |
You are exactly right, Gingergirlsmom! What I don't understand is this: If you have an opinion, fine. State it as an opinion. It's my right to agree or disagree with you. Hopefully, I have been raised well enough to let you know that I disagree with you tactfully. (It really IS OK to agree to disagree. I don't know why that's not enough for some people.) But if you have a question ... why ask IF YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER -- or at least think you do -- and then proceed to berate people who are genuinely trying to give you an answer!!!!:eek: Debate is wonderful. It's healthy. It had a big role in the underlying principles that even started our country.:) Abuse is not. It is not wonderful. It is not OK. :( |
Marci I hope you dont stop posting I enjoy your posts. |
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