Be glad you got to see his bad imature self before you married him. He is not a stable person. Your lucky your out of that relationship. It would only get worse.

:eek: you guys would not believe this. my friend told him i was seeing someone else and that i was planning on dumping him.:mad: now im even more pist off. i told her our friendship is over.:thumbdown and when i asked her why she did it she just to told me hes not the right guy for me.:confused: i think thats my decision not hers.

Your friend is also very immature. I think I would just back off from those who are like that. If your BF trusted you he would have not believed your friend and would have let you know what she said..........and in an mature manner.

Oh my! This was not right. Thats not her place to make your decisions. But on the other hand if he would beleive her over you that is even more wrong. He shouldnt trust someone elses word about you before asking you first. I have a friend who is in a relation ship with a jealous guy and i know hes not good for her but i would never do something to make them split up. Im there when they fight and brake up and etc. because thats what friends are for support no matter what they do.

That's why he broke up with you! :thumbdown He should have talked to you b/4 believing somebody else. Is this the slutie girl you went out with?

i am sorry but your friend is a B%^$% ... no friend should EVER do that to someone they care about .. if anything she should have set you down, let her know her concerns but not take your relationship in her own hands ...

the only time it is appropriate for someone to take matters into their own hands is if the relatinoship is abusive and you were in danger of being hurt. And to tell the bf that you were seeing someone else and making him mad is no way to go about it (if the relationship is a danger to someone .. imagine if he were jealous and mad befor eand then she told him that crap ... i don't even want to know what he'd do .... BUT NOTE PPLE THIS IS A HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION!! i don't want pple to get all riled up and crazy thinking she is in an abusive relationship b/c she has not said that)

but yes hun back to your REAL relationship, if he was smart and trusted you he would have spoken to you first and told you. I mean if someone told you that you'd be mad as heck too right? but would want to hear it from his mouth first you know? so maybe it was all a misunderstanding but taht seed has been planted, and if he is the jealous type he won't let this go easily or maybe not at all to an extent.

you're like 20 something right? Enjoy being single! you're in college and supposed to be having fun. hahaha. i mean college is fun if you havea relationship (i met my guy freshman yr.) but there's a different kind of fun when you're single. :p

So sorry to hear about this loser dumping you...Sounds like a great opportunity to be single and forget about tha jealous guy. They are NO GOOD. Trust me. I know you must be hurting, and it's gonna be hard...Just go have more coffee with your gf!!!!

hmmm is your best friend a guy or a girl?? I can understand if it's a guy why he would be a little jealous but if it was a girl then Idk why that would make him jealous...maybe there was something else he was mad at?

ooo I missed that part. Well listen to your heart....do YOU really think he's a great guy and means good when he gets like that? Or do you think he is really overexagerating? Does he bring out the better things in you? Do you know what I mean? I'm just asking since I don't know him I can't really comment but if your friend is slutty then maybe he just doesn't want you around her because he thinks a little of her may rub off on you, Not saying slutty but I mean like her attitude, the way she acts, I mean if he REALLY doesn't like her, idk

ok...so now i just read this! LOL! Well see now your friend isn't really a good friend if she did that. It's totally your decision whether he's right for you or not

i want to clear some things up :rolleyes: hes not a bad guy at all we have a great relationship. i think shes just jealous that i have someone who really cares about me. hes not a jeolous guy nor he abuses me.everytime im with him shes calling me on my cell phone i dont pick it up. so i guess she did that cause she wanted me to be single like her so we can hang out. i really love this guy i dont know what to do :(

yes thats the sluttie girl i went out with :mad:

I Think this guy was just looking for a way out and her telling him you were seeing someone else was his way out!!! If he really wanted to be with you he would have came to you and told you what she told him and tryed to get more info straight from your mouth! I would just move on without him and I know thats hard and you have YT here for you to help you through this! But I was in a relationship for 3 years and we got along great and did everything together! We never fought and never argued but I had a miscarriage our 2nd year in and everything went down hill from there! I blammed him and he was HURT! I didn't see that and I just hurt him more by blaming him! But I broke it off with him after the third year as we were fighting all the time! He started lieing to me about thhings and I didn't feel he was the same as he was when we met! Now I am married to a wonderfull man and have two children who are my LIFE! But I still talk to my ex on a day to day bases! We are like BEST friends now! And no my hubby dont mind that I talk to my ex (he knows I would never do anything to ruin our marriage!)

So I say move on and enjoy being single. This man didn't want nothing more out of this relationship and thats why he didn't come to you and ASK you abou what your friend was acuseing you of! You have to have trust in a relationship inorder for it to work..........and he simply DID NOT trust you or he would have asked not blown up like that and left!

I'm so sorry :( How upset you must be! I hope that whatever you decide to do it will make you happy and everyone will be understanding~