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twalla · 04-20-2007, 08:39 PM

How can any parent tell their child that its because of them they have problems or that their life was better off before they came along???

My heart just broke tonite when my niece finally told me what was going on with her boyfriend. Poor kid to be stuck with such parents.

Tomorrow is his birthday - they dont celebrate it, no presents, no happy birthday, no cake, NOTHING! GRRR!

I can understand if you dont have $ for presents but you know what there are things that can be done.

Oh it just makes me so mad and for them to tell him that! GRRR!!! So I went to Old Navy and bought him a few pair of jeans (that he desparetely needs) and some shirts.

Alright I just had to vent..... and it just makes me want to go over there and slap some sense into them.

Holly_QD · 04-20-2007, 08:45 PM

Yup it's sad, but it's some people's reality. When frustrations become more than one can handle, they say things that could potentially hurt others beyond measure. He's lucky he has your niece to kind of take him out of some bad situations. She probably keeps him strong.

You are soooo nice. I wish there was more people like you in the world.
Wish him a Happy Birthday from Holly and me (Laura) at YT.

Junebug · 04-20-2007, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by twalla

Tomorrow is his birthday - they dont celebrate it, no presents, no happy birthday, no cake, NOTHING! GRRR!

I can understand if you dont have $ for presents but you know what there are things that can be done.

Maybe they don't celebrate birthdays for religious reasons...

Tiggerwit · 04-20-2007, 08:59 PM

I know exactly what you mean. I wouldn't even know where to start with my stories. I'm stressed to the max with it.

You are very sweet to do what you did.

Catrina · 04-20-2007, 09:38 PM

Aw thats so sweet of you for what you did! Did he like them?

I don't understand many parents these days... why have kids if you are going to treat them like they don't exist??

AngelWorks · 04-21-2007, 03:55 AM

How nice of you!

Speaking of parents who need some help---have you heard Alec Baldwin's tirade he left on his 11 yr old's voice mail?

I have never in my life called my son a name or spoke to him in such a manner.

If you want respect from a child, treat them with respect.

No wonder all those Baldwin boys are wacky.

red98vett · 04-21-2007, 04:31 AM

That was so nice of you to do for him !!

He may have bad memories of his birthdays with his family but thanks to people like YOU he'll also have good ones....

How old is he ?? Does he have an email address ?? We could all send him Happy Birthday wishes

.....that's an awful way to grow up I agree...

What did Alec Baldwin do ?? this is the 2nd time I heard something..

BigMomma_ah · 04-21-2007, 05:01 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

That was so nice of you to do for him !!

He may have bad memories of his birthdays with his family but thanks to people like YOU he'll also have good ones....

How old is he ?? Does he have an email address ?? We could all send him Happy Birthday wishes .....that's an awful way to grow up I agree...

What did Alec Baldwin do ?? this is the 2nd time I heard something..

I agree, that's a good idea, I'd send him a happy birthday e-mail

Patti · 04-21-2007, 05:14 AM

I hate to hear of kids in those situations. They did nothing to deserve it and probably think they did. How kind of you to make his day special. World need more people like you.

twalla · 04-21-2007, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Junebug

Maybe they don't celebrate birthdays for religious reasons...

I could only hope but unfortunatley, no. They celebrate their own just not his!

onelovelylynn · 04-21-2007, 05:32 AM

From everything I have seen on tv and heard about alec baldwin...

Hes a real JERK!~!!

I have neighbors that have 4 young children, and cannot even afford to feed them proper food. The live in an expensive house and drive an expensive SUV and dress really nice. And feed there kids mac and cheese almost every nite for supper. They come over on a weekly basis borowing items like cheese and macaroni, milk, sugar, cereral, hot dogs ETC.... It just makes me so SAD!

Why have all those kids if you cant even feed them proper food. I say sell the SUV and get a little cheap car and feed them at least chicken and vegetables.. Thats not to expensive... It just hurts me to know they live like that.

twalla · 04-21-2007, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by BigMomma_ah

I agree, that's a good idea, I'd send him a happy birthday e-mail

Aww thanks everyone! He doesnt have an email

but thank you. He is 14 -my niece and her parents are having cake/present time for him this evening. SO I am sure he will love them. My niece said that he really needed some because the ONE pair of jeans he did have, had a small hole starting to form. I just dont get it and never will. I trust that God has a bigger plan for him - and what doesnt kill us only makes us stronger.

Im going to have to google this Baldwin story!

Dina_Nichole · 04-21-2007, 06:16 AM

This story just broke my heart. That poor boy

I'm so glad there are nice people like you in this world that will help him to feel special. I don't have any children, only my furbabies and I can't even imagine them going without. I spoil the heck out of them and I feel so guilty knowing that my fur-children have more clothes and are given more love then an actual human skin child. Thats just heart breaking. Your a good person and I know this boy is incredibly thankful.

04-20-2007, 08:39 PM	#1
twalla I ♥ my Furheathens Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: VAN ALSTYNE Posts: 8,226	Some people dont deserve to be parents... How can any parent tell their child that its because of them they have problems or that their life was better off before they came along??? My heart just broke tonite when my niece finally told me what was going on with her boyfriend. Poor kid to be stuck with such parents. Tomorrow is his birthday - they dont celebrate it, no presents, no happy birthday, no cake, NOTHING! GRRR! I can understand if you dont have $ for presents but you know what there are things that can be done. Oh it just makes me so mad and for them to tell him that! GRRR!!! So I went to Old Navy and bought him a few pair of jeans (that he desparetely needs) and some shirts. Alright I just had to vent..... and it just makes me want to go over there and slap some sense into them. __________________ Twalla & The Furheathens

04-20-2007, 08:45 PM	#2
Holly_QD Everyday's A HollyDay! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: TX/WI Posts: 1,497	Awwww Yup it's sad, but it's some people's reality. When frustrations become more than one can handle, they say things that could potentially hurt others beyond measure. He's lucky he has your niece to kind of take him out of some bad situations. She probably keeps him strong. You are soooo nice. I wish there was more people like you in the world. Wish him a Happy Birthday from Holly and me (Laura) at YT. __________________ Holly s Lucky and BFF Queequeg too "Every day is a Holly-Day"

04-20-2007, 08:59 PM	#4
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX Posts: 4,596	I know exactly what you mean. I wouldn't even know where to start with my stories. I'm stressed to the max with it. You are very sweet to do what you did. __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy

04-21-2007, 04:31 AM	#7
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	That was so nice of you to do for him !! He may have bad memories of his birthdays with his family but thanks to people like YOU he'll also have good ones.... How old is he ?? Does he have an email address ?? We could all send him Happy Birthday wishes .....that's an awful way to grow up I agree... What did Alec Baldwin do ?? this is the 2nd time I heard something.. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

04-21-2007, 05:14 AM	#9
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	I hate to hear of kids in those situations. They did nothing to deserve it and probably think they did. How kind of you to make his day special. World need more people like you. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

04-20-2007, 09:38 PM	#5
Catrina I love my lil wolf! ;) Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Washington Posts: 2,434	Aw thats so sweet of you for what you did! Did he like them? I don't understand many parents these days... why have kids if you are going to treat them like they don't exist??

04-21-2007, 03:55 AM	#6
AngelWorks Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: NY Posts: 1,752	How nice of you! Speaking of parents who need some help---have you heard Alec Baldwin's tirade he left on his 11 yr old's voice mail? I have never in my life called my son a name or spoke to him in such a manner. If you want respect from a child, treat them with respect. No wonder all those Baldwin boys are wacky.

04-21-2007, 05:32 AM	#11
onelovelylynn My Darling Divas Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: magnolia, Texas Posts: 1,220	From everything I have seen on tv and heard about alec baldwin... Hes a real JERK!~!! I have neighbors that have 4 young children, and cannot even afford to feed them proper food. The live in an expensive house and drive an expensive SUV and dress really nice. And feed there kids mac and cheese almost every nite for supper. They come over on a weekly basis borowing items like cheese and macaroni, milk, sugar, cereral, hot dogs ETC.... It just makes me so SAD! Why have all those kids if you cant even feed them proper food. I say sell the SUV and get a little cheap car and feed them at least chicken and vegetables.. Thats not to expensive... It just hurts me to know they live like that.

04-21-2007, 06:16 AM	#13
Dina_Nichole I Love My Munchkins! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: My Babies ♥'s! Posts: 8,765	This story just broke my heart. That poor boy I'm so glad there are nice people like you in this world that will help him to feel special. I don't have any children, only my furbabies and I can't even imagine them going without. I spoil the heck out of them and I feel so guilty knowing that my fur-children have more clothes and are given more love then an actual human skin child. Thats just heart breaking. Your a good person and I know this boy is incredibly thankful. __________________ I My Lil Furballs!! Pia Mojo ~ Trixie Murphy ~ Paisley Max Last edited by Dina_Nichole; 04-21-2007 at 06:21 AM.